Hey guys. Could use your advice here. LTR of 1 year went on vacation with her father to their home country for a month to see their family. 3 weeks in, she becomes distant and sad, says she wants to stop having sex for a while because she had some weird discharge after her period (this has happened before, it is old blood coming out after a menstrual cycle), then she asks "do you think we should take a break until I get back, you have your space I have mine". I went radio silent after reading that, 3 days later my phone is blowing up, she says the reason she wanted a break was because a family member there was dying (fact) and i "wasn't there to support her through it" (we are in 2 different time zones she is hours asleep when I'm getting ready for bed, leaving not much time for contact throughout the day)

Obviously you guys know what I'm getting at. My gut tells me something went down that I am not aware of. This is the first time the word "break" was ever mentioned. The only thing I've said since reading that was "talk to you soon". I know the sidebar says watch what she does, not what she says. Best course of action?