On one hand, I totally get the red pill. Then, I encounter someone in the wild, and I struggle so hard to understand their motives. I struggle so hard to figure out what some women want and are communicating. I think I just have these vestiges in my system that are like really deeply-rooted plants that I just need to pull out.

Maybe I should just trust the red pill ideas more and not think about it, but that's not a satisfying answer. I want to apply the red pill to the situation and actually understand the signs they're putting out instead of just having an assumption.

What do you do in this situation? Do you take your time to understand that one person who confuses the fuck out of you?

For an example, I ran into someone today who was "just seeing what's out there" and was rather willing to talk to me despite her saying she's not interested in me. So much of her fit a pattern of someone else I know, and I think girls of this type are rather broken creatures. They cannot see a duality in people, so you are categorized. If you want to hook up with this person, be prepared for a lot of boring conversation that's nothing but game.

I see them being the type that really struggles to ever have a long-term relationship. I think TRP calls it the alpha widow. Not sure if it's the same concept or if they're just related.