Has anyone ever filed and gone through months of the process and ended up reconciling and it actually helping? I filed and we are in month 3. Wife has been gone for about 2 months. We have 2 daughters (17,10) and have been married 18 years. I understand how hard it is and how it’s gonna get better eventually, but was wondering if anyone in similar situation reconciled and it was better?

I’ve talked with woman but haven’t done anything, I know she’s been talking to guys and I honestly don’t want details. There are some other factors but those are the main ones. Any advice?