having a victim complex is unattractive

hutavan · 2022-12-25T00:59:04+00:00

It's hard to care about this one specific trait that makes you unattractive when you already possess more than you can count. Good on you for trying to improve yourself. I agree victimizing is an unattractive trait and if there's a chance for you in the dating market then it's a good idea to stop bitching and give it a serious go. However, for a lot of us dropping this one unattractive trait wouldn't change anything. For me, I'd still be short, ugly, effeminate and years behind my peers in social skills, sexual experience, flirting experience, you name it. At some point you can no longer catch up.

HateSpeechFanBoy · 2022-12-24T23:39:41+00:00

Acknowledging the truth doesn’t mean you are a victim

holdmebebi · 2022-12-24T21:08:46+00:00

i'm mostly trolling here tbh but this time i'm giving an actual serious advice here:

it's fine to adress whatever problem you have with the way society is going, or with your own personal experiences, however, you have to adapt and live your life at some point, i'm trying to follow this advice myself so i'm studying art, trying to healthmaxx with medicine, going to try looksmaxxing and try to get more social when i'm not as busy with my school.

no_bling_just_ding · 2022-12-24T15:33:38+00:00

are you sure you didn't intend to post this on /r/jordanpeterson

PuertoRock007 · 2022-12-25T10:26:49+00:00

Before you can fix a problem, you have to be aware that a problem exists. But agree that men shouldn't voice it.

RatDontPanic · 2022-12-27T16:41:18+00:00

Unless you're a woman, then 1000 simps line up to kill each other to prove who cares the most about you.

Fuck this shithole planet.

Title	having a victim complex is unattractive
Author	holdmebebi
Upvotes	5
Comments	16
Date	December 24, 2022 2:57 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
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