So... I swallowed the pill like one month ago. I was tired of all the girls bullshit so I wasn't spinning plates. I was talking to one girl though and she was pretty cool. So I asked her out on 2 dates. One date she cancelled because she was sick (it was no flake because she was actually in the hospital for a week). The second attempt I called her but she already had a BBQ planned and she proposed something else but I couldn't. So fast forward.. I started showing less interest and have been talking to other girls because oneitis sucks. I soft nexted my oneitis and lately she has been initiating a lot. Maybe it's a test for validation. I haven't been giving her a lot of attention so I don't come over as a beta orbiter. But tonight I was actually gonna have a movie night at my place. I was thinking about throwing her a text saying "Hey X, I'm gonna have a movienight around 7 pm, wanna join me?" or would it be better to call her? Right now I don't have oneitis for her anymore because I'm talking to a lot of girls but it's hard to meet with exams and stuff coming up now. Any advice is welcome.