Technically an incel is a man who cannot acquire sex from women but I think guys in deadbedrooms, guys who have been divorce raped, guys who's marriages failed, guys who get cheated on, should not necessarily be counted as pure "incels" but still we should acknowledge it's over for some people who do manage to gain sex and relationships.

The "it's over" and "it never began" can't only be applied to guys who never had any experience with women, it's still over for guys who get divorce raped or deadbedroomed. Or worse, looking at the Kouri Richins case, guys who get killed.

There are guys who are getting married right now who have no idea their wife is a demon.

It's over even if it is not over.