Hey all. Title is not all the accurate.

My wife is leaving me. Makes more than me but has a ton of student loans that she’s been paying off during our marriage. We pretty much have been doing 50/50 expenses the whole time, however Ive been doing most of the childcare. I struggle in finding what’s fair. We have two young kids and just bought a house.

What do I do? Ask for what is entitled to me or do what she thinks is fair - give her money out of the house and walk away??

Thanks.