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Was Patrick Swayze a victim of domestic abuse? Wife denies extraordinary claims she beat the Dirty Dancing star throughout their 34-year marriage - and even when he was dying of cancer. Friend reportedly says Niemi would often beat him even when he was ill.

furchfur

June 14, 2016
34 upvotes
/r/MensRights
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3640792/Was-Patrick-Swayze-victim-domestic-abuse-Wife-denies-extraordinary-claims-beat-Dirty-Dancing-star-34-year-marriage-dying-cancer.html
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Title Was Patrick Swayze a victim of domestic abuse? Wife denies extraordinary claims she beat the Dirty Dancing star throughout their 34-year marriage - and even when he was dying of cancer. Friend reportedly says Niemi would often beat him even when he was ill.
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furchfur

Upvotes 34
Comments 20
Date June 14, 2016 5:25 PM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/4o2jav/was_patrick_swayze_a_victim_of_domestic_abuse/
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Comments

[–]baserace 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Let's see some proof if it happened repeatedly over years, and while he was sick. This is a scandalous accusation if untrue.

[–]Rethgil 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

And yet twitter is strangely silent about this while being very vocal about condemning johnny depp before any proof has been heard in court. One of these things is totally different, one of these things is not the same....

[–]CarrotStick9999 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

And the even-handed denizens of /r/mensrights are upvoting both.

[–]baserace 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, there is no contradiction there.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

29 upvotes on this one as of this moment, and roughly 1300 or so on the first few stories around Depp/Heard. I don't think they are that comparable in activity.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you truly surprised? If you have an ongoing social bias and you release two stories, one in line with the bias, and the other contrary to the bias, which do you think will show more legs and is more likely to go viral?

Violence against women is such a hot topic that even false rape accusers are being invited to the White House or are getting national level columns in major magazines. The VP of the country might even write to praise your spirit and tenacity! Violence against men? Not so much.

I get your point, but I think there's far less hypocrisy than you believe there is. Just ordinary people doing what ordinary people do, and engaging in some pretty blatant herd behaviour and virtue signaling. People pile on because it gets them something, socially, but Swayze's story has no real social payoff.

[–]Imnotmrabut 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Reading the coverage it just all has such a common pattern that those who have escaped or worked with escapees can recognize all too well.

I have alarm bells ringing and they peal out "Steven Hawking- Steven Hawking".

As a cripple, who has been about as people became more disabled, I have seen the escalation of abuse and violence all too often. I know it's only anecdotal, but every time It's been a female abuser, with all around her excusing the abuse, and male carers being the one's stepping in to provide not just care but having to act as a shield from the abuser.

I'm also aware of just how hard it is to get authorities such as he police to believe what is happening (It often is Domestic Abuse) whilst hey are only too happy to hear a counterclaim or excuses from the FEMALE carer.

[–]ABC_Florida 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

What you say, is like saying "Uhm, he's a swimmer? Then he probably really raped her."

I would wait till those 'friends' develop this thing called 'name', come forward and produce evidence. It is not Salem.

[–]Imnotmrabut 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

No - I'm pointing to a well known pattern which many are ignornat of and unwilling to belive possible.

I have not promoted any witch hunts, but you do promote blindness to reality which keeps the abused all too often imprisoned.

[–]ABC_Florida 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

No - I'm pointing to a well known pattern which many are ignornat of and unwilling to belive possible.

It is the same as saying Gomeshi is a rapist, because he likes to be dominant.

[–]Imnotmrabut 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

No darling - again I have only pointed out that a known pattern exists, that tends to be known amongst those experienced in the field but not known well by the general public. I have not said who it applies to.

You may need to look at my past posts across socuial networks where I follow edvidence and uncomfortable truths. I only call a spade a F###ing shovel when I clear evidence, in triplaicate and if possible fully peer reviewed by god!

On the other hand, you personally are showing patternsn that are evident and fascinating! LOL P¬))

[–]ABC_Florida 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

You are doing what those people do who label Johnny Depp a wife beater. Prejudge without evidence. I don't doubt your experiences. I have friends myself who were hit by their SO.

