? How to maintain FWB & treat her like shit just enough w/o going over the edge?

Nov51605 · 2018-06-07T16:20:55+00:00

You should be more concerned with making her happy so she makes you happy, and never treat a girl like shit. You use dread game when she is not making you happy in the way you want, and if she still isn't then you soft next. Never be disrespectful.

purplefidgetmidget · 2018-06-07T16:29:45+00:00

treat her like shit

Dunno have you tried punching her in the face? It sounds like it'd be a more effective way to get the abusive relationship you seem to think you want. /s

TRP is nothing to do with being abusive, you have evidently missed the point of it and sound like a terrible person.

TRP is about understanding that what feels right (stuff like white knighting, telling her she's a princess, being subservient to her needs etc.) is not what will make her happiest. It's not about being abusive. It's NOTHING about being abusive.

[deleted] · 2018-06-07T18:28:27+00:00

When I get treated like shit I ignore them and fuck other people, what do you think she's going to do?

If you want to keep things hot, don't spend too much time with her. Do things that are active but keep your distance apart from each other. Performance type hobbies are great for this, things where you dress in revealing things and use your body for strength or endurance.

Playing music is a good one, any sports.

Make sure you do many other things during the day and do not give her so much time that she gets too used to it or bored. When she sees you it is best if she is hungry [not starving] for your affection.

Don't always do the same things with her. Don't always kiss her fast and rip her clothes off. Sometimes do it all slow and soft, often start getting sexual then break off, say you are walking down a street and suddenly you take her in your arms and kiss her and push her up against a wall or pick her up and spin her around or put your hands down her pants for a cheeky squeeze.

If you charge her up often but don't actually have sex, when it does happen it can become much more intense and rewarding for both of you.

Research some light bdsm and try it with her.

Treat her like shit, boy do I want to hear your examples of this, as many different examples as you can give me.

zboo1h · 2018-06-07T17:13:45+00:00

Being "treated like shit" is what girls call "being treated like an adult with agency". I don't have any advice for you I just really like that fact.

Donman876 · 2018-06-07T17:26:00+00:00

Spin more plates and focus less on her, you don't have to treat her like shit just invest less time and attention. She's a FWB so you shouldn't be communicating much unless its fucking. Don't validate her and maintain your frame.

The__Tren__Train · 2018-06-07T18:54:35+00:00

you don't need to treat her like shit...

-just tease her (sometimes tease hard)

-don't get emotionally invested (don't show much interest when she is ranting or lamenting her problems)

-apply dread but make sure you aren't overt about it (don't just bring up other girls to 'try to make her jealous'.. that's beta highschool shit)

-only spend (a little bit of) money on her when she does something that you REALLY appreciate.

Nov51605 · 2018-06-07T19:18:19+00:00

Excellent posts - def alot to apply!

Title	? How to maintain FWB & treat her like shit just enough w/o going over the edge?
Author	Nov51605
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	June 7, 2018 4:12 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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