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beefthathasredmiddle/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:59 AM
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Well, was it your intent to bother her? You can apologize for that. I think you are over thinking it. She is just letting you know about her boundaries, it’s up to you if you want to respect it or not.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 09:01 PM
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Girl 2 isn’t happy you are sleeping with girl 1 because she knows it won’t go anywhere. Girl 1 doesn’t like the public comments because it makes her feel like a whore, and I bet girl 2 is telling girl 1 to stop sleeping with you, which only adds to the comments.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 08:43 PM
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Something that has not done something will never be good at teaching you how to do it. Sure you can, if you want to teach yourself something what do you do? That vast majority of learning you do will be from your own mistakes and experiences, not others. Sure, but you can learn other people’s mistakes, and you can teach others about them. If I have experience with a team, I can coach a basketball team to work better as a team. Wouldn’t that improve their performance? A good coach would use the e…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:26 AM
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What does that even mean man? We all draw from our experiences to teach others. A wise man once told me: A smart man learns from other people’s mistakes A normal man learns from his own mistakes An idiot doesn’t learn at all All that matters is that it makes sense, if it’s beneficial then it doesn’t matter if it didn’t come from their own experience. A good basketball coach is someone who has a good record coaching basketball. You don’t need to play the game to understand how it works and help o…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 06:31 AM
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Not playing in the NBA is a lot different than not playing a single game of basketball.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:40 AM
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You're an idiot if you'd take advice of how to become a professional basketball player from someone who's only played one game of basketball in their life. It’s the same process to get better at anything. Train, gain knowledge and take risks. Some basketball players are just simply good, they don’t understand why. Taking advice from them isn’t going to be helpful either. There is tact in self discipline and you can teach that through any medium.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:40 AM
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There is a lot in the TRP side bar, what exactly are you depressed about?
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:53 AM
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That’s really awesome, I really hope I’m as successful as you when I’m 33. Couldn’t have been easy. I guess what they say is true to a point, money can’t buy happiness, but money can buy hookers and blow. I kid, but the first part is true. That’s awesome. I think it would be a good idea to talk to a therapist. Might help to get some of this off your chest. You still aren’t over your last relationship and that’s okay. Try reconnecting with your family. I found that helps when I’m down. Don’t worr…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:51 AM
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You’ve been doing to much LSD, he literally just said he hasn’t done it.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:47 AM
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There is a difference between losing control to your emotions and being able to listen to your emotions, be able to understand them, and put them into words. Losing control is never attractive, and it’s a major flag of immaturity. Being able to express emotions property shows self awareness, intelligence and a healthy mind.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:45 AM
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I think it’s stupid. Masculine/Feminine energy is subjective. We might disagree on what we find feminine and what we find masculine. There are many things which go into account with intimate relationships. We could discuss it for decades and we would still disagree. It’s very simple when it comes to TRP. Invest in yourself, so that you might find purpose and confidence Be yourself, so that you might find peace Be kind to others, so that you might be an example for those who need it It’s the only…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:40 AM
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You’re right
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:26 AM
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It’s better if they don’t know what your actual sex-life is. It’s better if it’s a mystery
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:22 AM
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Yes and no, it’s better if they don’t know. They care more if you pass shit tests lol
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:47 AM
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Right, you don’t have to care about her friends, but if you don’t, and she can’t accept that you don’t. The LTR falls apart. So this is what you are faced with. Do you break frame and hang out with her friends? Or do you hold frame and see where that chip falls? My commitment is to her, not to other people I don't care about. Caring about a girl and not caring about her friends aren't mutually exclusive. Okay, why do you care about her?
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:01 AM
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If it’s an LTR you should probably care a bit more. You should approve of her friends. If this is not the case, you are in an LTR for just sex, what’s the point of giving commitment if there isn’t anything more to get out of it. If it’s a FWB, you don’t have to hang out with her friends, but you should enjoy her company enough where you allow her to hangout with you and your friends. If it’s a plate, then it’s only a matter of time when it breaks, so, just don’t give a shit.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:13 AM
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I’m 24. I own my apartment outright, I work a high 5 figure job. I have a good relationship with my family, and lots of friends, and I even got a few plates . I traveled in Europe a few months ago for an entire month, I paid for the whole thing. I’m in good shape, I work out regularly and have many hobbies. I play piano, paint, rock climb, jiu jitsu, and weight train. Here’s the part I normally leave out. My apartment? I inherited 75k and my family went half and half with me on my apartment. I d…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:07 AM
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Nothing is wrong with being nice, as long as you aren’t expecting anything from it.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:51 AM
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Exactly how you would game a chick with social media. Get her number, text for logistics. Escalate.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:17 AM
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Well first off, if it’s motivation, it isn’t discipline. You have to condition yourself to make decisions that don’t pay off right away. Force yourself consistently. Having a mental is a great way, yet to expensive way to keep yourself motivate long enough to build productive habits. Keep yourself organized and use a calendar and reminders. What happens if I don’t do X? Gotta stat oriented on the goal, and find satisfaction inching towards it.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 04:50 AM
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Hell no, it’s a shit test. Maintain frame. Agree and amplify. Ask her to clean it with one of her holes.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:12 AM
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Well you kinda gave yourself the answer. You want to break up with her, then just breakup with her. You want to move out, then move out.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:09 AM
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Having lint on your dick and not giving a fuck is the ultimate alpha mindset. The more lint, the better. Get out of the scarcity mindset by having an abundance of lint on your dick. If you aren’t using your lint tray as a fleshlight, you clearly haven’t read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:08 AM
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Depends on the plates. A lottery few are low maintenance and even they break after while. I like to hold to one plate and prospect for another. If the new plate fails I’ll go back to the old one and repeat.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:08 AM
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Yeah bro, this ain’t got anything to do with TRP. Maybe try again with something that ain’t so hopeless like the thoughts and could-be’s of a troubled mind like Elliot Rodgers. Nothing to learn from him,
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:03 AM
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To young for the red pill man. Live a little, comeback when your heart is broken. Focus on getting through school with good grades and athletics. Enjoy it, and set yourself up for the future. Focus on trying to become the man you want to be when you’re are 25.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:00 AM
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If you don’t know you don’t know, the idea of TRP is to vet girls so you don’t fall in love with some hoe. It’s not perfect, it’s why we say not your girl, but your turn.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 06:56 AM
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Hey that’s awesome man, get her off bumble and get her number then set up a date!
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:01 AM
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A.) This is the first time I heard anyone say that “Mother in laws hate daughter in laws more than Father in laws hate son in laws”. So not really sure where you are getting that idea. B.) Redpill does not teach us that all women are con-artists. It teaches us that women like all people aren’t the innocent damsels in distress that blue pill would have us believe. Not being innocent, and being a con artist are very separate things. C.) Mother in-laws probably hate their Daughter in-law because th…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 11:47 PM
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If in Canada, do as I do and go for drinks. If in States, go to a strip club... lol
/r/askTRP20/08/19 01:08 AM
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Yeah, don’t do shit. Just move on, no need to go out of your way to do petty shit. How does spreading more rumours make you a better version of yourself? It doesn’t, it lowers you to their level.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 06:43 AM
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You aren’t missing anything. If you find is outlook to be positive then who cares what others think.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 07:10 AM
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There are risks to plate spinning too. Marriage isn’t about love or sex, it’s about raising a family. If you want to have a family, marriage in the traditional sense is what is best for your offspring.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 11:52 PM
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Dude just she said “I afraid to fall in love with you” then all you say is: “Then okay, let’s keep things amicable moving forward” and stop fucking. You fucked up banging where you eat, take the out.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 11:44 PM
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Use google
/r/askTRP10/08/19 09:31 PM
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Tastes better than ass
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:31 AM
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I wouldn’t say so. You’d probably have to wait for an experience or multiple experiences that would change your perspective. You could read about psychology and personalities to understand just how differently and varied everybody’s perspective is. I know it sounds retarded but, I only really came to realize these things about myself after I did a fuck ton of shrooms. Also, it’s not that you don’t have enough money, you just don’t see that it’s important. Save up for one session, try it out. Wha…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:46 AM
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Maybe she doesn’t want him to think she is flaking. Maybe she’s horny, maybe it’s maybeline. Nobody knows, it’s speculation. Any adult woman isn’t going to be bothered by a guy that thinks periods are gross, periods were gross when I was 14. Now they just free lube.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:30 AM
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Girls are bad at game lol. I think that’s all this is. Hot chicks like that don’t like to be vulnerable because they are super insecure. She probably got a sense that he thought she was better than him and maybe that’s attractive to her, and maybe she doesn’t know how to act on those feelings without giving up the upper hand. So she says something completely autistic. Ed passed the shit test, because he saw her for what she is and didn’t give a shit. Other women will notice that.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:25 AM
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Anything else you can do to stay active?
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:19 AM
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Just sounds like speculation to me.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:18 AM
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Hey, that’s awesome
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:15 AM
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I read the post and I agree. (I actually didn’t)
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:14 AM
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Wouldn’t give her oral though, not unless you’re very game. Fuck it mask off
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:14 AM
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This guy fucks
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:12 AM
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Not true lol. It’s a valid thing to bring up if she’s planning on banging.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:12 AM
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Nightclubs are designed for people who like loud music, drinking and hookups. Some women like nightclubs because they like loud music, drinking and hookups.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:09 AM
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What’s something you find interesting? No harm in trying a few things out.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:08 AM
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Still sounds like you could be depressed. Meeting new and attractive women is always exciting to me. We all have bad days and good days, but when you are noticing a trend it’s probably an indication of something deeper.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:04 AM
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Not my experience at all. I’ve had many deep intellectual conversations with many women. Maybe ask yourself. “If I were an intellectual woman, where would I go?” And then go there and find them.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:01 AM
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Best advice I can give, is don’t fall into the dark triad shit. Be honest with yourself and others and accept women as they come, and accept women as they go. Be cautious but don’t hammer the doors shut. Don’t use the redpill to hate women, but use it to make yourself into a more well rounded person that can be vulnerable
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:58 AM
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If it goes like the above, I’ll be happy. I have a feeling she may bring a guy or If she brings a guy, that might be the push you need to drop that oneitis. You can stop thinking about “what if?”. openly blank me if I say hello She’s not going to do that. She reached out to you, she’s not just going to ignore you. She told you everything was cool. as she is quite a dramatic person that likes messing with my head and wielding some form of power over me. Just need to be prepared for that and show …
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:49 AM
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Well, you think that sex is shameful, so that’s probably why you feel shame if you act on those feelings. Like, who wants to get caught jerking off. I bet your parents were super conservative and rarely talked about sex or didn’t display a lot of intimacy with one another. You ain’t going to fix that overnight. Short-term, you are going to have to get better at isolating. But, you should probably seek out a therapist and talk out these issues. That being said, it’s not like your issue isn’t norm…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:38 AM
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If you want to talk to girls but you don’t feel like it, you might be depressed. Wouldn’t hurt to reach out to a therapist.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:31 AM
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1.) Yeah, you played the above fine. You are overthinking it. 2.) Don’t get to fucked up, you aren’t over her and drinking too much will bring that out in some regrettable ways. Greet her at your first opportunity. Get the awkwardness out of the way as soon as you can. Ask her how’s she been and what she’s been up to, then go talk to other people and don’t purposefully try to ignore her. Be the bigger person, show her that you two can be in each other’s company despite the past. Anything else th…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:29 AM
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Not everything is a shit test lol
/r/askTRP03/08/19 07:01 PM
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HGH does
/r/askTRP03/08/19 07:00 PM
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You get amogged when you do stupid shit. Trying to amog back is just arrogant. You fucked up, be respectful and be humble. You just annoyed a guy with your behaviour. Where you being exceptionally annoying? Then he is justified to be upset. Are you justified in being upset, just because he is upset? No!
/r/askTRP03/08/19 06:00 AM
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She probably had a fling that didn’t work out and she’s looking for a replacement. She’s trying to fuck, move for a meet and try to hookup with her. Edit: that being said, she doesn’t see you as relationship material, so, don’t catch feels. Understand if you guys keep ducking again she will branch swing at the chance.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 05:51 AM
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Depends on the vibe When I feel like seeing her again could be a day, could be a few weeks. Just depends on the vibe, what I already have planned and the relationship we had prior to hooking up. I try not to think about what I “should” be doing to emulate abundance mentality, and let myself go with the flow. That being said, if you are exhibiting behaviour of scarcity mentality you should see that as a tell that you are in a scarcity mindset and should address it. People who have abundance menta…
/r/askTRP03/08/19 05:50 AM
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Reach out to the author
/r/askTRP03/08/19 05:41 AM
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I saw an article on the national post, something do about that transgender woman taking 13 beauty spas to court over them not wanting to wax her cock and balls. I’ll see if I can find it, it was an opinion piece and the author seemed disgusted. Edit: https://www.google.ca/amp/s/nationalpost.com/opinion/rex-murphy-b-c-groin-waxing-case-is-a-mockery-of-human-rights/amp
/r/askTRP03/08/19 04:54 AM
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I read your post more. There is a difference between being a victim and being in control of shit. People don’t like complainers. But I’ve brewed some decent friendships with women by talking about fucking other bitches and the stupid shit they pull and how I game them. I’ll even talk about this kinda shit with women I’m trying to pick up. Ie. “I’m only staring in your eyes right now because a yahoo article told me chicks love that, is it working?” Or I’ll ask a chick to come over and I’ll be lik…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:03 PM
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They don’t hate you? Lol if anything people like you more.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:42 PM
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It’s the same reason why incels hate hot chicks
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:40 PM
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Hire A financial advisor
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:39 PM
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Because it’s patronizing, but idgaf. If someone is acting like an ape, I’ll tell them to calm down so we can have a discussion, if they aren’t willing, then I’m walking away. It rarely ever turns sour, they get the message and if they want their feelings heard, they need to be respectful.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:28 PM
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^
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:10 AM
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If you don’t want to validate women, just don’t give them any attention at all. I think your problem is, you just don’t want to be vulnerable and are afraid of looking thirsty. It’s probably because you read to much about how women are attention whores and are just seeking attention. You don’t have to give compliments, but there isn’t anything wrong with giving compliments and frankly it’s easier to make a connection with compliments. Just don’t shower them with compliments, and make sure whatev…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 06:15 AM
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Don’t let what other people tell you hold you back in life. Who do you want to be? What do you want to do? As long as you are willing to work towards your goals, you will achieve them.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:26 PM
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You sure? I got some pics too
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:23 PM
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Is he an asshole or something? Is your favour super embarrassing? Who do you think he is going to treat you like that? I feel like your leaving stuff out or you are being an idiot about this.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:07 AM
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Twice the pride double the fall Being humble is better than having an ego. Having self respect means you respect what your limits are aswell. Nothing wrong with asking for help. That’s why we fuck women anyways (lol).
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:44 AM
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Fuck her right in the titties
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:42 AM
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No, it’s an internship and she doesn’t directly work there. HR can’t fuck you.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:42 AM
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Meh, people say stupid shit sometimes, she probably just wanted a reaction out of you. Nothing you can do about it anyways. She’s not yours, it’s your turn. Though, I really wouldn’t stress about the comment, it was a shit test, and losing shit tests here and there aren’t a problem.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:40 AM
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You could also be a dick and start talking about chicks on campus that are hotter than her That’s just petty and helps nobody
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:33 AM
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Fuck it, mask off Just wear a condom
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:31 AM
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Quite the contrary. Introverts want to be introverts, it’s why they are introverts. Extroverts want to be extroverts it’s why they are extroverts.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 02:21 AM
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Form looks fine, lower the weight. If back still hurts, don’t do squats.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 05:50 PM
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Nope, that’s playing the ultimatum game. It’s simple, “I’m going home, I don’t want to spend time with you when you are like this”.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 06:44 AM
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If you didn’t ask her to not tell anybody it’s you to blame. Maybe she is excited and didn’t see a problem with sharing that with her friends? You can’t get pissed if you haven’t set boundaries.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 06:39 AM
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Is this a joke? Are you actually concerned of a job title that has beta in it? I get the drill sergeant shit is rampant here but man that’s the most retarded thing I’ve heard in my life. Give your head a shake. Take the higher paying job and advance your career.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 06:35 AM
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Nobody said life was easy, be thankful you realized it when you did. If you are having trouble accepting that life is hard. I’d recommend reading stoicism.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 06:32 AM
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There is a few things at play, I’ll try and break it down. A. Social media can be used for social proof, and when using online dating such as Tinder it’s pretty much the only thing you can go off of. So, I understand how she could want a genuine look at it. B. You’ve already established that social media is something that you don’t give out to anyone. You’ve already broken frame by giving it to her. C. Just because someone needs to see your social media to vet you, doesn’t mean you have to give …
/r/askTRP20/07/19 06:30 AM
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Just say you don’t have one. Or that you use it just to keep in touch with family.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 05:10 AM
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Spoke to him and he gave me approval to just go for it and not worry about the commitment until it needs to be dealt with. Feeling a lot better about this and push for the new role. Thanks for the help man.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:48 AM
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What’s next “Girl literally grabs me by the penis, literally looking into her eyes right now, does she want to fuck?”
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:20 PM
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Also you should take into account, that you never know what will be in threw years and you might end up staying there. I met my daughter's mother within two years of moving to a new city I never planned on living in and within three I had my daughter. Fast forward 12 years and I am still here. Lol that’s exactly the same scenario that my parents threw at me. Yep. Just tell him that you are grateful for the opportunity and his vouching for you, but that you couldn't provide what the guy is asking…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 08:01 AM
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He’s on vacay for the next week or so. Might not be able to reach him, but I’m thinking that’s the right call. If he gives me the all clear then no bridges burnt.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 07:44 AM
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It’s simple People who are doing well in life, whether they realize it or not. Have adopted a red pill perspective. They put themselves first, but also understand the implications of their actions. They foster relationships and focus on what’s in their control.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 07:29 AM
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Currently in leadership. 1.) Don’t care about being liked, care about being respected. This means having clearly established boundaries that are unwavering. 2.) Take the time to understand the individual needs, motivations and goals of your team. You can leverage these to hold your team accountable. 3.) Delegate, delegate, delegate don’t try to do everything yourself, you won’t be able to do it and your team will learn nothing. 4.) Make sure your team is on the same page as you Communication is …
/r/askTRP09/07/19 10:34 PM
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I like teasing in bed, and I’m competitive, so yes it’s a must for me. It’s not like you need to be amazing at sex to make a girl cum. She just needs to be really turned on. Also, if you eat out a girl, she’s obligated to return the favour, and I love blowjobs. As for getting good at eating pussy. Imagine how you would want your dick sucked, and emulate that on her pussy. Instead of a mushroom tip it’s a clit Instead of stroking its finger banging Thumb in the ass is till the same Tongue in the …
/r/askTRP09/07/19 10:28 PM
11

Shit, delete the sidebar, and replace it with “practice accents”.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:25 AM
11

If you think an accent is the thing missing from your game, you’ve got some reading to do.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:17 AM
1

I don’t think it matters, but I would say no. There is a reason why they say it’s called being vulnerable.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 09:44 PM
12

It shows discipline, people respect that.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:27 PM
5

It’s a good idea to break it off. Relationships aren’t meant to fuck with your head. It also might not be her, people create their own problems. You just might feel like you have a lack of control. Need that idgaf attitude. She’s not yours it’s your turn. Enjoy it, but if you can’t, break it off.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:27 PM
13

Nope, I don’t worry about getting struck by lightning either. Just don’t walk around with a metal pole in a thunder storm if you know what I mean.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:23 PM
2

The more successful you get the more people around try to bring you down. Listen to your heart and ignore it. People don’t accomplish great things that nobody has done before by listening to the crabs in the bucket. Put your personal priorities first. TRP is about sexual strategy, but that’s not nearly as important as your self development and career. Take vacations, sometimes you need a break. In order to be your best, it’s more productive to come back fresh then to keep working. Don’t settle, …
/r/askTRP05/07/19 04:30 AM
1

Other commenters have made this point. Lead, rather than throw out ideas. Invite her along to something, Otherwise, it’s a numbers game, girls are just going to flake no matter what.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 03:16 AM
4

Why do you get nervous? There’s gotta be something going on in your head.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 03:09 AM
0

Haha, I was going to make a post about it, but TRP rules. Song is full of TRP.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:30 AM
8

