i have a friend that does this shit always tries to compete with me and compare etc i even called him out on it but idk if shits changing.. any reason to why he does this? is it some energy vampire shit? what's the reason for some one doing this shit always trying to compete/get me to compete with him/comparing. also always devalues my succeeses. he claims dark traid while being in a ltr

had a fight with him last week where he just started comparing himself and competitng trying to get me to compete with him(saying he got the twerk vid he was suppose to help me with and that i didn't yet) i have literally told him 50 times he's not the competition i don't compete for pussy and escpecially not against a "friend" idk what he doesn't understand maybe it's his mindset. he's in a ltr but he's cheating(i pushed him to cheat)

he was suppose to help me get some twerk vid but it's like he did everything he could to act like he as going to help and then try push me back for me to not get it lol. So while acting like he was going to help me get my twerk vid, this dude literally goes out his way and gets the SAME EXACT TWERK VID by himself and then when it comes time to help me with mine he says "you don't need that/get it urself" like wtf lol he was suppose to be a wingman. probably because me getting my twerk vid makes him look bad somehow or challenges his perspective?

now i called him out and he says "dude what competition plays dumb or maybe he doesn't know but he literally went out of his way and got the same exact twerk vid. I also say i give him shit like tactics and used to talk him up and he gives me nothing in return lately almost as if he's been trying to NOT make me get the twerk vid. and this fucker says "i do give you return i told you about monsters tanning gave u bodybuilding tips like wtf is that he told me about monster energy drink? probably a distraction cause he knows i was lookin for help to get my vid

also feel like this dude has been subtly trying to push me back to my beta days from like years ago lol

literally all i wanted was a talk up as a wingman to get my twerk vid i'm thinking about going out solo tomorrow and gettin this shit any advise? i've never been out solo before but i found a night club

he's been a friend for 8 years pros he used to not be like that