So far, I’ve learned that AWALT and they act from instinct and that they don’t even realize that they do these things(shittest, manipulate etc.)

Has anyone ever had any experience with letting a girl know, like telling them - and them actually understanding? What I imagine would happen, would either be nuclear destruction or straight up denial.

Has anyone had any experience with this and is it in theory possible to let a women become aware of their behaviour - and maybe even change it?