Stop reading shit online about what women want to hear. Just be yourself and talk about what you want to talk about. Like many things, there is no reward without risk. Polarizing is the easiest way to find compatibility. Be you, and you’ll attract people who attracted to the real you. It’s a much easier game when you aren’t thinking about sexual dynamics and other bullshit like that.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:29 AM
1

It’s your preference. I generally don’t. Only time I will is if the following conditions are present. She doesn’t know enough about me for it to backfire I have plausible deniability that I didn’t know she had a boyfriend I met her while out of town Otherwise it’s a no go for me.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:25 AM
1

“Would a gay guy do this?” Then grab her right by the titties Realistically, she said something autistic. Something like: “Do you have a lot of guys tell you that they are gay?” Would be hilarious
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:47 AM
2

Psychopaths don’t willingly admit they are a psychopath to themselves or others. The only times are rare cases where it’s been revealed through therapy. Even in those cases they still deny it. You aren’t a psychopath. This is good news. Stop trying to be a psychopath. That sinking gut feeling is emotion, probably shame or guilt or even anxiety. You should seek therapy, you have some issues and you need help from an actual licensed professional, not an online test. A therapist will actually help …
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:08 AM
1

Part of an LTR is trust. You need to give her the benefit of the doubt. Keep a few things in mind. It’s not evidence of cheating She has plausible deniability Confronting her about it will only undermine the relationship. It will say a few things to her. You are insecure about your relationship You think she is an idiot You think she is desperate for attention Trust me, you will gain nothing from confronting her. If you must confront her, wait till her exams are over. The conversation should loo…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:37 AM
1

Lol me too
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:06 AM
6

Cheating stems from insecurity. Why are you in an LTR with someone you have 0 respect for? You should drop your LTR and think deeply about where your insecurity comes from and fix it.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:06 AM
2

You don’t want to be a psychopath, stop watching TV
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:55 AM
19

No, Anything that says “Hey spend money and come to my camp for a weekend and we will fix all your life’s problems” Is a cult. Read the sidebar, put in the work, there ain’t a quick fix.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:54 AM
8

Meh, you can probably rent a private room last minute if a chick is dtf. Also, when I was travelling I met most people in the common area or hostel bar.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 04:52 PM
8

If you are staying in a hostel dorm, fuck in the showers. Fucking in a hostel bed is a nightmare and next to impossible.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:54 PM
1

It’s just generic conflict resolution shit. It works wonders.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:13 AM
3

Don’t do anything dramatic. Just say you’d like to see her before she leaves and after you two fuck, tell her to stay in touch and to send you pictures or whatever
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:12 AM
1

Bro, you guys went nowhere. If you got nothing better to do, then shoot your shot.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:09 AM
3

Two camps A. You don’t want to agree and amplify because you take yourself to seriously. B. At some point you do have to take yourself seriously. Now, forget about the racial slurs for a second. Here’s how I deal with anything that conflicts with my frame. Usually, I just agree and amplify because I’m witty and can clap back as hard as I need to. That being said. You give benefit of the doubt. 1st offence: A&A in the moment, then pull him aside to not embarrass him or to provoke amog behaviour, …
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:08 AM
0

Put it this way, if a chick was super loose, would you have the balls to comment on it? Probably not, and if you did, you’re an asshole. So she ain’t going to say shit man.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 02:44 AM
3

So by escalate, how far did you guys get?
/r/askTRP27/06/19 02:42 AM
1

It depends. If you have been training your whole life, and are constantly at your peak. Then yes, you will decline probably starting from 18-35 depending on the sport and genetics. However, if you aren’t a professional athlete, then your will probably see gains in anything at any time. It’s all relative.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 02:40 AM
10

Take a look at the situation lol. If someone straight up ignores you, it’s not a shit test, they are just a cunt. Have some self-respect.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 02:38 AM
2

Does she know you are only there for a limited time?
/r/askTRP27/06/19 02:37 AM
3

Yo honestly people put way to much pressure on k-close. When the chemistry is there it comes up naturally. Your probably just aren’t that attracted to her man. Took me awhile to realize that, but you don’t try and make out with every single chick you go on a date with. Sometimes there just isn’t chemistry.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:32 PM
1

I’d suck her cock so fucking good bro
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:29 PM
4

That’s out of your control man, all you can do is let her know you aren’t an option anymore and eventually she’ll move on.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:29 PM
2

It’s pretty simple man, she doesn’t want to give you her number yet.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 11:07 PM
2

Head over tonight. You were right not to force it lol. Prolly just ASD
/r/askTRP22/06/19 09:58 PM
2

That’s when it’s okay and you can enjoy it.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:58 AM
-1

It’s only a shit test for those under 6ft. You deal with shit tests as you do.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:55 AM
1

It do matter how much you invite her. Plates break or they don’t.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:53 AM
-4

Not a valid comparison. Obviously the woman wants to hear that the guy is over 6 ft. If he is actually over 6ft. He should say the truth plainly. Being over 6ft just gets you laid more. Why not be straight with it. It’s like if a woman shit test you for being fat. If you aren’t fat whatever. If you are fat, you better act cool with it.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:27 AM
1

No, women doesn’t just have inherently infitne confidence. Something like that would be intimidating
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:20 AM
1

She’s crazy, stop understanding crazy
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:17 AM
7

I still get like that. You just recognize it’s just chemical reactions in your body, and you don’t actually love her and that she’s not a good match for your lifestyle. Then to have the willpower and levelheadedness to date women who make my quality of life better, not just women who infatuate me.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:15 AM
4

Just work out and eat less it’s not rocket science
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:11 AM
-3

Just tell her your height lol. This is a problem for shorter men, not those over 6 feet. Answering a question honestly doesn’t put you in any other frame.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:10 AM
-1

All I can say is, I had a girl that tried to choke me and I didn’t like it. Believe it or not, not all women will want to get demeaned like that
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:01 AM
4

Plates don’t cost money, and it’s not like you bang them all the time. They are just chicks you’ve banged more than once. Could be banging plates yearly, quarterly, monthly, doesn’t matter.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:59 AM
2

Bottom line it’s about the energy you put off. Being genuine will always come out better than being fake. You should aspire to a point where your genuine self doesn’t have much time to put thought into texting. Though that isn’t always the case. Bottom line is, don’t think about it. It’s not just girls, people smell bullshit a mile away. People like the guy that knows he isn’t shit, more than the guy who ain’t shit, pretending he is the shit.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:56 AM
7

Ask yourself “When I hangout with these people, is it a positive experience or negative?” If it’s negative than more often than not it’s shitty friends and you don’t respect yourself enough to let them go.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 07:21 PM
0

Nah, people watch incest porn and yet have no desire to fuck their mom
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:04 AM
2

Depends. In my experience, the guys who are picking up chicks at clubs are pretty cringe. So I usually just amuse myself with the situation. If the dude is higher SMV then I’ll encourage it. The girl or the guy get uncomfortable, and all the sudden since I’m not uncomfortable I’ll look like the high SMV one. Or the girl will just get uncomfortable and say no way.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:02 AM
9

Best thing about high school girls is I get older but they stay the same age
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:49 AM
1

You don’t need to . Her getting upset does nothing to you. She’ll either get over it, or she’ll find someone else to date anyways. Bringing it up like that will just break the plate. Just don’t make promises and maintain frame, if she can’t handle that, then whatever, she doesn’t have to. That’s what Plates are.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:49 AM
3

Foursome, there’s three chicks.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:46 AM
32

The louder the music the higher your douche SMV needs to be to get laid. By douche SMV I mean the surface stuff, like lift, grooming, etc. Seriously, women will just come up to you.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:42 AM
3

All it takes is one time man. One rep that’s a little too hard and you’re on your way to snap city
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:01 PM
45

“I’ll fuck you till you love me faggot”
/r/askTRP18/06/19 09:28 PM
2

Train combat sports
/r/askTRP18/06/19 09:26 PM
1

Off topic, but you should wear a belt with any lift over your body weight. Seriously, better to be safe than sorry. Also, you feeling weak. Its probably just a confidence thing. Try training some wrestling or BJJ. You’ll find that weight and size has very little to do with winning a fight. So if you want to be good at winning fights, train combat sports.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 09:23 PM
3

“How do I make someone like me more” - Uh you don’t man, a few reasons. A. You shouldn’t give a fuck enough about a plate to want to manipulate them B. That’s commitment seeking behaviour C. You don’t want your plates to catch feels, that’s how they break.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 09:19 PM
3

Nah man, don’t worry about it.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 09:16 PM
5

Dude your fear of being friend zoned is gonna fuck with a lot of bitches. I bet you have a rule where you have to kiss on the first date. Look man, worrying about the friend zone don’t matter. Because if they date goes well and you guys click, you just have to escalate.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:59 AM
3

Is he interested in you? Did she blow you off? These questions do not matter. I think you were too keen on making the point of being busy “Hey I’m really busy, can’t you see that? Im a high value man, I’m busy, look at me. “ So maybe he less of a dick about saying your busy. Next time a chick says “maybe”. Don’t just go balls ham into I’m busy bitch. Say something more chillaxed. As in, I’m not going to let a date flake ruin my day. Just be like “cool let’s chat Friday.”
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:17 AM
1

Fucking lol
/r/askTRP15/06/19 10:25 PM
10

Don’t talk in clubs, switch to caveman game
/r/askTRP15/06/19 09:41 PM
2

Bjj, because boxing and shit hurts your brain
/r/askTRP15/06/19 09:41 PM
10

I mean man there isn’t a quick fix to this game. One day you’ll realize that nobody gives a fuck and the people who do give a fuck are losers. You should also stop drinking when your sad, that’s unhealthy.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 09:39 PM
21

Hahahahahahhahahahahhahahahahhahahahahahhahaha “I agree and amplify and said I’ll call you ambulance”
/r/askTRP15/06/19 04:46 AM
9

Dude, ffs. Read the sidebar. The cats part is in there...
/r/askTRP15/06/19 04:45 AM
24

I’m a firm believer that you never have to force yourself to socialize. You just need to put yourself into situations where socializing comes very naturally. Join a club, could be anything. Bouldering has strong communities that are super supportive, as does BJJ. Or you could join a local sports team. Maybe join a workshop or seminar in something that interests you rather than just reading about it. You could meet like minded people that way.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 02:56 AM
5

Ah I see. I’m gonna splash some wisdom on you, hopefully it sinks through. Never make your nights out about getting laid. Instead make your nights out about what you can actually do to have a good time. Example: I’m going to go to the club and practice hitting on chicks. See how it’s not about getting laid? Example: I’m going to go to the club and dance and party with friends. Reason being, if you limit you night to something that’s out of your control, you are limiting yourself from actually ha…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 11:36 PM
1

I don’t understand. What false expectations would you be setting?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 11:21 PM
10

The best nights outs are the ones where you just let go of everything and focus on enjoying yourself.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 11:15 PM
9

I don’t know what insight you need, your problems seem pretty simple. Diet is shit... well eat better I stay in bed all day... get out of bed I dont go to gym anymore... go to gym
/r/askTRP14/06/19 10:47 PM
1

Well that didn’t really answer “how” you dodged the question. Like what did you say to her? Okay, so what is it you want from the relationship? Are you looking to commit, or you trying to prevent a plate from breaking?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 10:44 PM
1

Just be less available. Occupy your time with other things. See her as much as you’d like to see her.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 10:38 PM
9

Pretend you live in a world without “signs” and just do what feels right to you at the present moment. You might find it comes pretty naturally when you are talking with the right people.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 10:33 PM
2

Need more info. How did you dodge the question? Why do you regret it?
/r/askTRP14/06/19 10:30 PM
1

The best dating advice I can give is that you shouldn’t follow any dating advice. Just be yourself man, there are no rules to this game.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:52 AM
6

Don’t game chicks that you aren’t attracted to.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 09:11 PM
10

I mean, you can fuck a chick that is married, but honestly to me, it’s not worth the time or hastle.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 09:09 PM
1

Okay. For starters, you don’t get mad or happy over other people’s behaviours You either dislike, or enjoy other people’s behaviours. It’s okay to express that whenever. “Hey I don’t like it when you Y, because X.” If they do it again, you remind them. 3rd time you accept that they won’t change or u reevaluate the relationship.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 09:08 PM
7

Take some time to improve yourself and foster emotional independence. Then hit up the dating scene.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:59 PM
6

God damnit, fuck you robot
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:17 PM
8

Be real bro, you wouldn’t do it unless there was a chick on the go.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:17 PM
4

So? What if she does?
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:08 PM
10

Bro, just go to a rub and tug, it’s cheaper.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 06:59 PM
3

Then why you stressing lmao
/r/askTRP13/06/19 06:58 PM
3

Some chicks are so tight that you can barely put two fingers in. I mean shit man, I’ve fucked chicks that was like throwing hotdogs down a hallway. Size isn’t only on you bro.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 06:50 PM
2

It depends, but mostly no. Why do you want to withhold sex? I’d say your reasoning is the most important. Afraid of STDs, pregnancy etc... sure then waiting until you have a good idea of who you are fucking can be a wise choice. Don’t want women to regret sex with you? That’s not a good enough reason. If anything it shows that they don’t have a lot of self control which isn’t ideal in an LTR.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:21 AM
31

Bro just choke her and stick your thumb in her ass.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:16 AM
1

You can just brush it aside. Or You can bring her along some of those commitments. It’s up to you.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:43 AM
16

Cars aren’t attractive. Confidence is attractive, insecurity is not.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:41 AM
7

After all, most of us probably avoid getting into staring contests with total strangers we don't find attractive or threatening. That’s why the eye contact is such a strong IOI.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 04:28 AM
24

Practice during conversations with family, friends, coworkers.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 04:27 AM
34

Yeah no fuck, because she’s now under the impression you have “day game pickup artistry” sent to your yahoo fuckin email daily. Haha, I’ve literally said that to chicks before. If your energy/confidence is good enough you can literally say whatever the fuck you want. Agree with the rest tho, but the thing is to train yourself to be calm and not look away the first time you lock eyes. It’s very difficult if you’re a porn addict/incel but it takes you up a level. True, calmness is key. I treat it …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 04:23 AM
6

Yes and no. This has to do if she is attracted to you. So, it’s no in that regard because if you have low SMV you aren’t going to be making too much eye contact with women. However, if it does happen, it’s not because she’s thinking about how pathetic you look. 100% of the time it’s because of some level of attraction.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 04:16 AM
1

Hmm no, just stop trying to arrange a date. If you and your boys go out, tell her to come and bring friends.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 12:14 AM
5

You are over interpreting
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:17 PM
1

Lol what a cunt
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:29 PM
1

If you think about it, that’s what it comes down to.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:16 PM
3

What do you mean work? The red pill isn’t a prescription, its theory on female behaviour and sexual strategy, you either believe it, or you don’t. Long story short, it’s about minimizing the effects of rejections. So, in that aspect it works.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:19 AM
1

Not my experience at all. It’s more of a neutral thing, it’s not about attraction.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:37 AM
2

Generally your going to have to make some sort of choice. It’s going to come down to spending less time with plates, or not. That being said, if your friends don’t like your lifestyle, why are they even your friends? Being mad that you don’t spend enough time with them is one, but not approving of your behaviour? That’s a little more worrisome
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:36 AM
4

Go to mgtow
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:50 AM
1

Basically pretend as if anything was normal, escalate and fuck her? Not pretend, but yeah. Maybe even tease her about it. Or don’t, but I like to do that shit because it’s hilarious and I can pull it off. It also shows you don’t give a fuck. While obviously seeing other girls. You don’t have to man, just be open to it and don’t deny yourself opportunities because of this chick. Basically, you aren’t committed to her, so don’t act like it.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:46 PM
1

Dad leads the family unit, mother supports it. Everything else is variable.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:16 PM
0

This makes no sense
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:15 PM
3

Just say your busy and you aren’t on your phone a lot. If she can’t handle that, that’s her beef.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:14 PM
4

You have been with her for two weeks and she is your gf? RIP bro, she’s gonna cut your dick off
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:14 PM
3

Depends on what you mean by fat. But I’ve seen plenty of women dating dudes that are uglier than them.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:11 PM
1

Don’t start shit man. Just avoid them and don’t think about it. Don’t hang around them with alcohol unless you got buds who can back you up in case they start shit. Otherwise, do your thing.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:09 PM
2

Keep telling yourself that
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:08 PM
2

AWALT bro, treat her like any other girl. And why you worried about thirsty boys and white knights? Those aren’t the dudes that are gonna cuck you. Stop being worried, enjoy the time with her and just take one step at a time. As soon as you story worrying about a shitty outcome is when that outcome happens.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:07 PM
1

Stop drinking soy then
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:03 PM
8

Ur fucked lmao
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:00 PM
2

If you are doing game right, you don’t have to pay the bill. Because when you are out getting drinks and shit it’s a casual and spontaneous thing. Now, if you were like “hey let me take you out to lunch” then yes you pay. Now if you were like “let’s go for lunch here, or let’s hangout and get some drinks” then no you don’t have to pay.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:00 PM
1

Okay, here’s a few things for you. A. Dudes lie about banging(or in your case “making out” lol) chicks. Your friend might just be trying to sound like a chad. B. Even though he could be lying. AWALT. He probably isn’t lying, and they did make out. This shouldn’t bother you because AWALT. So learn to accept that girls make out and fuck and it doesn’t matter how “goody twoshoes” they are. If you aren’t getting it yet, she put herself in a situation where she slept over at a dudes house. Either she…
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:55 PM
5

No idea bro, I ain’t a doctor. What I do know, is people like that ain’t worth the time.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 08:41 PM
7

Dude she’s just playing games. She’s desperate for attention and is willing to hit up your friends to make you jealous and to voluntarily withdraw herself in order for you to give her more attention. This isn’t just AWALT, she’s trying to manipulate you. Cut contact and move on.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 08:09 PM
1

Hey bro, ever heard of blue balls?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 10:24 AM
1

Live fast, eat ass and die with a fistful of STDs
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 10:23 AM
1

Oh dude, I left out the creepier shit for the kids here. So in the states you guys learn Spanish in highschool, and like cool whatever. After we fucked she was speaking to me in this broken ass remedial Spanish. It was cringey as hell, maybe she thought it was hot or something? I don’t know. She’s fucked.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 10:22 AM
2

The craftiness of a Jew and a Muslim. You were in trouble from the start
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 09:20 AM
1

They call it falling in love for a reason, you gotta let go. It seems like your looking for any reason not to let go. I get it man, it’s scary. Love can hurt, and a lot of guys here are afraid of it. Don’t be afraid of love, it’s a powerful thing. TRP is about identifying red flags with women, and having the strength and abundance to be able to cast unworthy women aside without getting attached like little cuck boys. If you’ve done the ground work, your fine, it’s a calculated risk. Good luck.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:28 AM
7

I rinse out the condoms to test for holes
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 07:05 PM
19

Yes she was bro, can’t stop thinking about her... I’m thinking of texting her, what should I say? I feel like saying hi is too forward you know? Should I just send a funny meme?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 06:56 PM
-7

A good girl who’s virgin wouldn’t fuck a random raw in a crowded room. Girls will lie about their N count to feel less slutty Bad bitches gotta lose it somehow
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 06:45 PM
-13

Well definitely not anymore Sorry Man, just tired of these types of comments. Like obviously I screwed up, don’t have to be a dick about it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 06:28 PM
1

Alright, I don’t have the time to argue with you anymore. It also just seems like this ain’t going to get anywhere since you are making assumptions. Have a nice day.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 06:02 PM
-2

Bro, I made a post literally saying “wear a condom”. What’s done is done, but you guys want to insist that, she has HIV because her mother had it, and she shares needles. I’m not going to sit here and entertain a 1/10000000000 chance that one of the scenarios is true. Especially if it doesn’t matter anymore. Because I’m not gonna freak out over something I can’t change. Sure in the future it matters, that’s fine. Cool, moral of the story wear a condom? Literally the title of my post. Maybe if yo…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 06:00 PM
-3

Sure, I get it. Act like all women are like this so you don’t get fucked. Obviously I learned my lesson, which made me want to make a post. But it should be said, what’s done is done, and I’m going to use whatever logic I have to prevent myself from stressing the fuck out over nothing. You understand?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:53 PM
3

