So shit tests are to test to see how strong you are and if you buckle under pressure? What happens if that shit test actually pisses the girl off. For instance, the girl wants to see you at a certain time and you say no I have things to do at that time so it will have to be later. She shit tests you by saying forget it then. You would obviously say cool ok let's forget it because you don't want to be seen as bending over backwards and doing what she says. If she then said something like well you can't really like me be cause you would make the time then how do you play that?