"Meaningless relationships with these young women who he has nothing in common with, who he never has a good, deep conversation with. Drunk, meaningless sex with them on his flashy expensive boat, honestly it's pathetic. I'd feel bad for him if he wasn't such a pig. Bottling up his feelings to conform to some gross, objectifying macho propaganda about what men are supposed to want. I promise you you don't want to end up like that, trust me he's the real loser here. What you need to do is open up about your feelings, be honest with yourself, that's what true bravery is."

“Well truthfully, I feel like a loser, I don't have the things I want in my life. I want the women, I want the sex, I want the fun one night stands. That's how I really feel"

"I'm telling you, you don't want that. People like him prey on vulnerable men, trying to convince you what you're supposed to want. They don't give a shit about your actual happiness. Not having sex doesn't make you a loser, you have to get that into your stubborn brain, through all the patriarchal conditioning. As long as you're happy and fulfilled, you're not a loser."

"I'm not happy or fulfilled at all"

“This is getting old, listen, what I'm trying to help you understand is that what you think you want is-