A few reasons: A. That’s what I said to her B. It’s not like I was going to say “oh well, I didn’t cum in you, so it’s very bold for you to say you are pregnant right now” definitely way easier to just say “I didn’t cum” C. I wanted her to give me head, so saying I didn’t cum might provoke her to give me head. D. Wanted to squash her idea that she might be pregnant. I’m sure there are other reasons, but the main reason was is that, it was relevant information that might make her stfu about havin…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:50 PM
16

I think it’s pretty obvious that it’s a joke. I’m not going to make it easy for your robot algorithm to pick up on obvious sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:33 PM
-1

I never said she couldn’t get pregnant? What are you smoking
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:33 PM
-14

Dude... you are thinking way to hard about this. Everything you are saying is common sense bro. Get tested, wear rubbers. Blah blah blah. Her being a virgin or not is irrelevant. I’m in a idiot for not wearing a rubber. Like move on bro.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:32 PM
14

No dude, like ever since birth, I’ve been rock hard.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:27 PM
3

Of course not, just the chances are much lower obviously.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:26 PM
8

The moral of your post is that you're an idiot. Putting that English major to good use, thanks tips.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:16 PM
33

Sherlock Holmes? Is that you? Your deductive Chad logic is unmatched
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:15 PM
-9

Bro I ain’t out here fucking crack whores
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:04 PM
8

Yeah sure that’s possible man, but pull that stunt... idk in your home country? Not backpacking with people you will never see again? If she was smart enough to pull that shit, she’d do it at home. But I agree, I was stupid. Shoulda worn a condom.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:03 PM
-16

Hey she also fucked me without a condom
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:02 PM
-30

Man I totally agree with you that I’m the retard in this situation. But your reasoning behind is just stupid and reeks of incel. Not every women is a psychopath, the only thing that makes me a retard is not wearing a condom.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:01 PM
5

Yeah, and latex tastes like ass and cumming in the mouth is a must for me. But stds and babies ain’t worth the better nut... right?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 04:54 PM
-14

She said she was a virgin 😇
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 04:52 PM
10

Ew. Idk, never had a chick ask or try to grab the condom after sex. It just seems natural for the man to take the rubber off. It would be weird if the woman tried to get rid of it herself.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 04:50 PM
2

Not a problem for me, my dick is always rock hard
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 04:28 PM
6

Wrong, when you jerk off like me, it’s hard to nut in anything that doesn’t have a white knuckle death grip. Only half kidding, I’ve always had problems lasting too long in bed, the cramped up space of the dorms, and trying to be quiet made it impossible.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 04:27 PM
14

I literally told her “Hey your freaking me out right now” and she’s like “I was just joking”
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 03:31 PM
13

Lol cuz you don’t get laid?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 03:11 PM
95

Alright, don’t close your eyes during sex? We need to add that to the side bar, cuz fuck that noise
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 03:10 PM
16

Asia... the land of the free?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:53 PM
16

I know, but definitely would have made my chances much higher if I came.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:49 PM
25

She has my Snapchat, and I’m from Canada, she’s from the States. She has enough info to track me down if she needed to, and I’d bet Canada would have no problem making me pay for something lmao. I’m just not going to think about it, and never open her snaps lol.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:46 PM
83

I didn’t dodge shit, the bullet just missed 😅
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:15 PM
1

I don’t know why I keep coming back to this sub, it’s turned into an autist forum
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:27 PM
1

To rock climb lol
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:19 PM
1

Yeah, okay, fair
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:45 AM
1

I mean sure. But the value of a man is subjective from woman to woman. You could say that cultural backgrounds have an influence
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:39 AM
1

Keep her on the back burner, invite her out when you go out to bars/clubs etc.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:38 AM
1

Not really what he was saying lol.
/r/seduction02/03/19 09:31 PM
1

Luck don’t exist bro, just a word we use to explain positive things we don’t have an explanation for.
/r/seduction02/03/19 09:29 PM
5

Take away the misogyny and TRP is everywhere. Just don’t mention “redpill” and just talking about the underlying principles. I’ve even talked about it with some feminist types and they agree with a lot of the ideas. Like any kind of lifestyle philosophy it’s about focusing on yourself and finding a purpose that’s within your control. Paying loyalty to what truly matters. People come to TRP because they pay too much loyalty to women they don’t even know. TRP is about obliterating that idea. It’s …
/r/askTRP24/02/19 07:06 AM
1

Yeah, just talk to her in class.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:48 AM
1

Happy cake day No, I should give a fuck. Going to have to disagree with you there. I wasn’t asking for advice on how to tell him to not do it, but how to do it while minimizing the risk. That’s what friends do.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:47 PM
1

Super jealous
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:45 PM
1

Go dye your hair
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:01 AM
1

Go dye your hair
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:56 AM
0

Go dye your hair
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:47 AM
3

Hahahahaha I did the same when I heard about it. Its like they are talking to themselves
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:28 AM
2

I don’t think it’s possible, but Whisperingeye has been none to corrupt the strongest of agents
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:23 AM
3

He knows she is crazy, he’s just a horny bastard. He thinks because she is crazy, the fuck will be that much better
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:20 AM
13

I’m going to screen shot this before it self destructs in 10seconds. Thank you, this is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you for your service
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:18 AM
2

Wait it’s actually “live, love, laugh with kirill and Kevin”
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:52 AM
1

Oh fuck that. She’s fucking nuts, she’d kill me
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:49 AM
1

We have the evidence in our group chat. She’s fucked, it’s great hoot laughing about it. We have a literal voice mail recording of her saying his delayed responses are giving her schizophrenia and she is a diabetic and can’t deal with it. Yeah true, i guess we’ve all been there. You ever listen to Kirill and friends podcast? Kevin is an absolute beauty and it’s amazing the type of shit he does to avoid getting cucked by chicks
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:48 AM
1

Let’s be real here, we are all bitter faggots. You are just a retard
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:43 AM
1

All of the boys are in full agreement she is crazy. I’m not meddling, I just want to give him the tools so he’s prepared for if shit gets nuclear. We are good enough friends where we can speak candidly and not get butt hurt over it.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:42 AM
4

Second best piece of actual constructive advice this post has got so far. So thank you.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:40 AM
2

The problem is he knows she’s crazy, and he just wants to fuck cuz he knows it’s going to be a good lay. he needs to wear a rubber, he needs to do it at her place, he needs to keep his cool if she says crazy shit... as he doesn’t want it to go nuclear. He needs to keep text messages (or snaps that are relevant) especially ones that are evidence of or imply this woman’s consent in case things do go nuclear. Exactly the stuff I’m looking for, thank you. I don’t understand the fuck is happening wit…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:39 AM
2

Mmm I could link redpill shit, but Idk if I want to. I assume having a tape recorded ain’t a bad idea either. He is such an idiot he’s like “I know she is crazy, but crazy gives good fucks and I love to fuck” I’m like bro, u gonna get ur ass fucked in prison if you fuck this chick. He’s like don’t worry, I’ll bring my own condoms, won’t take her back to my place. I’m like cool but man idk if that’s enough.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:34 AM
6

Okay, thanks Ghandi
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:26 AM
1

What the fuck are you saying?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:23 AM
-2

Man not everything is fucking oneitis. Go dye your hair
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:23 AM
3

Yes, identifying crazy is not the problem here. Friend has identified crazy and wants to bang regardless. What precautions can he take?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:22 AM
-1

Read the fucking post dick wad I said “WHAT ADVICE CAN I GIVE THAT WILL HELP HIM”
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:19 AM
3

I know my friend a lot better than you do. He ain’t gonna resent me for it, but he may not listen. But I’m not going to go “he might not listen, so fuck it I’m just not gonna do anything”. That’s a pretty shitty attitude. Besides. I don’t know what advice I’m supposed to give. I’m sure there are some precautionary stuff he can do, that some of the more experience trpers can give. So thanks.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:13 AM
3

If I can’t convince him not to do it, then so be it. But I can at least advise on some precautions to take to avoid getting rape accused etc. This guy is my best friend.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:08 AM
1

If a man is going to get raped by a women. It’s usually at a pedophile age, and that shit has some long lasting effects on a man’s psyche. Otherwise, it could happen with drugging and shit or other means, and I could garuntee it’s terrible experience. Rape is just terrible all around.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:29 AM
2

Spending money is always greater than saving money. Just don’t spend on things that don’t last. Ie. eating out
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:34 PM
1

It not hard to grasp that people are full of shit. Is that so hard to grasp? Read his post history.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:03 PM
1

Lol just read comment history
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:02 PM
0

Lol your full of it
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:30 AM
1

The explanation is very simple. They don’t give a fuck. Alpha fuck/beta bucks is retarded and has no use on a fundamental level. Focus on yourself, push your comfort zone and enjoy the experiences and people along the way.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:23 AM
1

You sound like an edgy tween.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:16 AM
3

Man, stop worrying about what to say and just enjoy the banter. Have fun with it, it’s supposed to be fun. This ain’t battleship man.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:10 AM
1

Man, just delete social media already. Stop worrying about shit like this.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:07 AM
3

Why did she act this way? Re-read your post very carefully. You will find the answer. I’ll take 2 bucks for my wisdom.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:02 AM
1

True, but I don’t find it to be very practical in communicating with others. Maybe I can read more into it.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:35 PM
1

???????
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:35 PM
1

Sorry wait, what’s your argument? Have some self-awareness.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 04:34 PM
2

Playing your strengths is the best way to play up your weaknesses. That’s kind of the point of MBTI. Find out what you are good at, and focus on it. It’s all about finding balance. I’ve been watching a lot of CS Joseph on YouTube and his podcast, he has his critics but he got me pretty hooked on the whole thing. Watch his video on INFPs and see what you think
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:59 AM
2

It’s used practically in business, it’s taught in post secondary courses including psychology and business. Horoscopes aren’t. Comparing the two is a stretch no?
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:47 AM
1

Tests can be pretty inaccurate. You can learn how to type yourself by looking of functional stacks
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:45 AM
3

aren’t being introverted and outgoing at the same time kind of impossible? Not at all. That being said, a true introvert isn’t really going to care to much about being outgoing. The need to be outgoing probably comes from being an extroverted with failure to launch. And is getting depressed and anxious out of boredom and lack of social interaction. Each type has 4 Ego Functions. Which are the functions you use when you are in a “flow state”. The last function in that stack is your most uncomfort…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:44 AM
2

That’s a stretch lol
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:27 AM
1

It’s easier when you see how people are acting. What they like to talk about, how they respond to direction, the pace at which they go through tasks, etc. But if I were to take a guess that is probably wrong it sounds like Ti parent and Fe child or a Ti inferior and Fe dom. Could be an ENTP, ESTP, ESFJ or ENFJ Or Ti child and Fe parent (ENFP, ESFP).
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:23 AM
1

I might, maybe when I have a little more experience with it. I’ve only taken up MBTI recently as an interest for my work. As it’s pretty common in business and I work in leadership. Though I could see how it could be useful for personal relationships too.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:13 AM
4

That’s not true. MBTI is about cognitive functions and what you primarily use to perceive and act with the world. Being introverted doesn’t mean you can’t be outgoing. That being said, mistypes with tests are common, as if you aren’t in a healthy and confident state you’ll answer the questions with insecurity. I’d recommend reading into functional stacks.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:10 AM
1

What’s up Craig
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:09 PM
1

Lmao, that’s literally what my friend ended up doing
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:08 PM
2

Right? The whole time I was thinking “you are like 10 years older than me, and clearly have learned nothing in life”
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:07 PM
2

Yeah no doubt, but sometimes miserable cunts demand attention. I felt like I had to at least say something. The first time she said something stupid I agreed and amplified, second time I ignored her, 3rd time I gave it to her. The best part of it was she was forced to leave and take a cab home.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:07 PM
1

Oh my yes did we fucking laugh about it. We couldn’t even believe it. Just the pure audacity of some people is just unbelievable. When I was going in on her, everyone was telling her to just shut up.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:05 PM
1

Like my god man. The other older girls were fine and cool. When she was giving me shit I just couldn’t help but laugh at her. She’s just a miserable cunt, and it’s a miracle she has any friends
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:03 PM
2

Yes, probably not worth your time, as are all shit tests lmao
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:57 AM
1

Man you missed the memo. TRP isn’t about getting laid, it’s that it’s pointless to try and get laid. So, stop making everything you do about getting laid. “I’m going to make me into a better man so I can get laid”. Dude, that’s pathetic. Be a better man, for you.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:55 AM
1

It should say. She wants commitment, if you want to give her commitment then take her out. Might be too late tho
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:13 AM
3

Nah, I think OP played the alpha card to hard. Too much push
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:12 AM
0

Can’t tell if satire or autistic
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:11 AM
13

This guy has so much sex damn
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:06 AM
5

I don’t understand what the bottom line is. None of the information in the article is new.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 12:02 AM
2

Example : A friend of mine once started calling me gay because of my dildo collection. Hmmmmmmmmm
/r/askTRP28/01/19 03:17 PM
1

You should ask your therapist
/r/askTRP26/01/19 10:40 AM
4

People give you passive aggressive comments and smirks because they don’t respect you, but you should ignore it. When you can, eliminate those people from your life. It’s hard to earn someone’s respect if they don’t respect you. If you can’t eliminate them, you need to find win-win scenarios, or get commitment from them. “Hey I need you to do the dishes” passive agressive “Surrreee” dishes don’t get done “Hey I thought you said you were going to do the dishes” “Uhh no i didn’t?” “Yeah, you did, …
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:59 AM
1

You don’t need to calm down, you need to lead! Always be leading, especially with picking up women.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:19 AM
1

All in all, don’t get distracted from what’s actually important, but still have fun and be social. Just don’t have so much fun that it impacts your studies/goals.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:17 AM
0

Depends. What do you want with your plate? Do you want to be a thing? Or, are you unsure? If unsure, be honest about it. “I don’t know” or “haven’t thought about it” literally all you have to say. If no. You can tell her no. Or you can say what you would say if you were unsure. Just don’t tell her yes, or imply that you are looking for a relationship. If yes, we’ll you probably want to clarify what a “thing” is to her. A thing is probably different for everyone. That being said, it’s still bette…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:12 AM
3

It sounds like she thought you weren’t interested. Odds are girls are more insecure than you. Put yourself in her shoes. Picking up chicks at a bar is all about leading. In that case where you had a girl come up to you, and start asking questions. She’s leading. You need to take the reins. Bring her into your frame, and give her a taste of what it’s like to be around you. You just answering questions and not being engaged isn’t going to drop any panties. If anything it makes it seem like you wan…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:04 AM
18

You should see a therapist
/r/askTRP26/01/19 07:41 AM
3

Alpha is leading, it’s logic and action. Beta is providing, it’s emotion and response. What women find attractive is a man who can showcase leadership. Whether consciously or not. What make a man attractive is primarily his ability to lead and secondarily his ability to care for those that matter to him. A leader who is desperate, is a leader who has nobody loyal to him. Red flag. A leader who does not support those he leads, is not a leader, but someone who is selfish and unreliable. Red flag. …
/r/askTRP25/01/19 05:22 AM
2

Male attractiveness is about merit. It’s about your ability to provide(Beta) and to lead(Alpha). It’s all relative to a woman’s social circle. Looks alone won’t get you laid. It’ll spark attention, but that’s it.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:48 AM
0

There are some massive perks of having female friends. You’re talking out your ass.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:41 AM
5

Oh you weren’t being a pussy? Your lack of social life is your choice right? That’s why it bothers you so much. You chose this life, how dare he point that out. Yeah, that’s what’s making you upset. The audacity of this man. Not that you actually long for a social life. yet are too anxious, scared or insecure to actually talk to people and build relationships. But let’s pretend you actually enjoy being a loner. Why do you let it effect you? That’s what you want right? Is it because you care what…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 09:55 AM
2

Hehe this guy jerks off
/r/askTRP23/01/19 07:55 AM
1

You need to remind him, and get some sort of commitment from him. Tell him to block her shit on social media and move the fuck on. If he doesn’t he’s gonna lose his mind. If you find out he’s cracked you need to tell him straight up that’s he’s being pathetic, and It’s no wonder they broke up. Tell him to man up and take some god damn control in his life. Sometimes you gotta knock people down to bring them up, that’s what mentors and friends do when the time calls for it.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:20 AM
1

Do you want you friend to be happy? You can tell him how it is. He ain’t going to like it, but if your his friend and you want to help him. You need to show him how to get over it. Otherwise he will just feel shitty and think your a dick. Don’t mention the redpill btw. But talk to him about what he is doing and remind him of what’s more important. He might not like it, but one day he will appreciate it. That’s what friends do. All these other incel wanna be chads that are commenting don’t know w…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:17 AM
0

Just because you can’t talk about fight club doesn’t mean you cant teach someone how to fight
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:11 AM
2

Then he wasn’t a good friend to have.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:11 AM
1

While he is at it should he stop by the local coffee shop and bang all the baristas in the bathroom too?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:10 AM
2

That’s a terrible way to be a friend. OP should either work indirectly to help his friend get over his oneitis by exposing him to other girls. Or help his friend by calling him out. Sometimes being a good friend is telling your friend the truth no matter how much it hurts.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:09 AM
3

Bullies don’t bully “introverts” they bully pussies. You were being a pussy, and it made him feel powerful.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:05 AM
8

Jerk off with a really tight grip, you’ll last a decade
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:01 AM
14

I thought I was commenting on a different post
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:01 AM
7

Jerk off with a really tight grip, you’ll last a decade
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:00 AM
2

Depression is definitely an illness, it has real physiological effects on your body and mind. A lot of people just misdiagnose their apathy for it. Great job with beginning to turn your life around. Just don’t get stuck in a mindset that others are stupid or lazy, or that your superior than others, simply because you’ve adopted a different perspective. I know that’s not exactly what your doing/thinking, but self development can easily turn into that and it will blind you.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:37 AM
1

Estrogen also plays a role since when youre an heavier bodyweight I don’t need a source for this. Who said anything about lifting being at a heavier body weight? Literally the person in question said he was skinny. Lifting is about improving muscular performance. There isn’t a source, but the dictionary definition on “weightlifting”. the fat helps you calm down from a instinctual standpoint and hormonal. Fat calms down hormones and instincts? Maybe obesity, but fat? But remember we were talking …
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:40 PM
1

I’m not even asking you to cite resources or anything. I just want to see what line of thinking resulted in such apparently absurd conclusions. Oh please, burden of proof? This isn’t an essay or court hearing. I’m not going to waste my time searching for articles that you ain’t gonna read. I just want to show whoever it is reading your comments, that your wrong. As it’s terrible advice and it leads people down a path that is unhealthy. And the proof is clear as day, calling me an idiot, saying I…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:18 PM
1

Again, I don’t understand how that is relevant. If you aren’t willing to stick up for the advice you’ve given. Why even bother commenting in the first place?
/r/askTRP13/01/19 06:43 PM
2

Lifting isn’t about losing weight. It’s about building muscle. Your estrogen comment is irrelevant and frankly, wrong. Lifting is self-help, and far from being traditional. Physical work does not equal lifting. Lifting is going to a gym, and purposefully pushing your physical limitations to grow muscle. Physical work, the work you might be referring to, does not have that purpose, even in the slightest. That being said, not every male was involved in intense physical work. With all that being sa…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 06:39 PM
6

This couldn’t be farther from the truth. Lifting isn’t about having a superiority complex. It’s about improving yourself.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:52 PM
7

You shouldn’t reward childish behaviour by indulging in her insecurities. That being said, you shouldn’t punish her for expressing her feelings. Be empathetic, and tell her you understand why she is feeling that way. Explain that there isn’t anything you can do to prove her otherwise, and she has to decide either to believe you or not. She might say something like “Well, let me see your phone.” You can’t let her do that. It’s not about keeping secrets, it’s about trust, and come back to how she …
/r/askTRP11/01/19 11:36 PM
1

Progressive overload, seriously look it up.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 11:08 PM
1

Welcome to the asktrt subreddit
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:49 AM
7

Second this, but 1hr would be too much to start.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:14 AM
5

He is obviously trying to cut fat, people cut weight all the time. You’ll lose fat faster than muscle, it’s way more effective than trying to find the sweet spot between packing on muscle faster than fat. It’s like the unicorn of dieting.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:13 AM
3

