Benefits to being blackpilled

Southern_Fall983 · 2023-10-04T11:38:34+00:00

There’s benefits to knowing truth in every aspect. If I go to a carnival and keep spending money on the basketball game there, and if I continue to lose despite decent form in my shot - I’m going to question whether or not there’s anything else keeping me from winning (overinflated ball, misshaped rim at higher than regulation/what I’m used to, etc.) If I find out this is the case and thus the game’s rigged to the point where it’s keeping me from winning at least some of the time, I’m going to stop playing

LIGMAMALEINC · 2023-10-04T12:48:03+00:00

When I was a teenager (14-15 years old) I noticed that which guys were popular in highschool was directly correlated who had hit puberty the earliest and hardest. The tallest, biggest and most mature looking guys were the most popular -with girls, but also socially. Conversely, all the bullied dweebs just so happened to be the guys who were experiencing a delayed puberty and still looked like 12 year olds at the age of 16.
I didn't matter how anybody behaved or what their personality was.
Either way, I belonged more closely to the latter camp, so naturally I was very frustrated. Especially because up until this point I had always been quite extroverted and confident, but now that there were these huge discrepancies between physicality between people, it's like I wasn't allowed to express that. I had exactly the same personality as the outgoing popular guy, but it wasn't being perceived that way because he looked like a grown man and I was 5'2 and looked like a kid.

I found this whole realization extremely oppressive; that the ability to act within the world was highly constrained by your genetics. My behavior and personality didn't matter at all, and there's nothing I could do to change anything, it was all at the behest of my body.
Then towards the end of high school, I finally (physically) matured a bit and instantly saw first hand how it affected my life. But even after a growth spurt I was still relatively short, and facially I was a HTN at best so it's not like I ascend into a Chad, I was still being throttled by my genetics -just confirming my early realization.

Then to top it off I had a friend all throughout this time, who like me was a little bit of a late bloomer and physically similar, yet with a much more naturally introverted personality, who literally grew into a 6'3 Chad (he went on to do legit modeling work after high school), and I saw how it affected his life. For me that was the cherry on top and final confirmation that I needed that personality truly doesn't matter and that genetics are the biggest influence on your life.

But all of this went unmentioned, nobody ever seemed to talk about the importance of genetics, or seemed to share my observations. It's like there was a giant wheel of cheese floating in the sky, but nobody ever seemed to acknowledge it, and just coped with astrophysics instead (r*tarded analogy, but hopefully it makes sense).
Everywhere I went (online and offline) I saw people talking about pick up lines, charisma, fashion, personality, certain behaviors anything but the oppressive realization that the body you inhabit seemingly dictates everything you do in life. So when I found the blackpill actually openly talking about genetic determinism, it's like I found Jesus.

It took a huge psychological load of my shoulders (even though I wasn't even an inkler anymore at that point, but just the fact that were other people who acknowledged the giant wheel of cheese in the sky was a huge relief).

SmoothForest · 2023-10-04T14:11:08+00:00

Lies feel good in the short term, but hurt in the long term.

Truth hurts in the short term, but helps you in the long term.

The bluepill is the equivalent of a sugary sweet. The blackpill is the equivalent of a bitter vegetable.

kunstbar · 2023-10-04T15:53:22+00:00

I can't see any downsides to knowing the rules of a game

EverVigilant1 · 2023-10-04T15:54:20+00:00

Just knowing the truth about women, dating, sex, and intersexual dynamics is a huge benefit.

ZookeepergameTasty12 · 2023-10-04T18:16:51+00:00

Tbh it just makes me feel better to know that there are hundreds of millions, or even billions, of incels out there just like me.

I cant imagine how brutal being an incel was before the internet.

bleachpilled · 2023-10-04T18:51:17+00:00

Being blackpilled isn’t as bad as many make it out to be. Some people (myself) can handle the truth and what comes with it. Many can’t. Once you accept reality and the truth it isn’t that bad.

fakachaka47 · 2023-10-04T21:21:39+00:00

The true blackpill is genetic determinism and the brutality of nature

Your life as an organism on this planet would've been much better if you were born with more money/power in some form(looks,height,intelligence,talent) etc.

