It will be a good lesson to remember for me. We have met 3 month ago and from beginning I've held a frame and was max alpha as I could be. 2 month's was amazing , she was really into me, and wanted to be all the time together with me. However everything reversed when she once mentioned "what is between us". From beginning I thought about her as my LTR , so I said her " lets wait some time and we will see" .

I was so impatient and after 1 week I promoted her to my LTR(first time after high school). From there I started slipping to betaland, I never blindly followed all the TRP principles, but the first two weeks of LTR I even didnt follow my self. I became a little bit needy and other stuff. At first it looked like she really enjoyed it , but after one week she said no to sex twice, and flaked me once and it helped me to understand that she does not see me the same as she saw me before.

So after 2 weeks I realized she does not respect me anymore. So I started follow some TRP methods again and at first it looked like it worked but I got flaked today. and need advice how to react.

I wasn't paying attention for her the whole week, She asked to meet me few times( but I was busy) , and today in the daytime she wanted to meet but I said im busy (which I am ) and I offered to come over at evening . She happily agreed , and just talked about details when exactly she should come and etc. we agreed the time and 15 min before the time she text me

she : I'm not coming, ok?
me : ok

she : dont be mad
she : im going to sleep I'm very tired.
she : I had unsuccesfull day at work
me : okay goognight
she : goodnight

I'm not statisfied with the relationship anymore(I'd like to fix it or next it if not possible)

Am I only overreacting or I'm right for not being statisfied and I should 'soft next' her maybe' or continue dread game?