Every now and then I come across a man trying to present himself as "non-hateful incel" or an virgin "who's not like the other incels and isn't misogynistic or violent". Bullshit. We should never be dishonest about our completely valid sexual frustration just so we can obtain the pity of some virtue-signaling normies who will never do anything to uplift us from our situation anyway.

The only reason these normies might occasionally shed some crocodile tears if we present ourselves as "non-hateful" is because they're deluded to only recognize the type of victims represented in the media. People tend to view victims as more morally virtuous than aggressors. They think the "right" victims are those who are peace-loving, submissive, innocent souls who want nothing more than redress and justice. Anyone who doesn't fit this trope is actually "evil, entitled, a defeatist with a woe is me attitude" (they then project traits on us to invalidate our victimhood to feel better at turning a blind eye to us - that we only want sex, that we only want hot women - no matter how baseless these claims are are). But this couldn't be farther from the truth. Victims are assholes and hardly always react to their situation with nothing but sorrow. We're also frustrated, disenchanted, disgruntled, and bitter. A victim in the real world is less like a disheveled father pleading for international aid on a VICE documentary and more like a frustrated young man who signs up to be an ISIS militant for the promise of a bride and economic fortune. Why should we all be the same innocents that the media presents us to be?

These virtue-signaling normies like to think they're "above us" morally when we fully know they would talk like us, post on these subreddits like us, and have the same violent thoughts as us if they were ever put in our place since the only reason why they don't is because the worst hasn't been brought of them by their circumstances (In fact we already seen signs on this platform that women are the same).

But more importantly, we know normies secretly believe we don't deserve to be in this condition. We can see that with the sympathy offered to introverted, socially-awkward losers who say they're "not misogynistic" but just want to have "romantic love with one woman and have a family", but not those who put that alongside a vitriolic rant about being a nice guy to blow off steam. We don't don't need any of their pity for our frustration to be valid. Be honest and authentic: yes, we feel entitled to relationships with women and view them as objects of sexual desire - 3.42 billion years of evolution has led up to that. Yes, we view women as trophies - why do they use virgin or incel as an insult if they themselves didn't see themselves as rewards and the implication that men who can't obtain those rewards lacking in some aspect?

So yes, our suffering is all valid no matter how we present ourselves.