Man don’t lower your calories too low. You need nutrients. Supplement cardio, and adjust macros. Meal timing, lots of water, get enough fats, and get lots of protein. If you lower your cals too much, you’ll damage your metabolism and it will become very easy to put that weight back on. Slow and steady wins the race. I’d honestly hire a PT to get you to the next level.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:12 AM
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Weird flex but ok
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:09 AM
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If you adopt a certain perspective over anything, you’ll act on it. 1st step of RP is to read and adopt that perspective. If I were to sum it up “People, including women are self-serving”. 2nd step of RP is how to navigate yourself in a world where in general people don’t give a fuck about you. Long story short, you aren’t going to have an RP handbook with you to show you how to act all the time. The more you see the world as it is, you’ll be quicker to adapt to circumstances that come up. There…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:26 PM
1

Difference between BP and RP isn’t about ethics, it’s about perspective.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 09:53 PM
1

Yeah, one of the biggest things I’ve learned is that there will always be people who don’t respect you. It’s up to you to cut them out, and choose friends who treat you with respect. The people who you deal with know, their opinion might change, or it might not. That’s their choice, all you can decide is if you are willing to put up with it. Which should be a definitive no.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:37 AM
3

Leave the country. Speak to nobody.
/r/seduction02/01/19 10:21 PM
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Man, shit that ain’t easy. Hope your doing okay. I’d just get rid of her on all platforms, and not talk to her. Obviously she isn’t the person you thought she was when you started dating. You made the right call telling her it was over. Stay focused on Law School, you don’t want your studies to get fucked over some break-up. Focus on what’s important, time heals just stick through it.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 10:11 PM
5

Best comment on this post
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:13 PM
9

Just don’t comment if you don’t read the post.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 04:44 PM
1

I’d just be upfront, don’t make promises you can’t keep.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 06:10 AM
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There is a difference in holding frame, and projecting a frame. Frame is about who you are, what you are comfortable doing, what interests you, how you spend your time. When your project a frame, it’s fake, you try to become a man you simply aren’t yet, it makes you look like an idiot.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:02 PM
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We’ll see how it goes, but I feel it’s the best way to handle relationships in general. It just can be difficult to accept at times that some people won’t like you for who you truly are, but that’s also life. Once you accept that, dating/relationships/friendships become a whole lot less stressful.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:02 AM
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I’m still figuring that out. I just try to be myself as much as I can, if I enjoy their company aside from sex, and they stick around then I’d be willing to invest more. Other than that, I’d keep my eye out for red flags, and see if she can fit within my frame.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 03:40 AM
2

Well, I eventually want kids. An LTR would serve to see if that person would be a good parent. I’d marry that person if I was confident she would fit that role well.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 03:15 AM
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Then find a girl who doesn’t want kids, or can’t have kids. Is living with someone a must for you? If it is, you have your answer.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 02:55 AM
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I’d say only marry if you want a family. If that’s your what you want out of a relationship then you have your answer.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 02:47 AM
1

Sure, if she had a sister, and her sister is hot, would you not think her sister is hot? And would you seriously bring that up with your GF? Your insecure in the sense if you let it bother you to much, but she shouldn’t have made those comments
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:13 AM
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I don’t think your being completely unreasonable. What if she said the same thing about your dad? You could have definitely told her, you don’t like to think of your brother that way, and don’t appreciate her brining it up.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:03 AM
1

Lmfao
/r/askTRP17/12/18 07:34 PM
2

Yeah, were gonna chat tonight over the phone. She sent back a super long reply and I was out with friends, so I told her to just call me after dinner.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 03:21 AM
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Yeah, I just texted her saying that shit isn’t going to fly. Based off the other guy’s advice.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 11:45 PM
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Hey, that’s some sound advice. Thanks
/r/askTRP16/12/18 11:08 PM
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True I like that, your right. Should I just let her know now, or let it stew for a bit. I think being upfront is more my style, and if anything is going to work out, she needs to know games ain’t cool.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:45 PM
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How would I even go about calling her out? My default would just be “I don’t like it when girls play games, yesterday you did, and if this is going to work I’m going to need you to be upfront” I’ll probably avoid that line, and just try again and act like nothing happened. Though I want to hear about what you’d think about calling someone out over that.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:33 PM
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Well let’s look at the problem of women not wanting you. Is that something in your control? Can you make somebody think a certain way about you? The answer is no. There isn’t anything you can reasonably do to make somebody like you. So, let’s you are stuck on this Earth, in a world where women don’t like you. What do you do? You try to find fulfilment in other things. Surely there are thing you like? And if you don’t, you’ll be miserable. Logically, that’s your best option. Find something you ca…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:09 AM
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Hey, if you are serious about being depressed you should seek professional help. A big part of being a man, is about facing your problems with solutions. Right now I’m dealing with bad anxiety for the 2nd time in my life. When it first happen two years ago, I realized I was going down a path that I may not return. Now that my anxiety is back, I realize I need to take better care of myself, and sometimes you need help from others. I’m seeing a doctor on Monday, as I don’t want this wave to affect…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 01:55 AM
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Well figure out what exactly you are doing, and do it well. If you can’t do it well, find something else to do. It’s easy to get promoted when you do your job well, you don’t even have to ask for raises. As far as setting goals go, try to figure out what you would like to do. Then, think about the competencies need to have that job. Then, work on developing those competencies. Ex. If you want to be a police officer, communication is important, so get a job as a sales rep. Then try your best at t…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 12:09 AM
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It’s not incest if it’s your 3rd cousin twice removed
/r/seduction15/12/18 08:21 PM
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100%
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:53 AM
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Hahahahahahahhahahahahhahahah
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:52 AM
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For the first one, I did agree and amplify later on. When the context asked for it. I also did pressure flip, later on, I said “maybe I’ll learn something from you” I did, I implied that I had seen other girls. I was saying “none that I liked, my last girlfriend was in high school, haven’t met anyone I’d consider my girlfriend since. “ and she was like “ why is because you have been to focused on your career?” I was like “well yeah, it’s important to me, and it’s not easy to find someone who und…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:25 AM
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Hey I appreciate that. I just told her “is that a no to dinner or?” It’s funny you say that too, cuz her friend is 19, and her friend lied about it to, but when we were out for drink I scoped the id, and called the chick I was seeing out and she stayed firm on being 21. And we were talking about it and I was like, yeah 19 might be a little young. I’m going to let her know it’s also not a big deal, and not to worry about it.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:06 AM
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I get your point, but that’s an assumption. It’s not Grindr
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:24 AM
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Fair enough lol
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:46 AM
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Right, but it i wouldn’t want to send the wrong message.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:32 AM
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That’s a fair point, but I give people the benefit of the doubt, as personal philosophy. Innocent until proven guilty ya feel?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:16 AM
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No, I just noticed that it was under the Siri app suggestions when she opened her phone.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:15 AM
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The only thing I see as the potential red flag is that she has tinder, and opens the app. This isn’t a red flag yet, because I would expect her to be going on other dates as I haven’t known her longer than a week. But, because it’s so soon, I don’t see it as a big deal, yet. If she still has it after a couple weeks, then sure. LTR ain’t gonna happen. Also she may have been trying to be manipulative or just honest. Yet, I can’t be certain. Im leaning on her just being honest, as she has been hone…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:11 AM
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Of course, I might get ahead of myself, but when it comes down to decisions I like to make sure I’m being smart. Thanks for helping out to. If I could pick your brain a little. I’ve only been able to pull ons and hold short term plates in the past. Mostly because I’ll lose interest. What are you supposed to do with plates? Or potential FWBs? Just invite her over? I got invited to an improv show that one of my friends does and I’d like to go. Would it be a bad idea to take her along?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:02 AM
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I’d agree, I am. Not oneitis level, but enough for me to find a way to tone things down a bit. It’s why I wanted to pole other people’s thoughts on a forum, and their opinions don’t have a stake, therefor they have every reason to be honest. It seems. That I should just enjoy the perks of a casual relationship, and although she seems to be a good girl, I dont have enough info to make that judgement yet
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:58 AM
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Both my parents are retired cops. They can judge character pretty well, and I heavily respect their opinion. I’ve talked to my dad about relationships and stuff when I was younger, his advice was pretty redpill. If I brought a girl to my parents, I’d want them to be proud. It’s really important to me.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:43 AM
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It would be a dealbreaker if I knew she was slutty. She hasn’t given me a reason to think that, yet, hasn’t given me a reason not to. I’m not going to consider her LTR material until Tinder is out.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:36 AM
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How do I know she earns it? This is what I’m trying to figure it out
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:33 AM
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I wasn’t planning on LTRing her, but it was a thought I had. I’m planning on keeping things casual, and after this post it seems I should ignore those LTR thoughts as there are some red flags, and I need to know more about those before I could see her as a stable and reliable partner. The 3rd red flag I didn’t like, was that she told me about it. It seems manipulative. She had no reason to tell me other than to tease or manipulate. As far as the Tinder goes, if things are casual for the next few…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:33 AM
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Yeah, 100% I would never date an ugly broad, nor plate one lol. I’d like to know more about investigating her personality
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:26 AM
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Idk I’ve always tried to gauge things by asking myself if I’d introduce her to my family or friends. I guess a plate, you’d introduce to nobody FWB you’d introduce to your friends LTR you’d introduce to your family Marriage you’d make a family
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:25 AM
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Well I’ve known her for a week, so understandable. If she tried to make me more than that this soon, I’d be pretty turned off.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:23 AM
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Right, I understand that. However, I’ll need to know at a certain point at whether or not to accept that change in dynamic.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:22 AM
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I’ve been in an LTR, just not since TRP. I like what you said about starting a family, that makes sense. Though, you’ll never know if someone fits that role unless you put them into an LTR no? So an LTR must satisfy a different need other than sex and friendship. Otherwise that would just be a FWB.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:20 AM
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At some point don’t plates get moved up to LTRs? I don’t want to just be fucking plates, I don’t really find a lot of joy in that. And no, I don’t have oneitis, I’m trying to avoid that. Hence why I’m looking for red flags, or trying to be more aware of what red flags are. That seems pretty reasonable to me.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:50 AM
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Always, it never ends. Fair enough. Don't go in with a "she's LTR material" mindset, you'll miss every red flag you see. She has to earn LTR status. That’s what I’m trying to do, I just need a little bit more structure to avoid me taking an emotional choice on it.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:48 AM
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I know the difference, but generally it’s plate -> FWB -> LTR. Hence why I kept the topic broad as she is a plate.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:45 AM
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Here are some of the red flags she has. For context: We’ve been seeing each other for a week, but I had a short notice week off work without much planned so I hung out with her a few times. She has tinder, and she still uses it. She got a message from some guy while we were hanging out, I recognized the notification tone. I also noticed when she has her phone out, I just happened to see that it’s an app on her phone that she used recently. She has guy friends. She was in cadets growing up, and t…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:44 AM
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Sometimes you can’t always agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:16 PM
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Right, I get that. But, I’m not going to pay her way or anything. I’m inviting her to come with. Paying for her skiing would be the “boyfriend” thing to do. I mean going out for dinner is the most cliche date move around right? It should be noted, I live like. 30 min drive from a mountain, and I try to go skiing like once a week when the season is going. It’s not like there is a hotel or anything.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:39 AM
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I understand what you are saying, and it seems the only negative is that it opens you up to having a plate break, or that you commit to early. Now I’m not concerned at all with plates breaking. If there is one thing I’ve learned really well over that past two years is stoicism, and how to not let shit that is out of your control hurt you and how to be selective with your emotional investments. And if she tries to get me to commit early, before I’m ready, I’ll have the rigidity to say no, and exp…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:24 AM
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Okay, well maybe I’ve misunderstood what plating was this entire time. Or maybe we aren’t aligned with what it means to enjoy the company of someone. The way I’ve seen and have been plating, is you don’t go on dates, or do anything other than invite her over, or go to her place. Girls you see maybe once biweekly, or once monthly, just to fuck. That being said, I’ll share something about this chick. I really love to ski, but only 1 of my best buds likes to ski as much as me, but we aren’t always …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:03 AM
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Man I had a whole reply worked out for you, but my phone died... Long story short: I agreed with most of what you said. Except below: Plates are boring, and tedious. I don’t like banging girls I don’t like, who I only merely find attractive. The only reasons plate relationships have worked in the past, is with girls who are okay with my bare minimum level of interest, and those girls aren’t ever going to be an LTR. It's not a "met girl, she agreed to a date, start checking the check list" proces…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:51 AM
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When does she become a potential LTR? Isn’t literally any woman a potential LTR? So you can you be more specific? I will certainly give that a read aswell.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:52 AM
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What, you can’t understand the value of having a child? Are you a psychopath or something?
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:42 PM
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Oh sorry, let me clear it up for you so you don’t have to make broad assumptions. As far as specifically dating goes, isn’t the end game to find a girl who you can reproduce with? Now keep in mind, I’m talking about dating, not my purpose in life.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:39 PM
1

Wow, do you have lots of sex? It sounds like you have lots of sex.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:32 PM
1

Stern but fair, like the Russian Police
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 05:46 PM
1

That’s all - Genesis, is pretty RP.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 06:39 AM
2

How often are you going to the gym, how long have you been going to the gym. Are you practicing progressive overload? If you aren’t going at least 4 times a week don’t expect much progress. When I first started lifting I could increase my bench by about 5lbs every couple of weeks. What’s your diet like? Are you eating enough? You won’t gain muscle mass if you are in a deficit, that being said you should still be able to get stronger. All in all, maybe instead of being sour that people half your …
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:47 AM
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I think you are over analyzing things. If you are just trying to fuck I’d probably next her. There are easier girls out there.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:42 AM
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Sounds like you just need to tweak your perception a bit. Don’t do cold approaches. That should be reserved for when you have your own shit figured out. Which doesn’t sound like you do. Having your shit figured out, means having emotional stability. That means caring about things that are in your control. Find a hobby, sport, activity you can challenge yourself with. How do you find that? Try new things, that means going out and giving it all your focus and attention to see if you like it before…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:24 AM
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The worst aspect is often the loudest, and for TRP that worst aspect is all the anger phase guys who feel betrayed and blame women for it. Another aspect could be that TRP condones sexual strategy which some aspects of it can be seen as manipulative and misogynistic. TRP has a deep message and isn’t seen at the first level. It’s meant to attract sexually frustrated men. Which involves playing to the wants of sexually frustrated men and using sexual strategy as carrot on a stick for personal deve…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:00 AM
1

Well, politics is polarizing. Not really great to talk about ideals with people you don’t know that well.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:39 AM
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Lots of substance in this comment. Really helpful. Maybe you should read the sidebar and try to find something more constructive to say.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:55 AM
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There’s a difference between social maneuvering and flirting with a purpose. At the end of the day it’s not a big deal and should be taken with a grain of salt, either way.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:56 AM
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Just observe. You want to see how she reacts to those situations. You aren’t going to be around her all the time, and if you make a fuss about it, she’s still going to act that way, just not when you are around. Don’t encourage it, don’t discourage it, don’t even bring it up. Flirting is normal and nothing to be worried about, it just depends on how she reacts to the other guy escalating. Just take mental notes and see it as an opportunity to vet her for an LTR.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:54 AM
1

Break your other arm so you look symmetrical.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 09:04 PM
2

Yo what’s RMV?
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:29 AM
7

It’s only gay if you are gay. Having hairy armpits can get pretty gnarly.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:28 AM
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Best way to learn how to be social is by joining clubs. People will take you in with open arms. Find a hobby or if you already have a hobby try to look for clubs that support it. It’s nice to have people around you that share common interests. Your lucky you live in the city, there are lots of people to talk to, and if things don’t go well it’s not hard to find new friends. You can’t change the past, so don’t dwell on it. Just think about what you need to do in order to be where you want to be. …
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:27 AM
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Don’t worry about it, now you know not to be careful with you decide t be ironic with. AKA people you don’t know.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 07:35 AM
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You could always talk to your principal or P.E. teachers about starting a team.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 02:51 AM
1

It’s okay man, we all have bad days.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 09:22 PM
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And that’s why it’s important to vet for relationships, and to make sure you aren’t committing to someone who would do something like that to you. Even after she said that you had nothing to worry about, and even if something happens. It really reflects her character and you could be thankful that she cheated on you before anything got too serious. But it’s no use worrying about it.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 07:04 AM
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What if it does happen? You find out that she is not someone you want to be with. At the end of the day there is nothing you can do, and if it happens, it happens. I mean, are you going to stress out about earthquakes and volcanoes? If it happens, just be willing to move on without looking back, that’s all you can really do.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 06:47 AM
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I don’t think it matters man. What’s in your control right? What can you really do? Tell her to stop hanging out with him? RP mindset isn’t about controlling relationships it’s about having options and picking relationships that suit your needs. That being said, don’t just go out and break up with her. Ask yourself, is this something that you’ll tolerate, or is it deal breaker? The one thing I stress that you absolutely should not do is tell her she needs to stop hanging out with him, or threate…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 06:32 AM
5

Why would you want to date a 16 year old anyways? They immature af.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:07 PM
3

Religion has many applications. It’s not about controlling women. A part of religion is how to approach relationships. Nowadays people don’t have to worry as much about pregnancy and diseases, so religion is a little out dated.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:04 PM
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Ideally, it’s doesn’t matter to you, because to be frank, you hardly know her. How you react depends on the context, but you shouldn’t care, you didn’t talk to her to be her boyfriend.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:01 PM
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Your true friends won’t give a fuck. They might even respect you more for having discipline. Hell, you might even inspire them to follow suit. At the end of he day you know what choices are right for you and your future, don’t compromise that for someone else’s feelings.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:31 AM
1

Glad to hear it man
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:44 AM
1

Yeah
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:33 PM
1

Let’s say 2000 calories is a 1000 calorie deficit. In a couple of weeks, 2000 calories will now be a 600 calorie deficit. Eventually, after a month. He will be eating 1000 calories a day to maintain weight, and will find that he is lethargic and malnourished. Sure I’ll concede that 200 cals is maybe a bit low. But anything over 500 caldeficit a week is way too much.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:33 PM
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Well it depends on the situation. This is how it should go. First time she acts up, tell her what you exactly you have a problem with, and why it’s a problem to you. Maybe it’s her temper? Second time she acts up, she hasn’t learned her lesson. So show her what happens. She’ll apologize and she probably won’t do it again. 3rd time you don’t accept her apology and you don’t forgive her and you take steps back.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:50 PM
2

Now you’re talking shit. So, who’s really talking out of their ass?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:32 PM
1

It’s about improving body composition as well. Weight loss is very different than fat loss, or muscle gain.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:13 PM
1

Your body will adapt physiologically to the drastic loss inn calories. That 1000 calorie deficit will very quickly turn in to a much smaller deficit as your body metabolism slows down. With that in mind, it is very difficult to maintain a 1000 calorie deficit. There are cases where large deficits are fine, but this guy is looking to lose 10lbs of fat, and based off his post he isn’t overweight. He also doesn’t seem to have much knowledge on dieting, where he may not know how to ensure he is gett…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:19 PM
1

The only way to get over a lack of experience is to well... experience. It’s going to be awkward and maybe embarrassing, but aslong as that expectation is set for yourself, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Sure some girls might think you are a weirdo, but they don’t know your story. Only you do, and you should only be ashamed with a lack of trying. Good luck man, go get those Chevys
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:50 AM
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Why be ashamed with a lack of experience? It is what it is man, every person has had a lack of experience with this certain thing at a point in their lives. Keep it chill man, listen to your gut and just go with it and see what happens.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:37 AM
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Well it seems like you don’t have prior experience, so they will have to spend resources training you, and tolerate a loss of productivity due to your lack of experience. In the 50-70k range, those making 70k are probably experienced and are probably ready for a bigger role. I would approach that conversation like so “This is an excellent opportunity, I’ve done research in the industry and the average salary varies between 50 - 70k. Here’s why I feel ____ is a fair wage.” Then explain why you de…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:33 AM
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The most important thing I came to realize was that nothing else matters but your goals, and you shouldn’t worry what others think of you. Try to plan your goals with tangible behaviors you can commit to. Want to get straight A’s? study x amount of hours a day, speak to teachers after school hours on tuesdays and thursdays, etc. Don’t let peer pressure steer you off those commitments. In fact, your peers will respect you more for standing your ground.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:03 AM
1

