I am a software engineer and a solid 6+ in the looks department. I noticed that a lot of the single moms I match with are very attractive girls who got ditched because they had an unwanted baby.

I almost feel like I should be trying to get with the single moms because they are really attractive and want me for my "secure future" because of my job. Obviously I am not going to spend any money on them and to make sure to wrap it up, but I feel like I am not thinking it through... I am only 24 but I never get matched with women of the same attractive order who don't have kids. Thoughts?

I know we like to put emphasis on beta bucks. But it almost seems worth it to have a girl like me for my secure job. It seems like I will be even more attractive in 4 years just because of my job's value...