Higher SMV = Less ASD and LMR?

abdada · 2018-05-06T15:55:29+00:00

It kinda does but not really. I know some pretty high SMV guys (one's a semi-famous musician, the other is a semi-famous actor) and both say that ASD is just as bad as it was when they were nobodies.

ASD happens for one reason: outcome dependence. The fact is, the minute that the walls go up, it's no longer relevant to push through it if you have many other options. If you don't have a booty call who arrives on demand, you need a few of those. That way, if ASD comes up too strongly you just point her to the door and call the booty call and soft next the ASD gal. Some ASD is normal, but too much is too exhausting and not worth dealing with.

LMR is the same -- it's not worth doing the PUA method of pushing through it if you have options. Some LMR is natural, too much is not worth it. Call your booty calls and have them come over -- bonus points if the booty call coming in passes the ASD on her way out.

alpha-zach · 2018-05-06T16:23:28+00:00

Most ASD happens because they don’t want to feel like a slut tomorrow or be known as one in their social circles.

Social circles is why isolating is key.

For their personal ego tomorrow they have to hamster something on their own. “It just happened in the moment. Outcome independence helps tremendously here.

But a third, I’ve also found ASD and LMR happen when they see beta provider opportunities.

They know a high SMV man won’t marry a slut. He wants her to be his slut but not everyone else’s. So if they see some provider opportunities. They can freeze and be unsure about how they are portraying themselves.

I read about a wealthy guy who could never close in his million dollar home. So he got a small 1 bed apartment. Closed every time after that.

For absurdly high SMV they know it’s just their turn so they won’t freeze more than normal unless they think they have a chance. But if SMV is just right 2:1/2.5:1. They’ll freeze every time in hopes of locking down a future for themselves.

Title	Higher SMV = Less ASD and LMR?
Author	TRPAndNofapGotMeLaid
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Date	May 6, 2018 3:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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