I'm a male coming out of a relationship with the girl I fully expected to be "the one". She ended up being mentally and physically abusive to the point where I legitimately thought I was the shittiest man on the planet. How the hell do I get my life back together? crosspost from r/GetMotivated

BlueCollarAristocrat · 2015-12-15T00:30:07+00:00

Admit that she never loved you, there are shitty people in this world, that none of it was your fault, that she gaslighted you, and that there is nothing wrong with you at all.

Go live for yourself and be selfish for a while. In time, the pain will subside to manageable levels and eventually disappear entirely. It takes a while when you invest yourself so heavily in another you love. It shows your normal. You need to understand and accepts that who you loved was a lie. Who she portrayed herself to be to you never existed.

stopyourBull · 2015-12-15T07:07:10+00:00

stop determining your self worth by the feelz you get from a woman. if a woman can make you feel low then you have no self worth and are codependent on other view of you.

mara5a · 2015-12-15T09:28:32+00:00

/r/TheRedPill don't know if you heard of it or not. If you have heard the stuff that is generally spread across the internet go on and try to make your own opinion.
It's in a nutshell about bettering yourself, achieving the goals you set for yourself and treating yourself with respect instead of thinking women as deities.

sillymod · 2015-12-15T12:21:07+00:00

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