I’ve been with my wife 13 years, a stepdad to her 3 kids now 17,20,23. It’s been a rough 13 because I was raised different than she was and we didn’t always see eye to eye. I love my family and with all my heart but I’ve always felt like it was them and then me. She’s never really had my back when I disagree with something that involves the kids. As a matter of facts she tries to discipline me more than them, that’s where it all goes to shit because I don’t let her get away with being that way to me. Anyway their older now and the 2 oldest do t wanna fly the coop, I get it they’re still young but damn if you’re going to stay living with us you need to contribute more than just buying your own groceries. So lately it’s just been wearing me out because we not only don’t see eye to eye on them moving out because she want a house full of family but we have the 2 oldest kids boyfriend / girlfriend living with us too. I’m ok with it as long as everyone contributes but it’s more of a they do what they can when they can and until then I guess I’ll be broke paying all the bills while they go out to eat and buy unnecessary things. I bite my tounge but a few days ago it got pretty crazy I was accused of being rude when I wasn’t then here comes my wife questioning me like I’m a child and it all went to shit asap, I got upset it turned into a big shit show and long story short I was to blame my wife for upset and put her hands on me and shoved me. I’m not crying about the shoving it didn’t hurt but the fact that she thought to put her hands on me while angry made me say fuck that and I’m ready to go, once it gets to that point it times to get out of there then you start thinking about all the other stuff that has happened like her calling me some mean shit while arguing that I have never said to her. I feel like I’m just here to pay bills and feel like I’m alone in a house full of people. So as much as I love them I’m getting an apartment next week and going on down the road. I don’t know where I’m going with this I just felt like I had to vent. I keep trying to convince myself to feel bad and stay but I’m tired fellas I’m fucking exhausted and I don’t really feel the love never really have 100%. Anyone else going through this?