I'm not trying to be too deep here or anything but it's pretty obvious to me if you thought about it truly. We all know their are things out of our control but we FEEL instead like other things are, like our choices. We do not know for sure either way, but like I said we know their are things we cannot control. People act otherwise but only to not realize ironically that they could have no other choice but to believe it. If a person is a "defeatist" and gives up then it was fated or pre determined.

Saying you believe the blackpill is negative and pointless because It is just used as an excuse to not put in effort only implies that free will exists without have any tangible proof that it does. That the outcome will change by me trying hard enough. If someone actually does literally "nothing" they would still be compelled to eat, drink water, not be bored, take a shit, pee, etc. You are compelled to do these things whether you like it or not. If you want to give up and do so it's because it's the only compelling option you could of taken.

Their is nothing you could do that will change the outcome but I understand the frustration of feeling like you can do something about it only to be met with failure after failure. Effort and trying means nothing, results are everything. People who have girlfriends typically didn't get them by becoming self actualized, self improvement, and as perfect as they can be. They got it organically and by mere luck.

Truth is if you were born like them a normie or neurotypical in their same environment, brain, body, personality, parents, opportunities, etc you would be exactly like them and vice versa. You would also believe the same shit that they do against you. The reason I will never be loved and have the sex with women I desire is because I was doomed from birth, from my inception. We are the just the millions of sperms that couldnt compete and reach the egg while they did. Chad and other men are either superior to me genetically or more lucky, but that's one in the same perhaps anyway.

I guess concepts like Free will or self improvement exist to us because we are conscious and compelled to have a tribalistic nature, to struggle, survive, compete, and be compliant to propagate the spieces.