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A quick tactical Ask TRP moment

Thoughtcrime85
December 25, 2013
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Title A quick tactical Ask TRP moment
Author

Thoughtcrime85
Upvotes 0
Comments 8
Date December 25, 2013 2:03 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1tnae0/a_quick_tactical_ask_trp_moment/
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Comments

[–]vaker 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Another confused poster. For clarification, TRP is not seddit.

[–]Katoska 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You have asktrp in your title, and don't put it in /r/asktrp ? Laziness.

[–]kol15 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

So what the fuck do you actually want?

I'm having a hard time discerning what the point of your post is. Are you asking if you can take things further with A? I don't know, can you?

Don't worry about making the "correct" decisions, just do what the fuck you want man.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Apologies i thought i made myself clear. I'd like to still tap girl A but i dont know whether attempting this would be feasible under the circumstances and if i were to attempt it what is the RP way of approaching the matter.

Should i address what happened? Ignore it? Bring it up pre-emptively? Apologising seems a bad move overall.

[–]still_very_alive 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

While I do agree with the general tone here, my advice would be to shrug and just move on with whatever you've planned for A. If she gets turned off you by that incident with B, just move on. IMO, if you avoid making it look like you got rejected by B and are now settling for her, it should be fine. Conversely, if you can somehow make her think you dropped B to keep it going with her (though it may be too late for that), it would be great. If she brings the topic up, just affirm & escalate, shrug it off as unimportant, whatever.

Incidentally, what did you mean by ASD response?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

ASD? Anti Slut Defence.

She was in my tractor beam pretty much immediately, being on the rebound she took my game like a dry sponge. But i managed to go from her pinning me up against a wall and eating my face like she hadnt known a good fucking in a decade, and agreeing to go home with me, to getting nothing.

Mainly because i needed 5 minutes to pack up my stuff, i should have kept her with me to keep the momentum, instead i told her to go back to her friends and I'd be out in 5. That was enough time for her to start rationalising why it was a bad idea, and that i was a "bad influence" and surprisingly while i managed to get her to stick around a little after this, and even to initiate with me again, i could not seal the deal.

I've got her number, but she's inevitably going to end up back with this epic boyfriend of hers, she freely admits to taking him back every time he cheats, so i suspect the window of opportunity has passed

[–]still_very_alive 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Heh. Now that you mention it, her boyfriend really is something, isn't he?

And yeah, looks like you should write her off.

[–]kol15 -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The "RP Way" isn't some narrow path guaranteed to take you to victory or something. To me, it's just a realistic and empirical view of the way society works. The fact that you're fretting about it so much makes you appear way too invested in this situation already.

Sure, you could play games. Use seduction strategies or some such. If that's your style, go for it.

My perspective? Do what you want, take what you want, and remain unapologetic. But, that isn't necessarily for everybody. Some like to be political, play games, or whatever. What have you got to lose? Honestly, will Armageddon come if you don't treat this situation "optimally"? Just do whatever the fuck it is you want to.

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