This night me and a couple of my co workers went out for dinner (me 19, they 23,24,55 yo)

Im kinda interested on dating the 24 one but she aparently has a "trauma" on her last bf of 3 years she only appears to be after a ltr (prob cause im way Younger, frames needs work and a couple of workout too, things im already working on)

So, fast forwarding the dinner, wich was good (lots of eye contact, a bit of touching and some small chat), me and her were alone since the other ones left.

I know the "dont shit where you eat" rule and all the problem with ltr's but they are about to send me away (too inexperient) (its a part time supermarket so i can do better)

Anyways, we started talking, i told her what i wanted straight forward wich lead to a really long conversation (too long) In the end she basicly told me "maibye, but i would like you not to rush it" in wich i didnt take as a positive answer (been in that road before, dont want to go on it again), so i said it was a no deal, after that we chit chatted for a few more minutes and went our seperate ways.

Still i got a couple of sleepovers in some of my female friends in the next weeks (and a possible re-plate) wich is always a plus.

So, from 1 to 10 how much do you guys think i fucked it up?