44 yo here wife picked up and left while I was at work . She took the day off on st Patrick’s day was supposed to be going to the doctors for pain in her stomach . I forgot something at home asked if she could bring it to me , which she did met me at work gave me a kiss said I love you and see you later . 2 hours later she her family showed up at the house grabbed some of her belongings and went to my 12 yo daughters school scooped her up and took her to her family’s in Michigan . Left my 16 yo daughter here because she refused to meet up with her because she didn’t want to leave her home . Been a lil over a month now we were together for 22 years . Now lost in this trying to keep my shit together and pay all the bills for our home and everything. It’s like landing on mars with no map just trying going through the motions of work and home trying to keep my daughter that is there held together through out 10 to 20 min video chat trying to do it every night . Then trying to keep her siblings that out here from destroying themselves I have 8 children 6 are grown but they are all going through it . It’s a daily struggle but at times I feel like I am running out of glue for all the cracks I don’t ever air my stuff for others but I am so lost at what to do . Looking for a lawyer and all the logistics in this .