Religion, morality, everyone is amazing and special and equal. Its all cope.

In nature a select few of each species get to reap the majority of the rewards (pro athletes, bezos etc). The rest are just cogs in nature's machine to churn forward the survival of the species. They arent meant to enjoy their lives or be happy, that's why it seems so desperate and fleeting to chase happiness. The inequality in the world will never be fixed by any - ism or laws. Because its inherent.

slackforce · 2023-10-04T15:40:22+00:00

Absolutely! I'm a bit too old to subscribe to the "pill" lexicon, but I came to these conclusions many years before "pills" were a thing.

I think it entirely depends on the person, though. Obviously. A good argument can be made that this worldview is harmful to certain types of people...especially younger guys. But I also don't think it's harmful to everybody, which is what a lot of detractors argue. For some people ignorance truly is bliss, but that's not the case for people like us.

I had a friend in high school that was about as short as me (5'5") that wasn't very attractive facially. He had a growth spurt around grade 11/12 that shot him up to around 6', as crazy as that sounds. He was still...well, ugly, but he went from being even more invisible than me to casually dating multiple girls at the same time. For the first time in his life! That increase in attention also came with an increase in his ego, and he treated those girls poorly. After we graduated, he cheated on his then-girlfriend, got his car keyed by her, and then proceeded to date her friend while still hooking up with the girl that keyed his car. And they both knew it! He's a loyal dad and husband now, but for a good 10 years he acted this way.

This all happened in the early 00's, and although I had heard plenty of comments about my height from girls growing up, it was this specific example that permanently changed the way I think. Here was concrete proof that the absolute #1 priority to many women was a meaningless physical characteristic.

University only solidified that notion.

West-Advice · 2023-10-04T17:56:50+00:00

I feel more free. Meaning, since I know looks are basically everything, i feel less pressure to be swept away by bluepill/redpill copes. No taking 1000 hours to learn seduction and game or develop a "personality".

Sounds like depression my dude. Self improvement isn’t a cope…well everything is a cope..but self improvement gets money, pussy and a better life.

No being pressured to change my political views to get women like a male feminist or anything like that.

Lol are you like a nazi or something? Why would you have to do any of that shit? Women have pretty diverse political views.

I also feel like I can be more myself around women, since i know nothing will come of it anyway.

Funny enough being relaxed and just hanging out will help you get lady better than most things.

If anything I want to spend less time around them now haha.

Don’t go full neckbeard bro

Also I feel more free to pursue the interests I like because I know they have little effect on dating outcomes.

I mean dude, YOU SHOULD BE LIVING YOUR LIFE FOR YOU. IF YOU LIKE DOTA, FIND A GIRL WHO’S COOL WITH IT.

I feel more in control of my dating life. I know where I stand and I know what to do to make gains in that area (looksmaxxing mainly but also status/moneymaxxing).

So nothing has changed and don’t forget personality…unless you’ve given up on it

Before I felt like I did not know what was going on and kept receiving mixed messages from different people but the blackpill gives me a concrete ideological foundation to make good dating decisions.

What type of mixed messages and isn’t black pill just whinny like a bitch that some woman are bitches?

I feel more knowledgeable. I'm better able to predict and infer dating outcomes and give good explanations to why certain things occur in dating dynamics compared to when i was redpilled.

Please share the info learned from grannyfishing lol

I feel redpill focuses too much on alpha/beta behaviour and severely downplays looks and genetics.

I agree with that, however going outside and improving your money, looks, status, mental health, personal relationship, ect is the real answer

What do you guys think? What are some benefits to being blackpilled for you?

I mean isn’t black pilled just classic giving up, with blaming inherent things as the reason why…then complaining about it?

sahyl97 · 2023-10-05T12:19:26+00:00

True. Blackpill is true freedom. I don't have to worry about marriage or kids or responsibilities. I can just do what I want and enjoy life for what it is without anyone interrupting me.

Title	Benefits to being blackpilled
Author	Critiqu3r
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Date	October 4, 2023 11:03 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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