Hi guys,

So this one is just confusing me. My LTR had a car accident a few weeks ago. It wasn't anything bad physically. She was fine. It was pretty much a fender bender. Her car happened to get totaled though due to it being a small car against a big truck.

This happened during a very busy time in my life (trying to start up my own business). At the time, I consoled her but I couldn't pay much attention to it the following days. She pulled back and then I pulled back as well. We went a few days with no contact. When we finally do talk, she's different. She's more withdrawn and mentions how I neglected her during this time. Sure, I wasn't around but I was busy doing my own shit and couldn't really compromise my days after work.

How has she changed? Used to be more affectionate. She's become more independent (not a bad thing but it's definitely a red flag to me). Very dull about the relationship in general. Tries my attempted affection post sex. "Do you really love me?"

My question is, how do I go about this? I just want to know if this is a sinking ship or if I'm just overreacting to a stressful period.

Thanks for the help.