When i was still in school, i managed to find a gf by joining a local skateboard park. i didn't know any ''game'' or any of that, but when i think back it were a lot of little neat things in play, like ''push-pull'', acting disinterested etc

I feel like nowadays most of it is dead, girls in niche circles rarely interact with average guys beyond technical stuff, and why would they when they can mate with the most attractive guy in town with a swipe of a finger.

Also any wrong thing you do as an avg guy can be the end. If you try to make a joke and she finds it offensive she might be done with you. Why put any effort if another guy who is taller, better looking etc than you is around the corner? And not one but an entire box of them, just pick your favorite.

idk