Hey fellas. I separated after 16 years. Was pretty tough. One Sunday After about 3 weeks I didn't get to see my kids for the first time and it wrecked me. Was feeling so lonely that I went on dating app for the first time ever.

My first match turned out to be the perfect woman. Similar mindsets and values and everything I'd been desiring for years. Only drawback is she lives 2 hours away. Met physically for the first time this week and was just as good in person.

My self sabotaging brain says I don't deserve to be happy again and my logical brain says it cannot happen this easily. But this lady has healed me in ways I couldn't imagine.

Has anyone had similar circumstances? Am I fucked