How do you avoid validating women?

FemtoG · 2018-06-01T22:41:22+00:00

It's called showing vulnerability to try for a deeper relationship.

It also 1000% doesn't matter. The true dynamics will be established afterwards, if she says yes. If she says no, the game is over anyway.

[deleted] · 2018-06-01T21:45:24+00:00

By establishing your value initially. You should validate women, validation is their drug. But only if the source of validation is from a high value guy. The paradox is that the more you validate her, the lower value she sees you as. So the key is to first establish your through teasing, negging, playfully disqualifying, aloofness etc, then when it feels natural give her some validation

DarkWhale___ · 2018-06-01T21:46:55+00:00

Asking a girl out is not beta at all. You’re openly putting yourself out there, that’s alpha. You don’t wanna worry about validating them all the time just don’t kiss their ass. Treat them as well as they treat you maybe a little worse so she working to improve the dynamic.

swimminginblue · 2018-06-01T21:39:21+00:00

You’re overthinking it.

[deleted] · 2018-06-02T00:28:37+00:00

You've decided she has enough initial attraction that you're willing to give her an interview to see if she qualifies for an internship doing a ride-along with your awesome life.

It's all about you.

Title	How do you avoid validating women?
Author	BobSagetV2
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	June 1, 2018 9:34 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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