One of my plates and I are having a conversation. She goes "You seem like the kind of guy who harmlessly flirts with a girl at a bar but doesn't try to take her home".

This took me back for a moment, I am a large intimidating guy 220+ and I never let myself get friend zoned by girls. Nobody I know would describe me as a push-over. Yet here is a girl I'm banging who thinks I am a harmless flirt? Essentially a "nice guy" beta.

Do I take from this:

A) I need to flirt with more purpose B) I need to rethink my personal demeanour and adjust accordingly

Am I overthinking this or was she just trying knock me down a level?