Okay I say I found out today , but I think I knew a year and a half ago. Devastated and feel like I can exhale. Glad my youngest is graduating in May and already let her know when we sell the house , I just want enough to pay a loan we took out for the house. Just don’t know how to operate during this time we are in the same house. We are keeping it respectful and congenital. Just after almost 27 years together ( 25th anniversary coming up) moving on just feels weird and relief at the same time. Glad I went through therapy for a year also when i first thought it was over. I am dealing with it a lot better than I thought I would but let’s see what tomorrow brings.

Any tips or advice would be appreciated.