Not really, by 3rd or 4th year, professors get to know you by a first name basis, especially if you are an active participant.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:00 AM
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It’s all about calories in vs. Calories out. When you lift weights, you will get hungrier more. Just try to track your current average intake for the next week. Stick to a solid lifting routine and don’t skip days. Try to work in some cardio too, a lot of guys miss that.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:59 AM
2

500-1000 calories a day? That’s absurd. That’s going to fuck with his metabolism terribly so, he will lose the weight just as fast as he will pack it back on. 200 calorie deficit is a great rule of thumb, but you gotta track your current average intake first.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:56 AM
2

TRP isn’t any thing new. There are a lot of aspects to TRP and you could say it’s a more modern approach to life and relationships. It’s uses terms that we might understand better. Successful men had other codes to live by, that had the same underlying message. A great example would be religion. Try reading the bible with a TRP lens, it’s really interesting how there are similar themes. As far as “shouldn’t there be more successful people now?”. At the end of the day Darwinism still wins. Just r…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:50 AM
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I’m my experience it helps to redirect that attention into other things. Take up a hobby, or spend more time on a current one.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:44 AM
1

If it’s your LTR you might want to talk to her about it, if you really are so set in sleeping with other women, otherwise, lying about stuff to save face is no way to treat any sort of serious relationship whether it’s an actual relationship or friendship. The difference between an LTR and an FWB is the commitment. When it’s FWB you seeing other women is implied, in an LTR you are trusting each other to try and make things work.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:07 AM
1

All this name calling is turning me on
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:32 AM
1

Icht bein mushie meister
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:29 AM
1

Welp, we found the European.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:28 AM
1

Buying girls drinks is fine, unless you are a Jew or worried about being a cuck. That being said, if it wasn’t your idea, you don’t have to pay.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:27 AM
3

Sounds like you want to be greedy, what is this LTR to you? If you cheat on her you need to be content with letting your LTR go.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:18 AM
1

It was ight, stayed for a couple drinks. Talk to 3 cougars, 1st grinded up on me and was asking if I was fighting with a girlfriend, she was on her way out. 2nd was mother henned, 3rd was a cunt. I left after about an hour.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:14 PM
8

It means she wants to get dicked, but it’s just “gotta happen”.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 03:30 AM
1

Cougar 2 came in, but wasn’t hot.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 07:33 AM
1

Cougar one just came in, I might stay a little longer
/r/askTRP08/09/18 07:11 AM
2

I feel it. I get the message.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:57 AM
1

Haha it’s uncharted territory. I gotta get over the nerve, and being flaked. Being flaked sting, but gotta accepts the sitch
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:56 AM
1

Hahahaha secret locked and key thrown out. I’ll dodge and pressure flip. I just feel it’s weird for a guy to be alone at club. Usually gotta be wit da boys or a girl or da girls.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:54 AM
1

I’m 22. 30- 45. The ripest of ranges. 😏.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:52 AM
2

That’s a fair go, I just gotta problem lying. But also, horny and tempted. Soooooo many older women though.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:49 AM
3

Sounds so simple. I’m not that big of an extrovert. It’s a bit of a cougar bar, I’m counting on being talked to. I get I gotta take it easy, and I’m cool with that. Any alibis for being alone? My go to was just gonna say tinder date flaked
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:44 AM
1

The happy medium is to not give a fuck a bout that shit. The best way to go about relationships is with a flow. Sometimes girls won’t sleep with you on the first date cuz they want to prove they ain’t a hoe. Sometimes they’ll sleep with you on the first date cause they know you ain’t gonna be a clingy bitch and she can have some fun. Go with the flow, take what you want and don’t settle for shit you don’t want. There are girls I’d hook up with but wouldn’t date, goes the same way for women man. …
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:37 AM
1

The happy medium is to not give a fuck a bout that shit. The best way to go about relationships is with a flow. Sometimes girls won’t sleep with you on the first date cuz they want to prove they ain’t a hoe. Sometimes they’ll sleep with you on the first date cause they know you ain’t gonna be a clingy bitch and she can have some fun. Go with the flow, take what you want and don’t settle for shit you don’t want. There are girls I’d hook up with but wouldn’t date, goes the same way for women man. …
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:37 AM
1

But there is confidence in knowing that you don’t know everything.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 05:17 AM
1

Do you want to go to the zoo? Want o bring a friend? Yes? Sure. Trying to impress? No.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:38 AM
1

Buying coffees .
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:31 AM
1

Just grab a cheap bottle of red and pretend you like it. Pinot noir is sweet, so go for that.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:28 AM
4

Never purposefully, that’s playing games and that shit ain’t right. There was a time where I’ve had a girl over to Netflix and Chill and nothing happened cuz i had a feeling she was nuts. I never saw her again, but she certainly kept hitting me up.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:24 AM
1

It’s just for plausible deniability. I drink bourbon but I don’t have mixers (cuz I’m a man fuck off). Most women don’t like bourbon. Wine has always had its place as a fuck syrup. It’s just simple math, but you do you boo, at the end it doesn’t really matter she won’t come over if she doesn’t want to fuck you or if she feels like a slut. Wine is classy, and has an implication. Doesn’t matter. Go out for drinks and a bite to eat. In my experience, doing exciting things doesn’t brew a lot of sexu…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:22 AM
13

HB7 is putting you on a back burner. If she flakes, drop that hoe. Also, don’t feel bad about rejecting a girl you aren’t attracted to. It’s life and if she doesn’t understand that it’s her problem.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:14 AM
1

Go out, do something fun. If you guys have chemistry, if you aren’t autistic you’ll know when you have chemistry, invite her over for drinks. Have a bottle of wine at home. Always have wine at the ready.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:13 AM
4

Enjoy the night, if the energy is there, invite her over for drinks. Don’t over think it, women smell that shit.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:10 AM
1

You need to diversify your emotional investments. What does that mean? You are only capable of giving so many fucks, don’t put all your fucks in one basket. Especially a basket that you have 0 control over. If you haven’t got it by now, that would be women. If you don’t have a hobby, experiment and try things that interest you. I took up painting, and it was a wonderful way to devote some time to learn a skill. That worked for me, painting may not be something you find enjoyable. Listen to what …
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:07 AM
3

6 - 7 hours is manageable but will catch up with you. 8 hours is the average required amount of sleep to be optimally functional. People are different and vary on that scale as a standard deviation. Treat sleep like hunger, and listen to your body, but don’t over indulge. Experiment, and you’ll find a sleep schedule that works for you. As far as working out goes, I’d consult your doctor about what would be appropriate.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 07:50 AM
2

Top gun is a movie man. Calling a confident person cocky is just a shit test, don’t get it confused. Think about real life professionals, where’d the cocky ones end up?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 12:38 AM
3

I like that, the insecure know they are living a lie, but don't want to be exposed. The cocky (deluded), just don't realize they are living a lie.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 05:51 AM
41

Wow, thanks man. I agree, nobody is confident by nature, but people are talented by nature. You become confident when you discover what that talent is, and are patient enough to fail, humble enough to learn, and wise enough to recognize a calling. ​ It's not just about becoming good at something, its also about first discovering something(s) that you have talent in. You have to be willing to explore and experience any opportunities that interest you. Imagine if Lebron never picked up a basketbal…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 05:48 AM
2

Men fear the unknown, have the courage to unravel the truth. That being said, if you believe they are on fence, maybe something is telling you that. Maybe you only understand a certain type of expression of attraction, and those who don’t express their attraction in that way confuse you. That type of person would be better to use your words with. Making a move on a girl who isn’t giving you IOIs is risky game to play. With all that taken into consideration, some girls may just not be into you. Y…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:10 AM
9

I like that "a shallow pool versus a deep one". I mean, maybe I should have mentioned this. The whole fake it till you make it, is utter nonsense, and you only fool fools. Being cocky is like faking it, but you don't realize you are faking it. The consequences can honestly be brutal. When you are cocky, you don't even realize those consequences are from your actions. It's such a shitty place to be in. ​ You are totally right. When you are cocky, you need to prove and show that you can do it, bec…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 05:00 AM
21

Idk man after my workouts I want to eat and sleep. If anything I feel “high”.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 08:54 AM
1

How did you regret her? I bet you were a massive dick about it.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:56 AM
34

I’m allergic to thots, they make me sneeze out of my cock.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:54 AM
1

Right, that’s how I see it. So how would you look at “game”? Do you even worry about it? Do you try to be honest with your intentions and let that dictate the way your relationships go?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 04:18 AM
1

Look man, I had a thought, I like to debate and explore ideas. That’s all this was. You assumed that I was trying to find some sort of justification for whatever the fuck. You don’t know me, or frankly anything. You got all pissed off based off the smallest sliver of information I could have ever given you. How could you let something so insignificant let you talk to someone that way?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:59 AM
1

I completely understand. It’s just pick up teaches you how you should act, but doesn’t teach you to be the person to act that way.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:38 AM
0

No, you are making assumptions and it shows you don’t know what the fuck you are talking about.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:34 AM
1

How are you supposed to follow something if you don’t give a fuck? Why are you even here, and why do you feel the need to be an asshole? Take your shit elsewhere.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:27 AM
1

But here’s the thing, and maybe I’m just getting to philosophical to a point where it isn’t helping anyone. With TRP, getting women should never be something you aspire to be better at. You aspire to be a better person, and that’s what gets you more women. It’s a perk of being a better man. When you practice day game or pickup it seems to go against the TRP message
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:20 AM
5

Madmen, there is a whole lot of RP masculinity in that show. It’s also a great show.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 08:10 PM
2

No, I think you push people away because you are worried about getting hurt, or maybe it’s your way of “getting them back”. I’d say give it time, you’ll know when your ready. Other than that, I don’t really have advice for you to get out of that. Maybe therapy is a good idea.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:06 AM
2

Have you ever had oneitis? Your guard might be too high, and you are probably afraid of getting hurt again, even if that’s not how you see it. Give it time man and try not to stress out about it, time will heal and you’ll get over it.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 07:57 AM
1

Idk man, sometimes the LMR is too strong. Something could have lead her to think you just a fuck boy, or maybe she doesn’t want you to think she’s a hoe. Sometimes there isn’t anything you can do, and you should keep on the side of caution with LMR, especially if alcohol is involved. When I run into LMR I try to count my loses and try to fight that battle another day.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 07:52 AM
2

Oh damn. Maybe watch out with the f-close, don’t want to get a stranger pregnant. I’d try to figure out why she doesn’t take the pill.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 07:48 AM
4

Looks like just standard LMR, she wants to but she doesn’t want to feel like a hoe. Careful when she talks about her ex, that’s a red flag and be mindful of others. Grab drinks with her in a few days, and try to f-close at your place.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 07:47 AM
3

Putting a condom on, good man. I admire and envy your discipline.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 07:44 AM
4

Short answer: I don’t really care and I don’t judge people for the way they are. Long answer: People who are lazy don’t have ambition, and haven’t learned discipline. It may not even be their fault, how can you blame someone for not being exposed to an ambition, and how can you blame someone for never being taught discipline. If any thing it’s sad that someone does have a feeling of purpose, and I would do my best to not rely on lazy people. People who are beta, probably don’t understand what th…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 09:29 AM
3

Have more important things to care about. It’s pretty simple.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:43 AM
4

Because women have periods, they birth children, they aren’t as physically capable. It’s hard for them to compete in a man’s world, because men don’t have to deal with those things. Though the barriers of entry are getting slimmer because of tampons, birth control etc. I think the problem with equality is that people expect that all men are equal, and that’s just not the case. Equality isn’t something people want, it’s a beautiful idea, but nature doesn’t care. We are designed to compete.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:40 AM
1

Did it feel awkward? Did you feel awkward? It sounded awkward, but I can say, getting the introduction out after the ice is broken is the best time. Chances are if you feel awkward you are taking things to seriously. “Hey this is the bus to the sexy singles party right? , my names Tom. “ Then move it to small talk. I mean shit, you had a great opportunity to see if she was a total weirdo. Sitting next to someone in class is a commitment, and believe me you don’t want to sit next to a total weird…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:40 AM
3

Baby steps my man. Maybe next time, have a conversation? Maybe make a joke about what the line is for, and introduce yourself, makes it less awkward if you run into her.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:44 AM
4

And I will admire my erect morning member and feel pride where shame once was. I will think to myself “Yes, this is what it is like to be Chad”. I will think of the hordes of whores lining up wanting to taste the feeling of being Chad. I will chuckle at their naivety, they will never have what I have, a cock and a sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:00 AM
3

That’s all I do on my spare time. It makes feel empowered. I feel like every time I say it, I’m one step closer to Chadhood.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:46 AM
2

You are right. I should read the sidebar, so this doesn’t happen again.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:43 AM
1

Read the side bar god damnit /s
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:36 AM
1

Well now you just admitted it was a scare tactic, and whatever effect you thought it would have just got thrown out the window haha
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:33 AM
4

Looks like everyone commenting is just trying to be a dick and project chad. You feel guilty because you feel like you owe her something. Why? Even if you felt so guilty, that you’d soldier through a relationship with her, is that really in your or her’s best interest? If it doesn’t work out, it doesn’t work out. If anything you are doing a favour by letting her know how it’s going to be. How would you feel if a girl lead you on because she pitied you? That shit stings.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:22 AM
1

Jeez man. You hardly know the dude, cool it.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:18 AM
1

Maybe just not give a fuck about that sort of pettiness? Stop thinking to hard, if you weren’t thinking about it, you probably would have done all the right things.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:17 AM
1

Go for it, see what happens and post updates.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:15 AM
2

Come on man. You can be more creative than that.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:15 AM
2

I honestly don’t really see TRP as a sexual strategy sub. The sexual strategy is nothing new, it’s all been out there for ages. It’s more about looking at how sexual relationships are formed under a new, maybe more true perspective. So we can better understand what’s in our control and how to manage our expectations. That being said, the politics aspect doesn’t really apply to how I’ve understood TRP. I think it’s a toxic branch of “victims” who are finding ways to divert responsibility of their…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:14 AM
3

Make a list of problems you have. List them in the comment to me. Think of them, rent to high, low paying job, etc.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:10 AM
1

Then keep eating man, try to learn how to listen to your body. Everyone’s body is different, try some splits online, give it a month to 3 months and try and track your progress so you can understand what works and doesn’t. A lot of this stuff is trial and error, but you gotta make sure anything different you do, you give it your full effort.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:27 AM
2

Don’t bother with counting calories, eat when your hungry, you’ll be fine. Full body is good, but you may want to increase the frequency/volume. Upper/lower split, then push/pull/legs. Remember patience, only tweak your routine when you are no longer seeing progress.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:21 AM
1

No, bulking and cutting is for those trying to optimize their routine because they aren’t benefiting off of a regular training regimen. Don’t worry about optimizing. Since you are starting out, 80% of your gains will come from just going to the gym on a regular basis and training hard. Don’t muddy the waters with unnecessary hard work. Take baby steps.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:02 AM
2

Yes, she’s insecure and a narcissistic. I wouldn’t say AWALT.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:56 AM
1

Okay. So, don’t worry about bulking or cutting until you have lifted for at least 2-4 years. Don’t fuck around with diet and shit, focus on just getting to the gym 4-5 times a week. I garuntee you, you’ll see steady gains for at least a year.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:54 AM
1

How long have you been lifting?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:49 AM
1

That could be anyone could it not?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 08:50 PM
0

How could she file a harassment charge with HR? She doesn’t work at the same company as me. I could see how it could be uncomfortable, but I still don’t see how it could impact my income or promotion.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:13 PM
1

I understand, but where is the risk in having a relationship with someone who is for example: a seasonal employee at a neighbouring location? So what, if someone knows where I work prior to having a relationship with them, it’s shitting where I eat? Maybe I don’t understand.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 08:52 AM
1

I understand man. I really do, and it’s okay to not be in the market for casual sex. Obviously, you might have needs, but you have to be stronger than that. Spending time with someone isn’t a good reason to develop feelings for them, you need to be careful of that, that’s all. If you can’t help it, you need to be even more careful. I know /rpchristians has advice on your type of situation. Even if you aren’t Christian (I’m not), might be worth checking out what they think.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 08:25 AM
1

Maybe your not spinning those plates on your terms, maybe spinning plates isn’t for you. It’s not for me, it’s why I’m very particular with who I keep as plates. I stick to a rule of girls I would never introduce to my parents or friends. Usually girls I pick up at bars that I don’t know that well, and when they come over we don’t talk much, and I rarely let them spend the night.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:48 AM
1

Because, you shouldn’t have feelings for plates. Plates are fragile and they break. Keep her at a distance, but checking up on her on snapchat is a sign you are in too deep and you need to abort.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:37 AM
-2

I could probably hamster that none of them would, which realistically isn’t the case. I feel your answer might be a tad to vague. For context, I work as an assistant manager at a company that I’m taking seriously. There is a high chance I’ll be promoted very soon (1-3 months) and moved to a different location. I’m young and don’t have much time for relationships, as I’m busy with work.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:30 AM
1

Ew, no. That’s gross, I don’t fuck dead bodies bro.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:26 AM
1

Promoting her is a bad idea, but so is keeping her as a plate. You should seriously consider dropping her. It won’t end well, believe me man.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:26 AM
1

It doesn’t fucking matter man. It’s not worth thinking about, just leave her the fuck alone for gods sake.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:24 AM
2

Oh I see, it’s easier said than done though. Still keep your friends around just start actively seeking new friends and let your old friends taper out.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:15 AM
2

Nothing is wrong with developing feelings. Just don’t let those feelings affect your goals and your mission. That’s when they become a problem, and that’s when you need to be careful with who you let become that close to you. You can have one plate, and not develop feelings. You have 5 plates and develop feelings for 1 of them. At the end of the day, if you develop feelings for a plate you need to either promote or drop them. You need to be careful promoting a plate you have stronger feelings fo…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:07 AM
2

Some people shouldn’t have casual hook ups, sometimes having sex makes you feel more connected to that person. Sometimes it doesn’t. That being said man. You shouldn’t be thinking about plates unless you are horny, if you can’t manage that, drop the plates and be more selective with your women. This doesn’t mean you aren’t a desirable person, if anything it means you aren’t perceived to be beta enough for women to see you as a commitment. Pretending to be Chad will get you hurt.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:47 AM
25

Sounds like you might have out grown your friend group. If you keep surrounding yourself with that toxicity, eventually they will bring you back down. That being said, you shouldn’t have to tell people you are making changes, make the changes and let your actions speak for you. The next thing to do if I were you is try to socialize with other groups and make new friends. You shouldn’t be hanging around people that have been to prison.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:42 AM
1

Get her to introduce you to her friends.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:56 PM
5

To answer your question. Yes, you are retarded.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:42 AM
3

It happens, she doesn’t want anything to do with you. She was probably being polite, or you entered the wrong number in your phone, or a gremlin took your phone and replaced the number with a fake. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter. You don’t have her number.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 01:06 AM
3

You either have a chance or you don’t have a chance, I don’t think that’s clear yet.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 01:03 AM
2

Nothing’s seems wrong with. I’d only change it up if it becomes too little or too hard on your body.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 01:01 AM
2

Life is full of ups and downs man. Try to find balance. What helped me out a lot, was finding some creative hobbies to invest myself in. I stuck with painting, and recently I discovered BJJ which is an awesome change from lifting. The other thing, nothing will change about your life unless you try to change it. Think about that when you decide to stay at home and play fortnight. Sure, sometimes you need a break. Also, have a look over at r/stoicism. It has good insight on how to approach problem…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 12:57 AM
3

No dice tonight, I’ll give you an upvote.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:09 AM
3

I’ll let you know if I whack it in there
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:40 PM
2

I do have some art, I’m sorta like a Van Gogh
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:22 PM
1

Yeah, I was going to go with movie. That protein shaker is in the trunk of my car
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:17 PM
6

It doesn’t matter man. Just go in looking for a good time, and avoid talking about politics.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 11:02 PM
1

I’d judge someone on their current character, that being said, somethings never change. It would only bother me if there are other red flags.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:45 AM
5

I don’t understand the question
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:43 AM
19

r/stoicism
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:18 AM
1

Think about what you are asking. In what world does calling or texting make a difference? Stop over thinking, if you want to see her before she goes, reach out and meet for a drink.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:15 AM
1

What do you like about bars? I for one, enjoy people watching, and having a drink with friends. Sometimes there are interesting people to talk to.
/r/seduction02/07/18 06:55 PM
2

