Hey guys, it's me again. I wanted to share something I found that should be a great help if your SBX is trying to take your time with the kids without any valid evidence. So quick backstory my ex is fighting like hell to take the kids and she has no valid reason to other than her own emotions and insecurities. I found a dissertation by a Dr. Linda Nielsen, who is a Subject Matter Expert in child custody in the courts in her area and a Early Childhood Development Psychologist. She reviewed and compiled over 60 separate private and government funded research reports on the impacts of divorce and custody sharing. The lowdown of everything is unless you ruthlessly beat your children, touch them or smoking dope with them is he your best interest of the children to have 50/50 shared custody and it will greatly reduce the negative impacts the children develop. You can find her report online for free. If my custody goes to court plan on providing this report to the judge stating the one my soon-to-be ex has no evidence for reason to deny me 50/50 and it is scientifically proven in the best interest of the children.