First post.

Ive been with my girlfriend for like 9 months, shes got back a few weeks ago from a trip to zambia that lasted 2 and a half months. When she got back, i picked her up from the airport and in the car she started saying she hasn’t felt any sexual urges for a ages, and that she wanted a bit of space. I thought this meant we were over, but she wanted me to stay the night, but sleep in a different bed (she had just been on a sleepless 18 hours flight). I stopped texting her for a bit, and then she said she missed me and loved me and shit. Idk what she wants, and im confused. We havent had sex since shes been back. So technically havet had sex in 3 months. I love her when shes good, but shes been really disinterested in me recently. We have shit planned for summer, so if she didnt want me i feel like she wouldve broken up with me and cancelled the plans but she hasnt.

I wanna know either how to win her back, or whether i should just break up with her.

I saw on her fb (shes logged into my laptop) that she messaged this just she used to have sex with, asking for his snapchat again. I dont know whether to confront her, as snooping is wrong ik. I know that when she was fucking that guy he had a gf, and on their messages he says hes just broken up with his gf.

Idk what to do. Pls help xxx