I can't approach

SkorchZang · 2017-08-05T11:28:47+00:00

Approach 3 crochety old ladies, ask how is their day and exchange pleasantries. Imagine how fuckin hot they were when younger.

Then switch it up a little and approach attractive women of fuckable age. Same deal, but imagine how wrinkly and saggy they will look in a few years time.

Nothing special will happen, you won't be a success nor will you be a failure. No one is judging you, it's just a blue pill taboo you gotta break for yourself and then get addicted to breaking the blue pill rules in general.

Think of it as your arm being packaged in annoying protective plastic. You want to break it off, you need that arm's full range of motion, that's about it. It doesn't matter what the old ladies & sexy girls say to you in their responses. It's not about them and it's not about you, it's about getting that annoying protective plastic off.

alwaysalliterateonce · 2017-08-05T13:14:09+00:00

I know I look good, I have confidence in myself, but I'm a pussy because I can't do a little approach.

If you can't do a single proper pullup during a workout, it's been suggested that you do negative reps until you can do proper ones.

If it helps take the advice of just approaching randoms for shit like the time or making a small comment about the weather and count those as a negative approach, it'll make actual approaching much easier

1Pink1Stink · 2017-08-05T01:19:02+00:00

Read The Power of Now and learn to control your mind.

Gunter5 · 2017-08-05T01:27:17+00:00

I am in the same boat... I was a social recluse but Im working on it... I personally think you have to take baby steps. There is a program im considering.. its called demonic confidence. first day you just ask people the time and slowly progress.

you can google that program and see the "missions"....

just like with working out... you have to make it a habit... anyway im heading out and you should too.

Greekzack · 2017-08-05T02:39:54+00:00

Bro, you have to get comfortable with yourself first. If it's awkward for you, it will be awkward for the girl. Also, the cold showers isn't going to change you like your hoping.

Title	I can't approach
Author	LielS30
Upvotes	7
Comments	5
Date	August 5, 2017 1:01 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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