A couple years ago (in Europe), I was with this girl for a few months, who I thought was out of my league.

Throughout the relationship, I was inadvertently being Alpha - made her earn my time, dread game off the charts (being a tourist), and overall being the one with the higher SMV despite this girl being like HB8.

Long story short, I came home (to the states) to finish school. Had a great time together, but after I came back, I left her Alpha widowed. No major incidents on her part, I just live in another country and luckily did not get attached/catch feelings to the degree she did for me.

Girl is super smart, entrepreneurial minded, starting businesses (not the typical girl that deserves ghosting). And since I am the same way, business minded and passionate about marketing and advertising brands, I value the friendship and hope we can be great resources for each their (about business).

Problem is, (this is where I started being suspicious of alpha widow-ness) she wants to use our friendship to seek relationship advice from me (dates AF that don't want to commit, surprise surprise). Keeps texting me shit like "why can't more guys be like you?" and asking "are ALL American guys this way?" (Not willing to commit without her providing enough value).

AND she still wants to sleep with me (has visited my city and tried to pull this off) - which is off the table, I'm in a stable LTR.

But most of all, I want this girl to get her shit together so when we potentially start working on business projects, she won't be constantly craving the D in a professional setting.

This girl has her professional life together, owns a couple businesses, overall making power moves, but her personal life is lacking (her younger brother recently got married and she is feeling the pressure).

I think I've been handling this situation bad enough, only messaging back vague support with no emotional investment.

I wanna help this chick, and my first thought was to refer her to red pill women. But looking through it, I'm not sure I can find what they even stand for.

lol I've even considered sending her the stupid Steve Harvey book "Think Like a Man". [aka Think Like an beta boy]

Any advice from any of you gentleman that might have thrown a bone to your Alpha widows that are still worth your time?