I'm been married for 7 years. Have 2 young kids. My wife and I can't see I to I on things and I feel not important in the relationship. We're not good at communicating partly because we have nothing in common anymore. I'm almost 30 I got her pregnant my junior year in college and quit school to take care of a baby. I love my kids they're my number one but I can't do this relationship anymore any time I try to help out it's not appreciated it's seen more as stepping on her toes. I've been the one working full time the past 7 years she can't keep a job if something goes hard she just gives up and quits. Now trying to homeschool a child and it's not going too well I tried to help out with making a curriculum for her and an a schedule and her response was "do you think I can't home school him?" She's always this way doesn't appreciate the help she's given doesn't appreciate me giving up school, friends, a good career path to raise a family. I'm tired of being the sole worker with no degree the income is tight and it's stressful. We aren't a fighting couple we just keep our thoughts to ourselves not to piss the other off. If I say something to her about how something made me mad she gets all emotional then I look like the bad guy. My biggest concern is my kids. They are ny number 1 I don't want to go a single day without coming home to them. But the house is her dad's so if I leave I have nowhere to go. Don't make enough to pay for an apt they're outrageous now and though I'm not happy my kids are and I don't want to hurt their happiness. What do I do. How do I preceed? I do not love her like I used to anymore. I don't know how to start the conversation I mean we had a discussion early then afterwards she gives me a kiss and is like I love you... it's the middle of the day I'm working from home I don't have time to start up a conversation so I say it back and that's that. But I don't feel it anymore. I just need advice with my kids they're boys age 7 and 4