CMV : RP's standards mainly filter out high libido/mutual attraction and lead to transactional relationships/ dead bedroom and is a terrible dating tactic

5 points•17 comments•submitted by Jazzlike_Worth_9908 to r/PurplePillDebate

Asking for a girl with a low bodycount,who never had any casual relationships, who wont fuck with you until 5+ date etc etc or she's deemed a worthless 304

Coupled with using money and status in order to get women is imo a terrible dating tactic. It weeds out any genuine interest.

I want my girlfriend to be genuinely attracted to me, i dont want her to be going after my ressources. Therefore i'd never use my ressources as an early asset and i'd never reject a girl for being attracted to me "too soon" that doesnt make sense. I dont care about bodycount since it's a consequence of enjoying sex and i dont bother casual sex either as long as i know she's satisfied with me. These women crave for sex, wont reject me when i initiate and are much more easy to please and to give an orgasm to, it rly feels the best.

That's my current gf,we slept together on first date she's always down for it and actually initiates sex most of the time, she cums 1 to 3 times per act. I'd be RP minded i would have rejected her for having a high bodycount and imo that would have been a huge mistake.

If it's about the likelyhood of cheating then i'd say it's easy to tell when a woman is satisfied with you or not. If i was unable to make her cum i'd definitely worry but that's not the case also cheating isnt about having libido but about being frustrated and a terrible human being, there are many other ways to figure that out than just a bodycount

Maybe weeding out genuine attraction is actually the end goal. Would make sense for someone who believes he cant generate that in a women. Then they aim for women who cant feel genuine attraction so they wont cheat and they're open to transactional relationship as it's the only thing they know. Then asking for low bodycount makes sense too. But it ends up in dead bedrooms and divorces if you lose your job since you lose the reason for the transaction and imo it leads to a lot of cheatings too.

Is it fueled by jealousy from never partaking in the fun ? The fear from comparison ? Maybe it is only in order to improve your chances by paying women?

But then it makes so many of you resentful for choosing to pay all the bills hoping she'd reciprocate with sex and then mad when it doesnt happen. I split bills they owe me nothing it's so much healthier. It also serves me as a filter, if a woman refuses a date because i mentionned going dutch, i most likely dont want her.

Tbh idk, i see no positive in the RP dating approach and i firmly believe it's a recipe for disaster.