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Whelming...the phenomenon where potential matches on dating apps complain about feeling overwhelmed with the sheer amount of other matches they are getting.

Coaltolls

May 4, 2023
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Wonder which gender might be doing that 🤔

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Title Whelming...the phenomenon where potential matches on dating apps complain about feeling overwhelmed with the sheer amount of other matches they are getting.
Author

Coaltolls

Upvotes 4
Comments 1
Date May 4, 2023 11:12 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/1383b1q/whelmingthe_phenomenon_where_potential_matches_on/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/AllPillDebate/whelmingthe-phenomenon-where-potential-matches-on.1218065
https://theredarchive.com/post/1218065
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[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A female writer calls out women for this. My jaw, it has fallen and I can't pick it up...

From making OnlyPlans to cause-playing, mid-mute dating to side-barring, dating app lingo sure keeps us on our toes! Whelming, however, is one trend that we are thoroughly sick of. It's described as the phenomenon where potential matches on dating apps complain about feeling overwhelmed with the sheer amount of other matches they are getting. Whelming is therefore a glorified term for bragging, which sex and relationship expert for LoveHoney Annabelle Knight tells Cosmopolitan is an exercise in showing off "about how attractive they are and making you feel you should be grateful that they're even engaging with you."

Nailed that shit so hard you'd think she was Saitama.

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