You lay them down easy and pick them up when your relationship ends.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 05:51 AM
3

The perfect partner shouldn’t be a goal of yours, because that’s out of your control. Even if you did find the perfect partner, there is nothing you could do to guarantee she will be with you forever. Make your goals about yourself, things that you can control.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 05:27 AM
16

RP deals with generalizations to prove a point, it’s not meant to answer individual circumstances, but to illustrate that more than likely a woman you encounter is like that. It’s about maximizing your options in that landscape. It’s also more than likely you will not find the perfect partner and in order to focus on healthy habits and goals you need to accept that reality. At the end of the day, assumptions don’t tell you anything, so you need to explore RP truths through experience, RP seeks t…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 05:12 AM
1

No, because that’s relying on an outcome you cannot reliably control.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:40 AM
2

The redpill is a perspective not a prescription. It’s about becoming the best version of yourself. As is with anything else, redpill just uses pussy as a carrot on the stick. It’s about become the best version of yourself, because nothing else truly matters, except for your happiness. The best way to guarantee that happiness is by unlocking your potential.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:35 AM
1

There isn’t a way to prevent it, nor should that be your goal. At the end of the day, it will never be your choice to have a women respect you. How can you expect other to respect you, if you do not respect yourself. Trust the process, keep going forward, if you do this, you won’t feel the need to care of even asking those questions.
/r/seduction30/06/18 09:31 AM
2

Let your past serve only as a lesson to your future. Every action you make has a result, and you can look at these results in a few ways. Try to look at the results with a perspective that values learning. Don’t let your expectations influence your decisions. Act with genuinity and learn to adapt. You don’t get caught up with a girl, you get caught up with a fantasy, and that fantasy is as simple as it’s labeled. A fantasy, it’s an expectation of an ignorant mind. Ignorance doesn’t mean incompet…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:28 AM
2

It’s about building an independent life. Where you aren’t in a position where your emotions depend on things that are out of your control. RP advice is mostly fixed on women, because that’s why men come here, and women aren’t in your control, only your actions and perspective is. To live a happy life, you need consistency. That’s what the general advice is about.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:15 AM
4

Probably not, plates are usually seen once every few weeks.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:44 PM
2

Also, everyone has different reactions to test/roids. So make sure you are mindful of physical and mental side effects.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:30 PM
3

I don’t use roids, but I’m an experienced lifter and have done alot of research. Do not fuck up your PCT, make sure that’s on point. For your first cycle don’t over do it, 250mg a week pretty sure ENT is the one to use. Don’t drink any alcohol or anything that could be toxic to the liver. Edit: don’t just be on point with pct, be on point with injections stay disciplined
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:27 PM
2

When ever someone crosses a boundary you need to talk to them about it. Always give the benefit of the doubt, because 90% of the time they didn’t know what they were doing was a problem. It should go something like this. The key is to get them to say it won’t happen again. 1st Offence: “hey, you did this earlier, this is why it was a shitty thing to do.” 2nd Offence: “hey I told you I had a problem with this, why did you decide to do it anyways?” 3rd Offence: “hey, we’ve talked about this, are y…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:30 PM
2

It was an example, the point was you don’t know what she’s dealing with unless you ask. Also, it’s OP’s girlfriend not a plate.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:46 PM
-2

Yes, assume she’s being a cunt for the sake of being a cunt, that’s a healthy way to have relationships with people. /s
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:28 AM
1

Have you talked to her about it? I’d start there. A simple “You don’t seem like your normal self, is something on your mind?”. Now, she can explain to you what’s going on, or she can stay closed off and that’s her choice. If she doesn’t want to talk to you, then it’s not your problem and you need to carry on and try to enjoy your trip. If it’s a real problem, talk through it and work it out, it may not even be about you. She’s your girlfriend, not a plate. What if she had a death in the family, …
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:24 AM
5

Amazing analogy lmao
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:35 AM
3

Supplements are as simple as that, they supplement a proper diet. They are only an edge to those who advanced enough and need that extra push to grow. It’s not needed for an average lifter. Protein powder is great and caffeine for a pre workout is nice. That’s all you really to take, everything else is sprinkles on a cake.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 08:33 AM
11

Don’t bother explaining until asked, and just say they are for “extra ribbing”
/r/askTRP26/06/18 06:32 AM
2

Look man, focus on improving, and don’t compare to others. Comparisons only lead to pride and envy and to maintain a logical and stoic POV you need to steer clear of these emotions.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:42 AM
1

It’s pretty clear man. Why would want to talk to someone who says that to you anyways?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:41 AM
1

Of course, but that message isn’t always simple to convey. People have no reason to trust that, and wouldn’t blindly listen to that advice.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 07:40 AM
2

More like pathetic men old
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 05:55 AM
1

Just escalate man, expect LMR, but try not over think it. Let your penis do the talking when it’s getting hot and heavy.
/r/seduction24/06/18 05:54 AM
4

But in any case it means they are saying it to make themselves feel better. Yes, exactly that. Not to say that being single isn’t great, just means, they are probably projecting how they would like to feel about it, but not necessarily how they feel.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:54 AM
8

It doesn’t mean anything. Judge a person off of their actions, not what they say. Though, in my experience, when people shout to the world they are glad to be single, it’s because they are over compensating and in denial.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:20 AM
11

Okay, so how would you tell someone, someone who is anxious over women, texting women, dating women, etc. How would you tell that person to stop giving a shit? I ask this because it seems my experience was a little different, except with the same result. I learned that I didn’t have a lot invested in myself, I didn’t continually challenge myself. I found that once I started investing my time in to my future and into my interests. I stopped giving as many fucks about what other people thought of …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 03:14 AM
3

What made you really believe that, was it just reading the side bar?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 02:53 AM
16

That’s awesome man, I’m glad you are starting to understand. Though, I think the problem people face when it comes to not actually giving a fuck, is how to not actually give a fuck. It’s a lot easier said than done. What do you think changed that allowed you to not actually give a fuck?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 02:45 AM
2

That’s what this post is about, and how to learn from I.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 05:55 PM
1

That’s not what this post was about. You are making assumptions.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 05:54 PM
3

Maybe I have a unique experience, but those who were involved intermediately or more in sports did better with women. Edit: specifically with higher value women too.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 08:00 AM
4

Don’t use one example to define reality. You don’t know their relationship, you only know what they allowed others to see. Form your ideas on your experiences and test them.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 06:56 AM
1

Then you know what to do man. Stand up for yourself, but don’t always assume malevolence. Give the benefit of the doubt, but bring it up in casual conversation. Don’t let insecurity or emotions infect your actions. You’re true friends will respect your wishes, may even apologize. Most of all, make sure to spend your time investing yourself into your future. Study hard, hustle and devote your time to becoming the best version of yourself. Don’t waste your thoughts with petty shit like people star…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 06:51 AM
4

It’s a mistake to compare yourself to your friends. You are an individual. Pickup works because it’s high risk and high reward, it’s polarizing. Pick-up game doesn’t work with work. Let relationships form naturally and play pick up when the risks don’t matter.
/r/seduction22/06/18 06:46 AM
2

Don’t stress about bulking or cutting. You are a new lifter and things are going to be changing very quickly. Listen to your body, eat healthy, and be consistent with lifting. Bulking and cutting are for advanced lifters with a solid foundation. The pros of bulking/cutting are marginal, and honestly not necessary for a recreational lifter. Don’t bother with supplements as it’s the same deal.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 06:40 AM
7

If it’s forbidden, don’t be childish. You said yourself it’s a cool job, why risk it. Pick up girls at a bar or something outside of work.
/r/seduction22/06/18 06:33 AM
1

Stop lying to yourself, you clearly care. That being said man, you have to choices, you can call them out, ask why they are staring. It doesn’t have to be a thing to be angry about, you could be curious. A simple “hey, I noticed you guys were staring at me earlier, what’s that all about?” If it bothers you, you ask them to stop, if they don’t stop, they don’t respect you and that means they aren’t your friends. Or you can ignore it, like any other person who doesn’t care.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 06:30 AM
3

Just let it be man.
/r/seduction21/06/18 12:47 AM
7

I understand. You are putting to much value on how another person might judge you. This may be because you are unsure of your own value as a person, and need external validation. Let your experiences validate your value, and always strive to be a better person. Invest yourself into your future by finding passions and giving them your full effort. Why do you think jocks always are the ones to get laid or be popular? It’s because they are good at something, and they know it. They care less of what…
/r/seduction20/06/18 12:02 PM
1

Just regular small talk is fine.
/r/seduction20/06/18 11:56 AM
2

Ask yourself why you may hold a negative belief. What are some of these beliefs anyways?
/r/seduction20/06/18 11:32 AM
2

Scripts sound rehearsed and fake. Let the date flow naturally and trust your gut. Be an impressive person, and you won’t feel the need to impress someone. Good luck man.
/r/seduction20/06/18 11:31 AM
1

Why is this something you need to know? Just a question, no need to take it the wrong way.
/r/seduction20/06/18 11:30 AM
6

2 answers to this question. A.) Alcohol, is a great way to charade any neediness/insecurity. People are wired to pick-up any bullshit you may be putting down. This is a very short-term solution, because as soon as alcohol is out of the picture they will see you for what you are. B.) Ask yourself this, why are you needy? Get to the root of it. It’s probably because you rely on other people to dictate your value, rather than your experiences. If your experiences don’t tell you your value, then you…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:33 AM
2

Sounds a lot like me right now. It’s just almost been a year, one more week and it will be my no pussy anniversary. Certainly not intentional lol. Though, my place is consistently clean, I doubled my income, I’m reading, going to the gym, and going out and trying new things. I guess there was comfort in knowing I was at rock bottom. Still a lot of room going forward, and it wasn’t always easy cutting out toxic friendships. I think for the first time in my life I’m excited for my journey. Keep on…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:36 AM
1

Yeah, but he is pretty petty. I never knew this until recently, but a friend of mine told me how he posted a screenshot of a text from his ex-gf on twitter, calling her pathetic and shit when she tried to make up with him, i mean it was years ago, but. You are probably right, he won't try shit, but if he does it'll be a cheap shot.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 05:42 AM
2

Yeah, that's the current plan. I guess if he tries to make a big deal about it, it's his choice. But, when you say act like nothing happen, do you mean, have small talk, or just avoid him altogether.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 05:32 AM
1

I'm more concerned about the people ordering prostitutes. If I had an STD and was desperate to get laid, and pick one that involved the least amount of commitment. She gets checked, she can't pin it on anyone. Even if condoms are worn, it don't stop STDs %100 of the time. That's why I fuck chicks who ain't idiots and have a conscience. Maybe not stick in your dick in bar sluts or prostitutes.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:33 AM
3

"I don't feel like going out, let's order in"
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:45 PM
1

Exactly how the other guy said it "this isn't any of my business, don't drag me into this." If she thinks you are an asshole, so be it, that's her choice. You can't control that, it's not your job to explain to her how to world works.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 08:11 PM
3

Too add on to this, you aren't being a dick, because she's venting on you, she's the one who isn't taking into account your thoughts and feelings to the situation. She's putting you into a shitty situation, that is her fault, not yours.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:34 AM
7

Play by the sword die by the sword. On a serious note, relax OP. Pregnancy is a hard thing to accomplish. Also, you need to be ready to accept that she might get pregnant, and you might be a father. If you aren't ready, start thinking about it. I understand it's a big thing, but don't let it ruin your life. It's all out of your control now. Just relax, take a deep breath, and play it cool. There is nothing you can do at this point. Try to think of the opportunities you can make out of this. Also…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 08:12 AM
13

I've never been to Toronto, so my experience is non existent. Just giving my two cents.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 07:12 AM
3

Fatties with no self esteem ain't worth it bro. Get you a fat but proud chick, Titty fucking is great, but have you tried belly fucking?
/r/askTRP19/05/18 07:12 AM
3

Nah dawg I just hate texting
/r/askTRP19/05/18 07:09 AM
2

Unless you have cheat codes, aka alcohol.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 05:08 AM
1

When is a hand job ever good?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:41 PM
2

Yeah, it won't get you laid, but maybe you'll learn to not give a fuck when find you more important things to do in your life.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:40 PM
1

Don't be a fraud, it's easy to be a fraud. Develop into a person you will respect, take ownership and take initiative. You'll get there.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:07 AM
6

From what I'm reading you don't really respect yourself. I don't mean that harshly, you need to better understand your strengths and weaknesses. What's in your control, and what are the things you can never change. Look man, you're 28 years old, it's not too late to take a step into improving yourself and your mindset. I don't think approaching women is a good idea for you right now. You need to take a hard look in the mirror and realize that you need to take ownership of who you are. Stop tryin…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:06 AM
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You couldn't be more wrong. Paying for sex is stupid. Especially if it's a prostitute. I'm sure they are crawling with STDs.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:54 AM
3

Physique, because it's a lot harder to be confident, and having a good phsyique builds your confidence not because you look better because you accomplished something that took alot of work.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 06:09 AM
2

I've been there man, you can't expect them to change, try to find new friends or avoid the ones who are particularly toxic. I didn't do this and my 'friend" threw a dirty glove he found on the ground at me, and I lost my shit and kicked the shit out of him. That's not a situation you want to open yourself to.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:17 AM
3

What do you think man, re read your post, and I think you'll find your answer.
/r/seduction17/05/18 01:15 AM
1

I wasn't all that into it. It's up to you.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:25 PM
2

Conversation is a two way street. Don't try to hard. If you have to try hard she either doesn't care, or she's a total weiner. Turn it down a notch super cheif.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:42 AM
15

Id say it's a red flag, I'd tread carefully. If she doesn't get validation from you she'll get it from someone else.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:22 AM
1

You're right, as little risk it may be, it still has risk. It's not worth 2 or 3 lays.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:19 AM
1

Just be busy all the time. Doesn't make me look like a dick and maintains at least some rapport, the benefit is that if she comes back to the store to do some shopping it wouldn't be awkward and I'd still be able to help her out with any customer related problems, and also sell her on anything she might need.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:10 AM
0

I knew a girl exactly like that, minus the church and good relationship with daddy, but shy and awkward. She was a plate for a while and very easy to get her to come over. I wouldn't try and do anything to get her out of her shell, I'm sure she'll start opening up the more she sees you.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:06 AM
1

She's still a customer, I'm not just going to be a dick.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:02 AM
1

No she was a customer. She lives like 20 minutes away from my work (drive). I know she doesn't live or work in the area. I work in a pretty busy mall though. Yes, my poll is small, almost all women I meet are at bars or parties.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:00 AM
1

Nobody ever said it would be easy, keep trucking friend. Cheers.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:54 AM
1

Quality comment.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:50 AM
1

Fair, how would you get yourself out of that situation, just soft-next hmm?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:48 AM
3

This type of attitude is what will lead you down a dark path, friend. Stop trying to get girls to like you, because that's exactly what turns them off, if you think you can be sneaky about this, you can't they sniff that shit out like a bloodhound. I suggest you read the sidebar and try and make yourself into a man you respect.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:47 AM
1

If you are going through the same thing, maybe I can provide some insight. What's going on?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 09:57 AM
3

Thanks, I agree, the knowledge is important. I just feel that it's time to explore other perspectives. Stoicism is a very natural transition, even Christianity. I'd even go to challenge you to do the same, if you haven't already. Redpill is a great tool, but its still just one perspective.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 08:49 AM
2

You're playing into your expectations. It is what it is. If she wants to suck your dick, she would. If she wants you to eat her pussy out she'll let you. Do you really want her to do something she doesn't want to do? Also, the why doesn't matter. If it's a deal breaker then soft-next. If it isn't, then don't complain. She's just a plate man.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:57 AM
2

Just block her number and move on man. It's not supposed to be this difficult.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:35 PM
1

There are seldom things to be angry about. No use being angry over things you can't control.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 06:26 AM
13

It's not so much about not giving a fuck, it's that you must give most of your fucks to yourself so giving a fuck about others is seldom a thought. It's about realizing your journey is the most important thing.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 08:27 AM
11

A second this, don't fuck your coworkers. Restaurant chicks love to party, and if they are hot and you go out with them they raise your SMV.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 06:33 AM
1

Doesn't matter what you do, as long as you do something and you learn from the failures. It's a journey friend and it ain't always easy to deal with. Just keep your chin up and remember that it's your jounrey and nobody else's.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 06:42 AM
14

Quality shit post 10/10
/r/askTRP02/04/18 01:37 AM
6

Actually, it could just be her creating plausible deniability, I'd say go for it, but try to close that night. If not then there wasn't much chemistry.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 06:41 AM
15

On to the next, you said u didn't want to wait, find someone who doesn't either.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 06:38 AM
0

Nah, prioritize man. Don't try to over complicate things.
/r/seduction30/03/18 08:50 AM
1

Let passion motivate you. So, find something you can be passionate about. You do this by experiencing new things. Learn discipline so you can properly prioritize your goals, and stick to a plan. It seems that your current job isn't making you happy, try to entertain other possibilities. Give them a fair shot, but don't over commit to something that you aren't good at. Try not to worry about much else, if you are passionate and discplined you can be successful at anything. Find you calling and de…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 07:57 AM
1

Try to ignore what she might be thinking. It's doesn't matter because you'll never know. Focus on what you want . That being said, she'd want anyone to come to her play anyways, so she wasn't trying to mislead you.
/r/seduction30/03/18 07:48 AM
3

I've been there man. Try to distance yourself, it seems you've emotionally invested yourself too much. You've only just met her. Try to remember that. You also underestimate the power of mystery. Women are attracted to the man with the right motivations. They can sniff this out so easily. Keep your mind on what's truly important to you and don't let your emotions dictate what you spend your time thinking about. There is nothing wrong with seeing her next weekend. When you aren't busy, only text …
/r/seduction30/03/18 07:43 AM
2

Exhibit A:
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:48 PM
2

Variety is the spice of life, it's good they don't have the same goals. This means they have a different perspective, and with all perspectives there is a little bit of truth. The more truth you hold in your perspective the better you will see the world. That being said, it's also important that they support you. It's not always easy to see if they want what's best for you. That's why it important to be your own man. To only do what you want to do, but also be open to new experiences. The ones y…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:30 AM
0

You are afraid of the truth that comes with failure. It tells you, you aren't ready. You are insecure in the sense you can't handle failing, as you would think it somehow deems you a failure. There are things everyone is intrinsically good at and it is our duty to find our own calling. Your passion will guide you, your discipline will drive you, and only then, will success follow you. However, success comes with failure. That's why it's important to be content with failure and see it for how it …
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:05 AM
10

The lessons the red-pill offers are generally good to apply to your life, I'm not disputing that. Though it gets it's hate from the way it goes about it. On a surface level it's a hateful place, you have to go deeper to find the good, and not many people are willing to go deeper, and choose to judge by it's cover.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:40 AM
1

Well grades aren't useless, they demonstrate discipline.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 07:58 AM
2

Just invite her over to watch a movie.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 07:55 AM
1

Pass shit tests
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:22 AM
-1

Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP16/03/18 06:43 PM
4

Experience is the only way you ever truly learn. Accept failure as learning, and be honest with yourself.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 07:30 AM
6

The blood of your enemies
/r/askTRP16/03/18 07:28 AM
2

The "it's on" part should be obvious from flirting. It also doesn't really matter what you think they think. Their actions are the only sign of what is indicative of what they think.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:28 AM
3

If he is worth nothing to her, then she wouldn't have a problem lying to you. You decide if someone is trust worthy or not over time and your level of commitment follows.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:22 AM
1

Good idea, read the sidebar. It's more important than you think.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:18 AM
2

She had already made that assumption before you even asked if she is single. Why else would you talk to some random girl? Girls aren't stupid man.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:17 AM
2

Do you have a principle against bedding chicks that have herpes? Why not ask if they have herpes? If she had a boyfriend worth anything to her you would know without asking.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:14 AM
1

Yeah, but even if you were lying with no pics, you would only be lying to yourself. You even think posting pics is stupid, why do people do things that they know are stupid? Because they think out of emotion, and being insecure is emotional. So stop pretending you weren't seeking validation.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:11 AM
2

It's insecure because the premise that motivates someone to ask that, is because that person is worried about competition. If you are worried about competition you are insecure about yourself. You think that because she is taken, there is no way she would consider you, because you believe, that if there is someone else in the picture you don't have a chance. Or that your chances are so slim what's the point. I'm going to look for a girl that only had me as an option, that's the only way I'll get…
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:03 AM
1