I'm simply saying innocent until proven guilty. No matter what genitals they sport. There is a procedure to prove you're right. It does not involve speaking about it in the media.

[–]Imnotmrabut 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Darling - I pointed out the same matters ref Mr Depp!

Do look at the time lines!

[–]ABC_Florida 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Assumptions do not belong to this sub. Facts, and claims by people with names belong here.

You were a victim of similar violence? I condemn the one who hit you. Write a post, and speak about it. I probably would participate. But don't be like some feminists, blowing shit up for good measures. If you want a case, convince his friends to come forward and file a case, or produce evidence other than their words.

[–]Imnotmrabut 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Darling Boy - you evidently have quite a bee in your bunnet!

Maybe you should do some reading, given what I posted such a short time ago, elsewhere in /t/mensrights :

So a person who has a history of DV Perp marries a person with no history of DV either as perp or victim and now we have that person being listed as the Perp and the Perp as the victim.

What do men experience when attacked?

Table 1. Types, Frequency, and Prevalence of IPV

Type of IPV Percent who Experienced Average # of Times It happened in Past Year
Minor Psychological 100.0% 62.1
Severe Psychological 96.0% 27.8
Controlling Behaviors 93.4% 39.8
Insisting on Sex 41.1% 3.9
Minor Physical 98.7% 31.6
Severe Physical 90.4% 15.1
Very Severe Physical 54.0% 4.0
Minor Injuries 77.5% 9.7
Severe Injuries 35.1% 4.6

WHAT HAPPENDED DURING THE LAST PHYSICAL ARGUMENT? We asked about the last physical argument that took place between the helpseekers and their female partners. The majority of men reported that in the latest instance, their female partners had hit first (93%), and in response, the male helpseekers:

Males Response When Female Partner Hit First %
Attempted to get away 85.4%
Yelled and Cursed 62.8%
Called Friends/Family 45.3%
Cried 29.8%
Called Police 28.3%
Grabbed/Shoved/Pushed/Hit Back 19.5%

During the last physical argument, according to the reports of male helpseekers, the female partner was more than twice as likely to have been drinking than the male partner (26.2%; 11.5%, respectively).

http://www2.clarku.edu/faculty/dhines/Men_closer_look_IT_factsheet_final.pdf
Hines, Denise A., & Douglas, Emily M. (2010). A closer look at men who sustain intimate terrorism by women. Partner Abuse, 1(3), 286-313.

Given the known patterns and statistics and that Heard has a known and reported DV History and Depp does not (and even has past family saying loudly he does not) in all likelihood this is all a case of mutual Combat with heard the Instigator due to her internal and life long motivations.

Do you by any chance have any facts, research, published materials to bring to people's knowledge.... or are you just going to keep on with you ASSumptions about what others, think, believe and even mean - filtered through your astigmatic global lenses?

Please do respond with relevant references, source materials and utile references. Cheers.

[–]ABC_Florida 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Have to say, that your comment is awesome. Put together with care, and has the source. So really nice. Honey Bunny.

Yelled and Cursed 62.8%

I personally witnessed one of this myself. Guess who was the butt hurt and ran away!

But you still can't pull a statistic on people no matter how much you want. It works the other way around. People testify, produce some evidence, and other people make a statistic about it. The moment Patrick Swayze's friend comes forward, and produces evidence, or his ex acknowledge, than will it be true to me.

So don't try to debate this with me. To me innocent until proven guilty. No matter what genitals they sport. I won't be some male version of a rape culture advocate.

[–]Il128 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The numbers are really bad because this is rarely studied, but somewhere between 20-40% of men suffer from domestic abuse. Add to that most woman on man domestic violence isn't reported because most men don't even know they are being abused.

[–]DailMail_Bot 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Non-Daily Mail Mirror

Code on github.

[–]omegaphallic 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I loved Patrick in Dirty Dancing, so I really hope its not true, but if it is, I hope charges are laid and evidence comes out.

[–]TheDude41 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

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