In HS do I have to be necessarily part of the cool group to get girls? I know most of the cool group and some of them are some of my closest friends but most of them just aren’t fun to hang around with. On the other hand, I’ve got my group of friends who I’m basically the leader of. We’re all kind of trying to improve ourselves by working out and becoming more confident so we are pushing each other to be better I suppose. I also just enjoy being with them. But apparently if you aren’t higher than a girl in social terms she’ll always look down on you. Do I need to join the cool group?