Hello. It's been a month (as the title says) since i (32M) broke up with my wife. We have had many comes and goes for the last year. Most of the time i'm being blamed for everything, it seems like one couldn't have a healthy disagreement, because that means you are stupid and labeled as aggressive for not ducking my head and accept things that are not true just because she thinks so? But the cherry on top was that she alleged that i had taken money from her bank account (which i didn't) but insisted until she realized that: "how could i have taken that money if i have been nothing but a good father and a supportive figure to her?" Seriously? Like who the F blames you like that without having proofs?

Nowadays, she continues to create a big deal about everything: she says i don't support her enough, although i having been supporting her financially with a moderate amount of money because she's been having a bad financial streak. That i mistreat her because i haven't say "thank you" enough times for the suportive she has given to me; but when i do say that it has been both ways, im told that flinging stuff in her face. And the most awful thing is from time to time im being labaled as a bad father altough all i do is work and spend time with my family; i think it's used as a resource to disqualify me or attack me.

My questions are: How to deal with someone that makes trouble even for the smallest things? How to deal with this constant desqualification, critics and ambivalence?

Thank you very much.