Hey trpfam,

A couple of week ago I took out this girl who has a bf and we pretty much pre-drank at her place, went to a bar, went to a club, back to her place and had sex the same night as well as the morning after.

She's 21, just lost her virginity two months ago to her LTR bf (also her first ever bf) back home (they see each other once a year ever since she moved to a different continent 2 years ago). She's also extremely religious so I didn't see this coming but hey, AWALT🤷🏻‍♂️

The morning after her bed had quite a bit of blood all over it and she told me she had had sex a couple of times with her bf meaning she's not a virgin and that shes not on her period either, followed by saying that I even fingered her better than her bf fucked her and said that the sex was way better than she could have imagined it being. I guess the LTR virgin bf didn't set the bar that high, lol.

Anyway, she made us some brunch after the morning sex, I showered and then left.

A week later I texted her to go out again and she replied saying that she doesn't feel very well at all since she just broke up with her bf the other day and that she's going to visit her mother and brother for the weekend since that's the only thing that will make her feel better. Told her I hope she feels better and left it at that.

Now she's coming to my town this weekend and we'll be hanging out within a large group of friends.

My real question is if i should back off since she may be going through a fucked up phase being her first breakup with her first love yadda yadda or if i should push to get laid again?

Any input is appreciated and i can provide further details on request :)

EDIT: Not lookig to LTR her, only plate