Hi,

I find that I do too much 'pull' (complimenting) and can't seem to master the 'push' aspect without it sounding mean/overly-aggressive. For example a girl in a conversation asked me something, I said:

Me: "Are you hitting on me?" Her: "Yes" Me: "Well you look nice but I find girls like you ugly".

Obviously she was pissed and never talked to me again.

The reason I am making this post is I hope to find somebody I can do 'mock' conversations with, just to practice the technique.