You prefer quality over quantity, yet, are on tinder? That doesn't add up. Also, why share pics? Are you unsure of your SMV? Are you looking for this response? "You are so sexy, I don't understand why you aren't getting matches". Maybe your problem is you left your bio empty. Maybe it's because you don't think you are capable of coming up with something witty/funny, and believe you are so attractive that you can win any girls desire by sheer looks alone. I know you said you are new to RP and tha…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 09:42 AM
7

Alcohol is the best catalyst for hasty descisions.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 09:22 AM
2

Let me break it down for you. 1.) If you are waiting at a bus stop, asking what time the bus arrives at doesn't change anything. What this means is that your question if she is single or not, doesn't change if she is single or not. That regardless of asking, you are going to find out. So, the question is mostly pointless. 2.) When you ask this question it implies that you a.) Think she is incapable of letting you know she is unavailable. Or b.) You are insecure about your value as a person. So, …
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:19 AM
1

If natural, it's mostly irrelevant. The difference is only/barely measurable over a long period of time. Stick to a split you enjoy and/or works for your schedule. That being said, compound lifts are the best way to add mass, and your genetics will favour certain areas of development. Now, a body builder would be concerned over this genetic bias and would build a plan to have a more balanced physique by adding isolation movements. You are not a bodybuilder, so try not to worry about this too muc…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:59 AM
3

Doesn't matter if you ask or not. The assumption is your an outgoing guy and you are talking to her because something attracted your attention and you aren't afraid to entertain your curiosity. The truth will come out regardless so just have fun with it. It's not like the only thing that could prevent you from getting in her pants is her relationship status. What's next, asking if she is overtly religious, or HIV positive? Asking if she is single or not leads to the assumption that she is incapa…
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:37 AM
5

You find it within yourself. Abundance mentality comes from not letting pussy control your actions. Once you accept the freedom you have as an individual and experience the other things life has to offer, you'll care very little of the value women can bring to your life.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 06:32 AM
3

Try and understand why people come to the red pill in the first place. It's men who have been fucked over because they revolve their life around women. It's not about hating or liking women. It's about pointing out that you can't go though life depending on a fantasy that a woman is going to magically improve your life. That only you can improve your life, and you can't demand respect if you don't even respect yourself.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 08:14 AM
2

Just be straightforward?
/r/askTRP04/03/18 10:09 PM
3

Mmm yeah, seems so. I feel misled.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 01:14 AM
0

Women with boyfriend's aren't worth gaming. You are asking the wrong sub.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 12:39 AM
1

China is the most populated place on Earth
/r/seduction01/03/18 12:38 AM
6

First of all, being introverted has very little to do with being shy. Secondly yeah, it's a onetis. People are gonna say "drop it, learn abundance mentality". Which you aren't gonna listen to, which is fine, we create our own destiny and you'll learn one way or another. Sure man, next time your with her just see if she wants to hang out. I'm sure you guys share some mutual interests, just start there. "Hey you like movies? Me too, let's go watch a _____". Try not get ahead of yourself. But look …
/r/askTRP01/03/18 12:09 AM
3

You are your own man. You have no obligation, or should not have an obligation to bring her to your work. This only opens up the potential for unnecessary problems.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 05:54 AM
7

You are severely missing the point of his comment lol. You don't discover the redpill because you have it made.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:24 AM
4

It's not about what she is thinking it's about her actions
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:14 AM
1

Like stocks, we can sometimes invest emotions into people. Women in this case. Just be careful in that regard. You wouldn't invest stock in something you know nothing about. We'll, you shouldn't lol. Potential gains vs potential loses is the wrong idea. You might just ended up losing all of that money, what then? Might as well go to the casino.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:16 AM
2

Writing down pros and cons helps. Look at your pros and cons table and look at the emotional aspect, and cross them off. I mean look at your decision to invest in the stock market. Really ask your self why. Tell me why you want to invest in the stock market. As for women, a big part of red-pill is about lowering the value of women in our life, because we overvalue them. We think they are the answer to our unhappiness. They are not, and you are the only thing that can affect your happiness.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:29 PM
6

Big, muscular and lean? I want to look like a giant erect penis, only then will women notice me for the alpha I am.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 03:53 AM
1

Pure Independence Tbh, I think the gaming aspect is just a gateway.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:49 AM
1

Shoes are the most important, dont go cheap on the shoes man.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:46 AM
1

That's not the case at all. I suggest you re-read everything.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 11:34 AM
2

Thanks for helping me figure this out, it's appreciated
/r/askTRP05/02/18 11:14 AM
1

His tooth is fixed man. I offered to pay half a few days after it happened. His parents paid for it, I'm assuming. We both come from well-off families, with extended benefits. The tooth part wasn't really the issue. He said the issue was me not appearing to have remorse.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 11:13 AM
1

I understand it's time to move on, I already have. I'm just trying to learn from it so I can move on. I was worried about the assault charge, and technically he assaulted me first. (He threw a glove at me and it graised my cheek). I had a recording of my friend who witnessed it go down admit he didn't see me tackle him but he did see him throw the glove at me. I apologized because I could understand why he might be hurt, not because I tackled him, we both understood he deserved it. But because I…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 11:11 AM
1

I always suspected that, and I even expected this was going to be the outcome. No matter what I did. I guess I just wanted to give it a fair shot, because I felt that the time spent as friends was worth it. I see now that you are right. There may not be a missing piece. It's just who he is, and our friendship fell apart because I started respecting myself. Maybe the person I was a two, or one year ago would have let it slide. I reacted in the wrong way, but I'm happy I at least stood up for myse…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 11:04 AM
1

You're half right. It was build-up. We had a long friendship, there was some lines he crossed in the past, but we dealt with it. Anyways, that night he was acting like an asshole. We went to a club and got some drinks. He put my receipt, and a friend's into the candle, lighting them on fire. I didn't think it was funny and called him an idiot. When we left the club, he was all uppity. He called me a bitch and I literally kicked him in the ass (hard). He was pissed and put his fists up, then he b…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:39 AM
1

I've been actively reading stoicism for the past few weeks. I've known about it for months. I did apologize, a few weeks back. I told him before meeting, that I understand why he's upset, he needed a friend and I wasn't. He needed back what he gave me for a present for a friend. That I at least owe him that. That was my attempt at making things right. When I dropped those things off he didn't want to talk. I did my due diligence on the apology. I'm not concerned about that. I'm more concerned on…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:21 AM
1

Where have I gone wrong? If I was truly able to see his side of things, then I'd understand why he is still upset? But, I don't, so there is something I'm missing. Either he isn't the person I thought he was or I'm not the person I think I am. If it's the latter, I need to understand my faults.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:08 AM
1

That night a month and a half ago I had a few drinks but I wouldn't go as far to say that I was drunk. He was on the same boat.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 09:39 AM
1

I feel that I have given him chance already. That if he refuses to see my side, then, this is not a friendship I'd want. This isn't the first time where I felt he crossed a line with me. This is just the first time where I perhaps "overreacted". Besides, I already gave myself closure. I left him with a message. I said "I had a couple things to say, but I didn't want to say it in front of your dad. If you think your the only one with the right to be pissed off you are wrong. I had to swallow my a…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:43 AM
2

I told him "Do you want to talk for a minute?". He said "about what". I said "Alright then, we'll see you later." He said "There is nothing to talk about you showed your true colors, it's fucked up" Then I left as his dad was at the door with him, and I didn't want to have an agruement late. So, I left. I guess I expected to him have done as I have done, and to put myself in to his shoes. Though maybe he has, and maybe there is something that I'm not understanding. Edit: I told him I forgave him…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:33 AM
2

Probably cheaper too
/r/askTRP02/02/18 08:47 AM
2

It's pretty simple man. Is your friendship worth less than getting laid? If yes, then "yes". If no, then "no". You can't rely on other people to make your choices.
/r/seduction02/02/18 08:42 AM
2

Water doesn't make you feel warm and tingly
/r/askTRP02/02/18 08:34 AM
2

U just answered your own question lol. Edit: tho, u may want to consider the potential for drama
/r/seduction02/02/18 08:30 AM
18

Maybe you are a terrible kisser
/r/seduction01/02/18 08:13 AM
2

It's not a big deal. It's only a big deal when you assign all of your self worth on the mere fact you haven't had sex.
/r/seduction01/02/18 08:12 AM
2

First of all, try not to worry about it. The outcome won't change. Secondly, there isn't any fucking up. There is no special script that would have changed anything. Frame is what's important. Wait till Saturday, then see if she wants to hangout. If she doesn't hangout with you, that's on her, because she said she would hangout with you.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 08:07 AM
1

That's what plates are for. Doing that in an LTR is asking for trouble.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 01:01 AM
2

You are getting ahead of yourself, you shouldn't be worrying about if some one "is gonna beat you to it". Remember, you hardly know her. She isn't you girlfriend, nor your future girlfriend. She is simply someone who has piqued your interest and you are curious.
/r/seduction31/01/18 05:14 PM
2

Why the hurry? Patience.
/r/seduction31/01/18 04:00 PM
11

Rejection is a spectrum (lul). You can get a hard no. Ie. "Why are you following me around you creep" or you can get a soft no "sorry, I'm busy that day". Now, it's up to you to recognize that. Though, it's a waste of time to even try talking to someone who clearly doesn't want to talk to you. You play off the initial attraction, if your frame holds, then she'll want to fuck you. It's quite simple. She'll see you and the frame you are portraying. She'll either be attracted to it, or not attracte…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 08:09 AM
3

You gotta get to know her first man. This ain't day game, frankly it's a form of shitting where you eat. However it is highschool, and you don't want to become anti-social. Keep in mind your studies come first. Just next time you see her alone just strike up a convo, something like " hey it's you from councilling, how are you doing?". Then as soon as you feeling you two are getting carried away talking. Say you gotta run, and that you too should hangout something and get her number. The idea is …
/r/seduction31/01/18 04:38 AM
1

Every single detail about someone, whether it superficial, history etc. It's all a reflection of their character. Nobody is perfect but their is a point to be able to logically decide what relationships are beneficial and what are bad or could be bad. This is why letting yourself fall in love with a girl who has daddy issues isn't a good idea. It's an emotional choice, therefore reckless.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:29 AM
2

Can you control the past? No. Don't waste your energy being angry at the past. Instead focus on your next foot forward with the wisdom gained of your mistakes.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 03:56 AM
15

I drink alcohol for spiritual reasons too, it keeps my soul happy.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 03:54 AM
1

Yeah just a "hey, happy birthday!". She flaked on you and you should count this girl out. Though it's her birthday, and you really don't have a reason to not wish her a happy birthday. But it shouldn't be anything more that that
/r/seduction29/01/18 09:17 AM
1

If I jump off a bridge and live does that mean everyone else will too? A ketogenic diet is successful for those who have a genetic propensity to it. It can be dangerous for those who don't listen to their body and commit to it blindly. Sure try it out for a couple of weeks, if you feel like shit you aren't doing the right diet.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 09:13 AM
11

No you didn't lol. That's just being an asshole
/r/askTRP29/01/18 07:25 AM
13

Sounds like she had a lot of problems. Those are all major red flags man.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:03 PM
1

Knowing whether or not you are good person doesn't change anything other than the fact you know. It wouldn't change anything. What if you find out you are a bad person, what then? The same goes with whether or not you can make it through your life on your own. You will probably never get the truth on this as most people get some form of support. Even if you get the truth, it doesn't change anything. You can't control if you are a good or a bad person. So you need to throw this quest of discovery…
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:21 AM
1

Okay, then what are you trying to prove to yourself?
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:02 AM
3

What the hell are you trying to prove, maybe start with that? You need to stop caring about what other people may think about you. Then you won't feel the need to prove anything.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 09:59 AM
2

If aren't taking your job seriously you aren't spending your time wisely. Sure, I get it. It's just a retail job. It's also an opportunity to develop professional growth. Learn the business and take initiative. There is alot of valuable job experience in that. Last year I was in a retail job, in that time I found red-pill and began my journey in personal growth. I doubled my wage in that time, and now I'm looking for a promotion into management. Will I do this for the rest of my life, god no. Wi…
/r/seduction28/01/18 09:55 AM
2

If you're in the position to say that and get away with it, the phrase should come naturally. If you force it people will think you are a tool
/r/askTRP28/01/18 09:38 AM
3

Co-worker game ... Exe. File not found Don't fuck your co-workers
/r/seduction28/01/18 09:37 AM
8

Usually when you break up with an ex you hard next. Sounds like you managed to demote her to plate. You should probably keep it that way if you feel yourself getting attached again you need to cut it off. You guys broke up for a reason.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 09:35 AM
2

The right amount of alchohol. Jokes aside, have fun with it and simplify your motives. You are there to dance and have fun. So dance and have fun.
/r/seduction28/01/18 07:11 AM
2

Why waste time with regret. You can't change the past, only the future. Hopefully you've learned something that will help you in the future.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 05:33 AM
1

You're making some broad assumptions. Those plates weren't the onetis. Different girls. In fact it didn't even cross my mind to try what ever could have been suggested here on my old onetis. A fuck is a fuck, doesn't matter if it's been fucked by me before. That's why your analogy is stupid. A better analogy would have been "Why dig through your old trash, you threw them out for a reason". That would have gotten your point off better. Picking up new plates in a small town ain't always the easier…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:35 AM
0

That might be a good place to start if I shared any sentiments with these girls. Most of these girls i met at club/bar hybrid in town. The others at a party and there was no dates. But it's actually pretty funny you say that, this crazy (cuckoo) ONS I had messaged me actually pretty recently with that exact same template. Honestly, I think I was prompted to post this because I had a couple drinks and was feeling horny. Idk, now today I just don't even want to bother anymore.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 10:21 PM
-2

That's not a very good analogy
/r/askTRP21/01/18 08:28 AM
-1

Idk, I think there is a middle ground here. Sure finding new plates is ideal, but idk if anything is wrong with picking up an old plates, especially if it wasn't a hard next.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 07:43 AM
3

Sure, maybe. To me it sounds like a guy who places all his value on how often he gets laid. That if he didn't get laid he wouldn't respect himself. Infact he doesn't respect himself, so he seeks validation from others.
/r/seduction21/01/18 07:23 AM
3

Well, why would the guy feel the need to tell stories of the times he's been with girls.
/r/seduction21/01/18 07:19 AM
1

It's not about walking away as it's more about the process of preparing walking away. Ask yourself "What is in your control?". Her feelings and emotions are not. What you need to worry about is damage control. It seems that this relationship could fall apart. So, logically your best option is to start trying to disconnect, to reduce that emotional damage that could happen to you. In doing that process of disconnecting, she'll be faced with the scenario you are in. She'll either do what you were …
/r/askTRP20/01/18 08:40 AM
6

Weird, as in you are thinking too much about this. Don't do anymore than you have to, you have a date with her, see how that goes first. Whatever SMV you established before the date goes out the window once you meet her. Just focus on having a good time.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 08:06 AM
1

There are perks to have people like you, including women. It seems to me you clung on to the misogynistic parts of red-pill and ignored the rest. Women are only trouble to you in the wrong perspective. So, stop avoiding them because you are uncomfortable. The most valuable skill you'll ever hopefully learn in life are social skills. It opens your opportunities. You don't develop social skills by being anti-social.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 07:57 AM
1

Ever heard of STI's?
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:30 AM
2

I second this. If something isn't right you need to prepare to walk away.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:17 AM
0

Why the fuck do you want to be fucked in the ass in the first place? I will never understand this homosexual bullshit. Now do you actually want to try and understand monogamy? Or is this some TRP posturing bullshit.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:36 AM
8

It was probably a shit test. She probably just wanted to see his reaction.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:31 AM
2

That's what I mean by understanding the bigger picture. You shouldn't be seeking a sexual relationship with her, instead try and asses the other values she might bring to the table.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:23 AM
3

Your goal isn't to fuck a single person. If it is, remind yourself you just met her and you don't know her. She has a boyfriend, and going down that path is likely full of drama. Try not to put the vagina on a pedestal and understand the bigger picture.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 09:56 AM
3

Sure, I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, but, be cautious. She'll either learn her lesson or she will hide it from you in the future.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 09:53 AM
12

There is alot of reasons why you don't shit where you eat. Your situation is no different, you open yourself to headaches. She's a classmate and should be treated as such, if something sparks out of that then so be it. You don't go to class to get laid, you don't go to class to make friends. You go to class to learn and that should be your priority.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:59 AM
2

This is why abundance is important. Eating disorder and semi nude photos and a red flag. You need to be more in control of your emotional side, to prevent yourself from going down that path again. She doesn't sound good for you, and she's right, you shouldn't be asking people to change for you. It's easier to find someone else who already suits the part.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:55 AM
1

The way I understand it is, your commitment is based on her behavior. Good behavior = more commitment bad behavior = less commitment. Marriage doesn't allow you to take steps back as easily. So, it's up to you. Time will always tell, so if you are unsure about things, keep waiting.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:52 AM
3

Nail on the head.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 08:09 AM
1

Please elaborate.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 08:08 AM
1

I understand where you are coming from, but it's tiresome and pointless to try and get into her head. People change, like I said, she's probably been fucked over by a few guys, and she is trying to play it slow. She's probably established a few rules. Ex. "Don't fuck on the first meet". You need to think about what YOU want, and what you are willing to put up with. I for example would put up with her not fucking me yet, because I don't really like to spin plates. I'd rather cultivate an FWB or a…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 08:04 AM
1

Yeah, I mean if she's 32 she's bound to have some baggage. It's not your only shot man. I think the only think you can do is just wait it out, go with the flow of it, and keep as you're doing. Try not to stress out about it, try and think about what is in your control. How she feels and acts is not in your control.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:50 AM
3

Stop comparing yourself to others. Are you wasting your time. That's a question you need to answer. If your only goal is to fuck this girl and she isn't fucking you, you need to ask yourself how much time are you willing to invest to get laid. Sounds to me she's probably been fucked around by too many guys and now she has rules because she knows she doesn't have self control. Don't take the fact this girl won't fuck you personally. You can't control what she does. If you are comparing yourself t…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:42 AM
1

You need to ask yourself, constantly, "what is in my control?". You can't control your landlord and you can't control your roommate. However, you can decide who you live with, and who you rent property from. There are shitty people in this world. The easier it is for you to cut these people out of your life, the easier it is to not give a fuck about what other people think. When I'm dealing with people who are shitty, I give them the benefit of the doubt. I explain to them what boundary they cro…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:35 AM
17

Then get her some fucking drinks you imbecile.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:28 AM
3

Age? It's important. This happened to me before, I lightly grasped her chin and pulled her to me. I've been burnt by this before, but you can still recover. If rejection happens you need to hold frame. You still need to be careful making a move like that. If she's over at your house and you guys are cuddling. I'd bet she's attracted to you, so you aren't running a risk to be a little bit aggressive. Women get anxious and nervous just like people (lol), that's probably all it was. Chin up man, te…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:26 AM
2

Let me put it this way. You have a shovel and you are looking for some treasure (your dream). You don't know where it is but it's somewhere underground. You can either sit their and wait for a sign to tell you where that treasure is, or you can start digging. Try new things man. Get out and do things you aren't comfortable doing ex. Sign up for an art class. It'll do a lot more for you than waiting.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:40 PM
1

A beta is just the male equivalent to a slut. A beta gives up his commitment because he is desperate to get laid. A slut fucks because she is desperate for commitment.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:32 PM
6

She's probably just a plate to you. FWB requires at least some form of compassion. You would be concerned about why she was crying, maybe she was crying about something else?
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:27 PM
-1

"beta this, alpha that" it doesn't fucking matter.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:22 PM
1

You fucked her in a public restroom. How much does this girl mean to you?
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:16 PM
1

A missionary wants you to be Catholic. AWALT, women desire commitment. Some will settle for your lack of commitment, some won't. According to redpill they need to earn your commitment. Their desire for your commitment is only relevant by the amount you care for that commitment.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:14 PM
1

You're looking for validation in an anonymous online forum by humble bragging. That's what you are doing wrong.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:02 PM
1

