Hi,

I just got out of a 2.5 year long relationship which ended pretty badly because I was too BP. I have recognized that and I've been lifting, meditating, take cold showers.

Today I went on a dinner with this girl and went out salsa dancing with her. We danced for a bit, had some fun, and as we were walking back, I didn't get any strong IOIs and so didn't make a move. I wonder if I was being too much of a nice guy. I teased her a bit but didn't do anything intense. I certainly did not go out of my way to do anything for her.

I just can't help but think I blew it today because I was too nice/BP. Any advice is appreciated.