1. Went on date with oneitis
  2. Closed on the 2nd date
  3. Went beta - had a huge argument
  4. She lost interest and played the 'I need space' card
  5. We ended up blocking one another after another argument

The thing is, we both attend similar events and meetups. She told me to not go on those events or meetups anymore and I laughed and told her I'm not putting my life on hold or not going and enjoying myself because of her.

Am I best off ignoring her completely or just being civil when I inevitably see her?

The girl I'm pretty serious with now is much more attractive, younger, and is nowhere near as insecure with issues as the girl who was my oneitis (woman approaching the wall). If I take her to one of the events/meetups then she will no doubt say something and cause a scene.

I know it's her loss in the end as she's almost at the wall and I'm doing well for myself. If she thinks she can do better then she has to live with the consequences of that. I just want to minimize the damage to what I have now and minimize any drama, if possible.

I'm actually really thankful to my oneitis because she helped me mature in a practical sense, and learn from those mistakes before I got involved with this new girl. Even after the arguments, there's no hard feelings at all.