Nope, didn't say that
/r/askTRP26/11/17 03:02 PM
1

Text convo before tonight but after she blew my friend( Chad) as recent follows: Her: Will I see u tomorrow Me: yeah, I can make it. Her: I'm so excited Me: to lose, what a strange thing to be excited for (pubnight had a game) Her: now way, ur going down Me: I'd need three dates at least Her: lolol Her: deal I didn't respond. Then tonight at pub.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 09:26 AM
6

Text convo before tonight but after she blew my friend( Chad) as recent follows: Her: Will I see u tomorrow Me: yeah, I can make it. Her: I'm so excited Me: to lose, what a strange thing to be excited for (pubnight had a game) Her: now way, ur going down Me: I'd need three dates at least Her: lolol Her: deal I didn't respond. Then tonight at pub.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 09:17 AM
1

If ur under 25 social media is a norm. Have it but don't use it for validation. It's to connect with people you know.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:00 AM
2

Lol srs?
/r/askTRP16/11/17 06:37 AM
3

Growing up with a group of hockey kids did the trick
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:00 AM
6

Yes you should respond Do the emoji thing the other guy said, just "😘".
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:34 AM
1

How's your logistics? Do you live alone? Does she?
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:20 AM
2

Give it time man. Block her off social media, delete number, force her out of your life and let time heal. Learn from it so it doesn't happen on the next.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:02 AM
13

Careful playing too cold man. Probably a comfort test. Don't cast it aside, but use it to arrange another meet. Something like "You're gonna have to hold on for a few more days, I'm free Sunday"
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:00 AM
2

Not that either
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:54 AM
1

Yeah, no.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:53 AM
1

Building frame is the same as building confidence. To be specific, frame is an aspect of confidence. As far as confidence goes, building it takes time. The first step to building confidence is short term simple goals. Start by making your bed every day. Even if you forgot about it, and are about to get to bed, make it. Confidence manifests itself the more you succeed. Whether how big or small those successes are it builds your confidence. Keep challenging yourself.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:52 AM
1

Fair enough man. Thanks.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 08:33 AM
1

Count your calories for the next 3 days. Average it out. Day 1: 2200 Day 2: 2100 Day 3: 2300 Average 2200. Dont try to eat more or less, just eat what you'd regularily eat. After the 3 days. Add 500 calories to your average. Aim to hit that everyday. Weigh in every week. Adjust cals by 200 based on amount of weight gain or not. Aim for no more than 2 pounds a week. For macros, protein should be set to 1g for 1lb of goal body weight. Fat should be atleast 55g. Carbs is filler. Fat is filler too, …
/r/askTRP15/08/17 06:27 PM
1

I get cha, thats how ive played it so far.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:12 PM
4

Awesome, thanks for the advice man. Just been busy, sorry for late reply. As far as that shit goes. I figure its an acconplishment for me, and im proud of it.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:11 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. I moved out at 18. I got that shit in order. Yes, girls defs like the clenliness.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:10 PM
1

As far as that risk goes. Alot of guys here preach about being the top 10% of guys out there. It seems that the risk of 55% of divorce rates isnt a real threat when you've acheived that goal. All BS aside, does a redpilled man hide from risk?
/r/askTRP27/07/17 07:36 AM
1

I'm crossing my fingers. I'll check it out, thanks.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 07:29 AM
1

Not sound cocky, but I have yet to meet girl who hasn't broken "frame" with her "rules". The other guys here will tell you that if she doesnt break those rules, it means your "beta". So it seems like there isn't a win situation with these kind of girls. I just get a feeling where if a girl feels she needs to explicitly state her rules, shes probably been with enough guys where she needs rules to keep herself in line, and she needs you to keep her accountable aswell
/r/askTRP24/07/17 11:15 PM
1

Sure, I was more curious on how people feel on the statement. "Girls with rules, are the girls who have issues or are untrustworthy". In my experience if found this to be true. Was curious if anyone else agreed.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 10:38 PM
2

Not saying there is a problem. I'm just saying the girls with rules, are the ones with baggage. I was curious if anyone agreed.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 10:37 PM
2

Its simple man. It seems like the problem is him. Stop hanging out with him.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 07:28 AM
2

Yes, hope with people who share the same level of communication with you. Why would you want to be with someone you can't properly communicate with? That being said you live in an english speaking country. Cultural identity is important but so is opening opportunities.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 06:52 AM
3

Don't talk politics? Edit: if asked, just say "i dont know enough to comment".
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:02 AM
3

Keep music as a hobby man.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:01 AM
3

Alchohol helps lol. I kid. Well not really. Anyways, bro, next time ur at at chicks house, and she even says, "what you dont want to stay here?". Its a simple "lets watch a movie". Its game over at that point. Arm around, cuddle, escalate. She gives the eye contact and you make out. Before you know it, you are fucking. The movie close is the easiest close in the book. Use it. Edit: dont get a prostitute. Shits full of problems, that sex aint worth.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:00 AM
3

That's a hard pill to swallow haha.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 05:34 PM
1

There is a difference between talking strategy and talking self development. Edit: I understand self development is a must, im just not interested in that type of advice right now, because its something im already doing.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 09:02 AM
1

Gotta have that ying and yang my friend haha. Hopefully that helps man.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 06:56 AM
1

Bi-monthly booty call I see. That makes a tad more sense. The idea of banging 2-3 plates a week does sound like it could be a little much. 2 week fling Ah yes, though the 2 week fling ussually ends because i sense clingyness. Though, the other times I agree, I have probably been too available.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 06:54 AM
2

I think the issue with being depressed correlates with a feeling of lacking meaning in life. Alot of guys are depressed by a oneties because they have put her as their meaning in life. Once it settles in that she isn't attainable they are left with nothing. Though this may not be your experience with your feeling of depression, though the feeling of having no meaning, im sure, resonates. Find something you can be passionate about man. Other than lifting. Lifting, although a good outlet for negat…
/r/askTRP04/07/17 06:47 AM
1

Like having chick friends?
/r/askTRP04/07/17 05:45 AM
1

The sidebar at /r/theredpill has alot of information on what to do here.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:29 AM
1

I think the only con is maybe giving your FWB the wrong idea. Though introducing her as a friend is fine.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 11:01 PM
7

A new car hmm. Wise spending choice.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 10:56 PM
1

I do. She's a cool person. I just don't want open old wounds ya know. Its was all good yesterday.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 03:28 PM
2

Yeah and thanks for that. A big part of posting here is it helps simplfy things.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:12 AM
1

Idk sounds cucky but i appreciate the help.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:07 AM
1

Yea, I doubt hed get violent. He has a scholarship for a sports team. So I guess if push comes to shove just for it.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:06 AM
0

I still think thats going nuclear. Just in away that wouldn't get to him. I know exactly what to say that will knock him down a peg. Im just reserving that for when its asked for. Hes can get rapey with chicks. All the boys know this but its a taboo. Id just say "i didn't want to see you snap me a vid of a chick crying after you fucked her." Its actually happened.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:01 AM
1

So what just plead the 5th? How do i react to that shitest? Give me an example the only i think i can get out of that is going nuclear.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 07:47 AM
1

Owning it is the only way down i guess. All other options just ends in cuck. Though Chad is in a different friend group. I aint gonna play victim. I guess im still clinging to this onetis, and it disgusts me. If chad brings it up i guess just gotta call him out. If she brings it up i just attack her on why she would even bring it up.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 07:39 AM
1

Drinks after was just me and my pal. His gf just straight jumped in and said we should all do something. Im not just gonna be like " uh no". I was blindsided by the whole thing.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 07:31 AM
1

I already went man. Im not retreating from anything and i just find it all awkward and odd. I dont know how to respond if that confrontation happens. How do i play off "why did you block me". Just straight slam the truth down?
/r/askTRP30/06/17 07:27 AM
1

Because if he has any level of a conscious this is going to be in the back of his head for aslong as they are together. Might aswell get it out of the way. Besides he shouldn't have done it in thr first place.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:20 PM
1

Because, people play games dick head. Stop being so god damn cynical. Its probably a good thing you "nexted" her, you sound like a train wreck right now.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 09:00 AM
1

Thats absolute trash, your needs are not the customer's needs. Don't sell using your own wallet.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 08:53 AM
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No, fuck that noise. That comes as desperate, and shows you didnt have the balls to close in person. Don't "forget" next time.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 08:51 AM
1

So many people think sales is about closing. Closing is the cherry on top of the sundae. You need to learn how to make ice cream. Know. Your. Product. Inside and out. Learn all the in and outs, and all the applications of your product. People can sell on product knowledge alone. Product knowledge puts you in the game. Plain and simple, know your shit. I cannot stress how important this is, your buyer needs to trust you, and knowing your shit is a very simple way to do this. Know. Your. Customer.…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 08:48 AM
1

Martial arts is getting in shape and learning to defend yourself. You get more out of it in the long run. Short run, lifting weights will get you in shape the fastest. Will also give u a good athletic bade if u do decide to pursue a more functional approach.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 08:06 AM
3

Im the opposite man. My day game is the pits. Though bar game is overrated, the girls you pick up are low value. Just build on your day game man.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 07:06 AM
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Tell your GF. Own your actions. Take this as a lesson for the future.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 06:57 AM
1

It's not about not giving a fuck. Fucks must be given, if no fucks are given, id call that depression. Its about channelling your fucks into the proper priorities. Ex. You are nervous because you have a shot at some hot shiela, and you want to impress her, and you hope she likes you. The fucks are all given to her. You should be giving your fucks to yourself. Ex. You are not nervous because you are curious. Hot shiela caught your attention, and you want to see what she is about. You are vetting …
/r/askTRP29/06/17 06:54 AM
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Nobody said there was anything wrong with hypergamy. Sure it causes people strife, but thats just life. Its just how the game is played, understanding that game is how you cum on top.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 06:47 AM
2

This chick is low value man. She should be nothing more than a plate for you.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 06:44 AM
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No, that is not the TRP approach at all. The TRP approach is to not give a fuck, because, bitches be crazy and they come and go. I once met a girl I could not fuck because her pussy was too tight. You could barely fit a single finger in. Do you think she wants an 8inch cock? Fuckin no. The problem you have is you keep listening to what society tells you is attractive. That is a blue pill mentality. Women do not know what they want, so stop giving a fuck about it.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 08:08 AM
1

Its not like i sobbed in the washroom. I took a breather a shed a tear.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 04:05 AM
1

Its only temporary, i took school off for the summer and decided that i should spend that time being productive.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 08:09 PM
1

I figured letting it out would probably be right call. I've just never cried from exhaustion before.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 08:05 PM
2

21
/r/askTRP25/06/17 04:09 PM
3

Bro what? Why are u taking test to kill sperm count? That shit will fuck you in the long run.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 09:13 AM
3

Baning on the counter (wasn't me)
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:15 AM
2

She just wants you as a friend, so, if need be, she can make her new plug jealous. Tell that hoe to kick rocks.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:10 AM
2

You come here thinking people on TRP have beef with social media, so, logically that makes TRP the best place for you to ask advice on social media, right?
/r/askTRP24/06/17 10:32 PM
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Don't play coy. You knew exactly what you were doing, you just got cold feet. Be a man, accept the consequences of your actions and move on.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 10:26 PM
9

Traveling is fun, but all of your problems will be waiting for you when you get back home.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 08:14 AM
4

Does this relationship help you? If not, cut him out.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 08:12 AM
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Part of being a man is having self control. LTR is something that requires a decent level of commitment(self-control). If you arent prepared for that, or feel she doesn't fit your needs then demote her.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 08:10 AM
14

If you dont like it. Its a deal breaker. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 08:05 AM
9

There isn't some magic method man. Stop waiting for inspiration and do it.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 08:04 AM
1

No problem.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:39 AM
3

I don't know why you guys broke up, nor do I need to know. At the end of the day you guys are coworkers now, it'd be best for both of you to put that past behind you and focus on work.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:38 AM
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"Hey, I guess were co workers now, how have you been?" Just be friendly man. No need to have this awkward tension build up. The earlier you set the tone the easier it'll be moving forward.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:30 AM
19

No, as a fucking pylon.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:27 AM
1

Just the initial "Hey, I heard you were working here too, how has it been?". Try not to go to far from that.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:26 AM
11

Start prositituting yourself, it not only will give you more money, but also a sense of abundance mentality from getting laid all the time.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:26 AM
1

It doesn't have to be awkward. You guys used to date and now you work together. I'd try and ease the tension by saying hi.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:24 AM
1

If she's a plate, i'd just ghost. No point putting yourself in a posistion where she could go psychotic. That being said, I'd wait for more input from some of the other guys here. I'm not even sure if I made the right call or not.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 09:45 AM
2

I just posted a similar question. Essentially same story but it was a ONS. I sensed she was hoping for it to be something more. I decided to cut it off. I would have liked to smash but, I didnt think that was worth hurting someone.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 09:32 AM
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If you dont like her smoking. Ask her to stop. If she doesnt stop, you demote to plate. You don't threaten or give ultimatums. You ask, then demote.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:33 AM
2

Does it matter? Personally idgaf. Do you have a problem with her smoking?
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:26 AM
1

Dont eat anything for 7 days. You'll melt away weight
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:23 AM
4

He's a good friend. Shouldn't sacrifice that over a girl.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:29 AM
1

I find older women sexy. Insecurity is not sexy, alot of older women are insecure, especially the single ones.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:28 AM
9

I think the biggest thing about redpill is just learning how the game is played and where to put your priorities. Everything else should be taken with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:26 AM
1

Aint that the truth.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 09:06 PM
1

Haha, ya think so eh?
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:57 PM
2

He doesnt have a sister. Though he has a dad, should i prison bitch his dad?
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:41 PM
1

Maybe its a favour. I can promise you it wasnt the intention.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:00 PM
2

Yup, lesson learned. Thats why I vent that shit here.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:39 PM
1

I never said any of this lol.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:28 PM
1

Oh I did have the feels man. I had it bad.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:13 PM
1

Im not trying to act tough at all man. Calm the fuck down. This subreddit is about opening up to TRP critisim. Not whatever bullshit you are trying to pull here. I realize im not where i want to be. Alot of people here are not where they want to be. Pointing that out is just plain unnecessary, use your brain.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:10 PM
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It was essentially a cliche romance movie until it wasn't. It was a fling and i wanted more out of it, she didnt. It stopped flat in its tracks, my guard was down. In the short time we had together, i somehow developed feelings for her. I dont normally cling on to people like that. I told myself that because im feeling this way, it must truly be something special. Then, in a grand finale, she kept ghosting. Not in a harsh way, but a slow gruelling way. She kept saying yes to plans, telling me sh…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 05:06 PM
2

In my drunken haze last night i already managed to block him off of everything haha.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 04:37 PM
2

I think you've got this down. You really understand the situation haha.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 04:35 PM
1

Not even man. It was a fling. I let my guard down, it happened really fast. Its not like i got lost in the sauce either. I was spinning two plates when i was with her. I dont want to get into the details too much because im over that part of life. Though, i never really had anxiety until i met her. I also, almost turned into a borderline alchoholic. Chad knows all of this.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 04:32 PM
2

He is an old friend. Have known him for a long time. This was the tipping point tho.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 04:23 PM
2

Its something I was thinking about before last night. Ill cut him out.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 04:18 PM
2

Its more than a girl i liked. I am mostly over her now. Just, she left me devastated dude. Chad knows exactly how devastated I was.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 04:17 PM
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I have fucked the oneitis. For the record.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 04:09 PM
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He's a 2nd tier friend. He lives in the states playing a college sport under scholarship. I live in Canada. He comes to visit and we get crazy. He talks about how wild college chicks are. Though as much as he is a Chad, i think he embelishes shit to make him look more like a chad. He has grass wheels, hes just an extremely goodlooking dude. So when he talks about the shit hes done out there, i want to call bullshit because he hasn't done it here. I have sucessfully shit tested him in the past, t…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 04:08 PM
1

For the record I did bang this oneitis.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 03:52 PM
1

U got it man. Dont stress out
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:47 PM
1

Wrong sub.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:37 PM
1

U need to work on your frame. All that shit comes naturally if you have a good frame. Abundance menality is essentially seeing if this person is worth your time. Don't worry about her liking you, if she doesn't then whatever. If she does, you didnt break frame and you know she is going to play by your rules.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:37 PM
1

We rocked third base, so the f-close wouldn't be a problem at all. She is roomates with a coworker, i dont want any drama id have with her to leak in to work
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:32 PM
1

Its more just not wanting to deal with someone who may not be in the right state of mind. The whole not sticking ur dick in crazy thing
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:27 PM
1

Okay and?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:14 PM
1

Yeah fair enough.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:09 PM
1

Shes a friend of a co-worker, got nothing to lose by casing it out. Rather not deal with crazy blowback and hear the tail end from my coworker. I just not sure if its anything to worry about.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:04 PM
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Yes, he is about to get a seperated. Though he isn't seperated yet. "A piece of paper shouldn't stop someone from cheating" Then don't get married. Don't shit where you eat, there are plenty of reasons why in the sidebat. There are alot of people who get married simply because the timing feels right. If your marriage is failing you didn't vet properly. She has a boyfriend. All things considered, this chick is not worth the effort. Im not saying marriage is a smart idea. I am saying if you do get…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 03:28 PM
1

There is no way for you to create space? Dont come at her with hostility. Be level, respectful, and dont break frame. You do this, she will tone down, or leave you guys alone.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:59 AM
1

You are wrong on hedonism. Hedonism is simply "Humans seek pleasure over pain" After all pros and cons are weighed people will choice the best choice for themselves. When i mean all pros and cons i mean short and longterm. Obviously people can get this wrong, thats why some people do shitty things. Nobody would purposefully cause themselves grief unless they believed it would give a good outcome.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:54 AM
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You are married dude, get a fucking grip. You made a commitment. Also, its a coworker and she has a boyfriend too. I dont care if ur marriage is going into the shitter, you made a commitment, work on it.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:50 AM
2

When i say talk to your mom about it, i mean get her blessing to tell your aunt to piss off. Don't just bow down to her shit when she says "this isnt your house". Stick to your guns.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:46 AM
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Dont take tinder whores out for dinner. Thats the lesson here. Edit: and no, she is not worth your effort to "salvage" a 2 bit convo.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:43 AM
1

Depends on what u want out of her dude. If its a plate whats the point correcting her. I'd correct her, because i dont like being called the wrong name. "The name is _____, or the guy who made you cum last night. Either works for me. "
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:41 AM
1

It's very simple. How can i offer advice to someone to a different culture? Alot of guys here go off experience, alot of guys here operate in NA.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:31 AM
2

Welcome to North America where some cultures may be more or less attractive than others. Its a predominantly white society. Worried about your asian smv? Assimilate or have at her at the home country. You'd do better. Im telling you its a cultural, not a skin tone thing.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:29 AM
3

Sounds like your aunt is a total cunt. Have a conversation with your mom about. Family matters, though it sounds like that part of your family is broken. If you and your mom are on the same page, you need to step up for her and tell your aunt to kick rocks. Family doesn't threaten eachother. "This isnt your house" "It's not yours either, you are making my mother miserable." It's simple as that.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:26 AM
1

Yes, lifting is part of TRP. Though i don't think this is the sub to ask those questions. That being said. 1500 cal is way to low. You are going to kill ur metabolism
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:57 AM
3

I suppose hendonism is a suit for me. I do things that I enjoy. Doesn't matter what, if the pros surplus the cons, why not? Life is overated and often over complicated. I am here to enjoy what it has to offer. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 07:29 AM
2

Alcohol makes building connections very easy. Its very entwined in many cultures. Why don't you drink? If you don't hit the bar scene, typical day game would be the best suit. Pick up girls in your day to day. Hobbies, etc. Though, not wanting to drink may hinder you. Drinking isn't really a big deal if you can still go to a bar/club/pub and have fun. If you can't do this you may have weak social skills.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 07:23 AM
1

Efforts should be for you, not for women.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 06:40 AM
3

This is more of an ethical question. You can lie and be devious, though it may bring drama. I prefer the honest route. So what if it may lose you a plate. Its simply a plate, shes asking for commitment, if this is not what you want to give her, then, you should not be worried about her response.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 06:36 AM
2

What benefit do you get from being upfront? Ghost, if its a plate, this is an acceptable play.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 06:31 AM
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The problem is simply "Tinder". A big lesson in life is learning to pick your battles. Tinder puts you in a posistion of desperation. Unless you are extremely photogenic, Tinder won't get you very far. Focus attention to the bar scene.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 06:29 AM
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