Everyone has seen catfishing experiments where old women and obese women do well on Tinder. But the realest realitypills are the ones you experience yourself.

As an Asian guy, I was getting 1-3 matches a day on Tinder, and most of them were single moms or bots.

I decided to pull an uno reverse. Although my face has been rated as a 6.5 on photofeeler, it is very feminine. So I applied a light makeup filter on snapchat. No eyeliner, just the most basic foundation and a bit of rouge on the cheeks. I photoshopped some long hair into the photos and made my profile.

My fucking god. As faceandlms said, it became an administrative nightmare to keep up with the DMs. Tall white racist chads were filling my DMs, and in 2 days, I had over a thousand matches.

Yeah, everyone knows the stats, but to think that my literal looksmatch with the exact same face as me has this much abundance in dating is unreal, especially considering that I've had almost no luck as a 5'7, Asian, and autistic guy.

Really demotivated me but what I can I do except continue to work out and stay healthy?