Fellow TRP members and community, I am currently in a dilemma and need some insight regarding this particular issue I'm facing.

I'm relatively new to TRP and I recently unplugged and been working on applying TRP concepts and theories to my everyday life and my LTR. So today, I was having this discussion with my GF of 4 months now, about girls being cheap, objectifying themselves and whorish behavior in general.

And this is where the problem comes in. She told me that the way she sees it, or according to her, she acts the way she usually acts 'with everybody' and it doesn't concern her what messages or signals she's sending; or how are people or guys in general are perceiving her ' super niceness and cuteness and friendliness' with them. And if she needs something from someone it's okay to be somewhat 'cheap' and that "the end(her goal or what she wants) does justify the means, as long as she doesn't go above and beyond what's already her norm".

So this here, as I understand and think, this is her plausible deniability for acting that way, or acting cheap-ish or somewhat whorish. And another point we were talking about is girls attention whoring in general. And how she just acts the way she does with everyone and 'it doesn't concern her/not her problem' if guys perceive her suuuuuuper niceness and friendliness as being attracted to them or whatever. They think whatever they think. When in fact I know that all girls like being liked and have guys after them. But her, I think she somewhat might be 'intentionally' sending these signals / ignoring whatever signals the guys send back in order for her to have them chase her more and so on.

So my problem that I need insight on. Is this something that is normal with female psychology and how they act. Is this mentioned in TRP theories? About such behavior? Because that pissed me off to some extent. And she noticed I got bothered and kept asking are you okay? Is something bothering you and all. And I kept saying naaaah, it's all good. Don't be silly what would possibly make me mad. And things like that.

So is this something like how, girls never really love us the way we love them, or how they will always go for satisfying their hypergamous nature?

Thanks in advance for all the helpful insights it is very much appreciated.