She always says stuff that our relationship is too dramatic, and that I give her too much anxiety and that we are not well compatible because of reasons like this.

However she says she feels too dependant as well.

When I gave her a soft next a few days ago she had a tantrum but later wrote a note and left it on my car saying "I hate you but I love you".

After I ended the next and we spent the rest of the day together she says "I think I love you but I'm not sure because I never felt love before."

And I ask "Didn't you love your ex of 2 years"

And she says, "yes but not like this, this feels intense".

I'm not sure how to percieve it, she verbalizes that she hates the relationship and the tactics like dread that I play with her (she is aware I soft next her and do these on purpose she is smart).