Little background: I was in a 10 year relationship, broke up 2 years ago. Ever since, my entire focus was on myself and my business. Invited a girl out to an event and she said yes and asked me where I'd be staying. We both live far away from where the event is and she mentioned she will get a room and I should to. I recommend we split the room to save on costs, she agreed.

Some issues I have(ed)

  1. I don't hate condoms, but they never had worked for me in my 10 year relationship. Maybe it's all in mind, but I could just never get it up with a condom.

  2. I don't last that long unless I'm boozed up.

  3. I've always been one to get right into it, with little foreplay. How do you go about on knowing what she likes? Is it weird to ask or just take control and do what I want?

I can almost guarantee we will have sex and she has been trying to make plans with me for quite some time, I just haven't had the time.

ANY advice greatly appreciated!