have a summer fling with who really likes me. gotten head 3 times, gone on 5-6 quality dates, and we talk everyday and things are going amazing. at first i wanted to end it after summer, as we both will be going to different colleges (both in same city) but now i want to date her. she mentioned how she wants the same thing I originally did but now she saying shes catching feelings and doesnt want to say goodbye. how do i continue my relationship w her in college?