Ive asked this question before and have gotten mixed replies and im still not sure about it.

Can you be succesfull with women as a nice guy but awhile holding frame and not dealing with her shit? Or do you need to fundamentally change who you are? As în becoming a dick most of the time while with her. Because i really dont think i can become a dick,it would just feel so bad,i would feel guilty constantly and there would Be huge dissonance in my head,since i really just wana treat her well and wana be treated well. But hey maybe i can change trough practice and get rid of those emotions?

I just wana be în a LTR,i feel like the player lifestyle really wouldnt suit me well.

Allso how do you stop developing feelings for women you hook up with ?